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Eigenaar -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 12:50:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn Aside from the question of "how do you serve someone on Facebook", I'm also left with a thought that I just thought I'd share (my reason for responding to this thread). I have a few bdsm friends who I have friended on Facebook, and I understand that they often post bdsm-related things. At first, this concerned me because my vanilla friends see all my updates and such, but then I started to think to myself that if someone is actually my friend, then seeing that stuff shouldn't really scare them away. I have a few friends from high school days who appear to be very religious, and it's interesting that they're probably reading some "interesting" stuff from my other friends. I would assume that my bdsm friends might wonder why my overly religious friends are posting that kind of stuff as well. I don't get what you are saying about very religious friends reading ''interesting'' stuff posted by bdsm friends and the latter wondering about overly religious friends posting the same stuff.

DarkSteven -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 2:05:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: afterforever I was curious how on earth someone can serve a Mistress on Facebook (and I still really hope the OP comes back to answer that) so I did a search, and apparently there are plenty of groups and even a couple of applications relating to BDSM. Who knew. It never would have occurred to me to do anything kinky on Facebook, it's one thing for my little brother to know I'm kinky, quite another for him to see it every time he's online. I'll be darned. Learn something new every day.

theRose4U -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 2:30:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: afterforever I was curious how on earth someone can serve a Mistress on Facebook (and I still really hope the OP comes back to answer that) so I did a search, and apparently there are plenty of groups and even a couple of applications relating to BDSM. Who knew. It never would have occurred to me to do anything kinky on Facebook, it's one thing for my little brother to know I'm kinky, quite another for him to see it every time he's online. But is that something you would want you boss, co-workers or a potential employer to possible see? With facebook it's not uncommon for potential employers to search your name and email address for anything "that might embarass them" and legally they don't have to tell you they did it.

thishereboi -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 2:38:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daintydimples Okay, I know I'm old and out of it, but how exactly does one serve a Mistress on facebook? Do you play Mafia Wars for her? I'm so very confused. No, you play farmville, then you can set up each mistress as a neighbor and go over to their farms and weed for them. I think they let you have as many neighbors as you want so he could be serving all kinds of women on there.

thishereboi -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 2:43:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: theRose4U quote: ORIGINAL: afterforever I was curious how on earth someone can serve a Mistress on Facebook (and I still really hope the OP comes back to answer that) so I did a search, and apparently there are plenty of groups and even a couple of applications relating to BDSM. Who knew. It never would have occurred to me to do anything kinky on Facebook, it's one thing for my little brother to know I'm kinky, quite another for him to see it every time he's online. But is that something you would want you boss, co-workers or a potential employer to possible see? With facebook it's not uncommon for potential employers to search your name and email address for anything "that might embarass them" and legally they don't have to tell you they did it. A prospective employer could find my name on facebook, but unless I give them access, they can't find out anything from it. They can also search any email addresses I give them, but honestly, do you think I would give them the one I use on kinky sites?

theRose4U -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 2:46:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: theRose4U quote: ORIGINAL: afterforever I was curious how on earth someone can serve a Mistress on Facebook (and I still really hope the OP comes back to answer that) so I did a search, and apparently there are plenty of groups and even a couple of applications relating to BDSM. Who knew. It never would have occurred to me to do anything kinky on Facebook, it's one thing for my little brother to know I'm kinky, quite another for him to see it every time he's online. But is that something you would want you boss, co-workers or a potential employer to possible see? With facebook it's not uncommon for potential employers to search your name and email address for anything "that might embarass them" and legally they don't have to tell you they did it. A prospective employer could find my name on facebook, but unless I give them access, they can't find out anything from it. They can also search any email addresses I give them, but honestly, do you think I would give them the one I use on kinky sites? I've discovered that "security of information" on facebook can be a joke. Most people do not limit what is shown or who can see it.

thishereboi -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 3:11:54 PM)
If someone does not limit what is shown on facebook, that is their problem. Not a reflection on facebook. I never claimed it was full of rocket scientists over there.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 3:32:56 PM)
Okay, so if I got a Facebook slave, I could help all my pals who are doing Mafia Wars and Farmville and all, WITHOUT having to play myself? BONUS!

