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maat -> RE: Trouble having orgasims.. (9/22/2009 2:52:49 PM)
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I think kalista made a good point. "trying not to focus on the orgasm".
The less i think about the result the easyer it is. i have to be able to compleatly just let go. Not be goal orientated at all. Eaven if i dont cum i still love every moment that leads upp to it. in the begining of my relationship it was harder for me to get there simply cuz i had so many hangups about basicaly everything. How is the lighting, is everything ok, what do i look like, shuld i do this or that. Do i make to much/to litle noice. Well, once i let all of that go and just allowed myself to be things went alot easyer for me.
And as always.. comunication. Talk to echother. i like this, not that, i feel this when you do/ dont cum. Not to orgasm isent the end of the world and realy dont meen the sex was bad. Its just the icing on the cake. The cake is still going to be great on its own.
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