Aylee -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 4:28:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Okay, so if I got a Facebook slave, I could help all my pals who are doing Mafia Wars and Farmville and all, WITHOUT having to play myself? BONUS! Now THAT is a darn good idea. Where do I get me one of these Facebook slaves?

thishereboi -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 5:23:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Okay, so if I got a Facebook slave, I could help all my pals who are doing Mafia Wars and Farmville and all, WITHOUT having to play myself? BONUS! It does sound kinda nice, doesn't it. And then everything on my farm wouldn't always end up dead.

BoyDoggy -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 5:39:03 PM)
Its free and its just as good as collarme and its the only other place I can search that I know of.

Aylee -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 5:42:17 PM)
Sweetie, you are 18. You want to be a puppy or a slave and you would prefer a poly household. I would really recommend that you slow down and think about what it is that you can offer to someone else. What could you bring to a poly household. At 18 years old, frankly you could join the military and get the discipline that you crave and get paid for it. Give yourself time to grow into your adulthood.

stella41b -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 6:57:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BoyDoggy Is ok to serve more then one Mistress on face book? It's ok with me. quote: ORIGINAL: BoyDoggy Should I ask her if I can serve other Mistresses? Employing my skills in clairvoyancy here I have to say that yes, the glass on my table did move and I take this as a sign that yes, you should ask. quote: ORIGINAL: BoyDoggy How do I ask or know if a girl is a slave on face book with out coming off as a psycho? Look for signs of dilated pupils in her eyes on her photos, a blank or vacant expression, oh and evidence of a slave collar round her neck (or a red mark which indicates a collar has been worn).

mmsprecious -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 7:16:27 PM)
You've asked three questions...one was can a slave have other slaves and should he tell his mistress...one was I told a mistress i'd be X and now am not sure what do I say and then can I serve more than one mistress and if I do, do I ask or tell them. Every time you say "should I tell" it means you may not have the full grasp of poly (that and you list it as something you hate and yet something you are looking for. My suggestion is go to real places with real people and figure out what you like, don't like and want, don't want before committing to anything or anyone. His precious

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 8:04:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daintydimples Okay, I know I'm old and out of it, but how exactly does one serve a Mistress on facebook? Do you play Mafia Wars for her? I'm so very confused. LMAO! That game annoys the crap out of me!!

sweetsub1957 -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 10:32:42 PM)
There is a group on Facebook called "Facebook BDSM," I'm a member of it, but other than that I have no clue what you're talking about. Wouldn't serving more than one Domme create the possibility of conflicts of interests? What if They each want you to do something different at the same time.....or something completely opposite one from the other, or.....who knows? If you're serious about serving Someone, why would you want several someones anyway? But if that's your plan, I would definitely ask each of Them if it's okay with Them first. As far as finding out if a gal is a slave, all I can think is to look either for a collar around her neck or a tan line where there used to be one. Either that or bite the bullet and ask her, risking looking like a psycho weirdo. But who cares if she doesn't know you yet anyway? lmao

greeneyedreamer -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 10:35:29 PM)
FACEBOOK????? I am in hell Surely in hell... wtf.. Serving on Facebook ::: mutters something about having more of a cyber life than a real one. Walks away shakes head:::

daintydimples -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 10:46:06 PM)
Farmville? I'm in Indiana, I live Farmville.

roughleather -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/18/2009 11:23:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BoyDoggy Is ok to serve more then one Mistress on face book? Should I ask her if I can serve other Mistresses? How do I ask or know if a girl is a slave on face book with out coming off as a psycho? There are worse possibilities. The "mistress" may be a loser gay guy, a tranny, or worse, a 'bot. (http://www.v-girl.com)

sunshinemiss -> RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? (9/19/2009 5:12:48 AM)
Four words... Facebook. Mafia Wars... Goombah.

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