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I have a question or two about being a slave on facebook? - 9/17/2009 8:11:18 PM

BoyDoggy

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Is ok to serve more then one Mistress on face book?
Should I ask her if I can serve other Mistresses?
How do I ask or know if a girl is a slave on face book with out coming off as a psycho?

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/17/2009 8:21:00 PM

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Is ok to serve more then one Mistress on face book?

How on earth do you serve somebody on Facebook???? As far as serving more than one mistress on Facebook...well I'm a little jaded, but seeing as its just online and on Facebook, I'd say sure, why not...knock yourself out. The fact that you want to serve more than one shows me quite clearly that you aren't all that serious about any of them,so what the hell, have fun.

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Should I ask her if I can serve other Mistresses?

Well if you are even half-way serious about serving her then the answer should be obvious...OF COURSE!

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How do I ask or know if a girl is a slave on face book with out coming off as a psycho?

There's no way short of asking her...and that sort of question will always make you look a little off unless you know her really, really well.

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/17/2009 9:11:59 PM

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It's like any other relationship, be honest and up front about yourself. If your into serving multiple mistresses tell them that. If you switch, say so. Honesty is a good thing.

Hope this helps.

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/17/2009 9:32:29 PM

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Is ok to serve more then one Mistress on face book?
Should I ask her if I can serve other Mistresses?
How do I ask or know if a girl is a slave on face book with out coming off as a psycho?

If you have a Mistress at this time it would be prudent to discuss it
If you have no Mistress at this time, then during your negotiations, this needs to be addressed
I would not advise multiple Doms or Misttresses as I can see where there would be conflicts, if nothing more than time conflicts and this may upset one or both.

Unless somone comes right out and says they are a slave or if their ID suggests that, it is not wise for you to ask until you have more of a personal relationship, otherwise your response. if you even get one, will be less than positive.

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/17/2009 9:50:03 PM

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I gotta ask... with the kinky sites on the Net, why would you try for M/s relationships on Facebook?

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/18/2009 12:09:07 AM

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Obviously I have misunderstood the meaning behind Facebook. My understanding is that it is a networking site and people tend to keep their friends on there as people they actually know. I would never add people to my listing that I have not met or do not know well. I never add online contacts as to me it defeats the object of the site.

Wouldn't it be far better to use contact sites geared to D/s M/s or whatever and use personal messengers like msn and yahoo to keep in touch if you choose to "serve" online.

As for serving more than one Dominant, I have never quite understood how that can work, unless it is a shared domination.

But each to their own I guess

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/18/2009 1:32:22 AM

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Okay, I know I'm old and out of it, but how exactly does one serve a Mistress on facebook? Do you play Mafia Wars for her?

I'm so very confused.

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/18/2009 2:22:49 AM

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Why facebook though? there are a million kink frindly sites online, this included.

Should you ask permission...of course.

Dimwitt really daft question.

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/18/2009 2:42:09 AM

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??????????? facebook ummmm why there if thats your thing okay

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/18/2009 4:17:40 AM

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My answer is just as above! What the?? Im understanding the Messanger/msn.. phone calls.. e-mails.. but facebook?

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/18/2009 7:24:24 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoyDoggy

Is ok to serve more then one Mistress on face book?
Should I ask her if I can serve other Mistresses?
How do I ask or know if a girl is a slave on face book with out coming off as a psycho?

Don't worry.
The girl would have to be a psycho if she thought she was a facebook slave.

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/18/2009 10:51:01 AM

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I am indeed a slave to facebook...

I check it several times a day, I update my status at least twice a day and...

Wait...
That's not the same, is it?

Silly me!

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/18/2009 10:52:49 AM

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/18/2009 11:07:13 AM

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/18/2009 11:18:47 AM

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Aside from the question of "how do you serve someone on Facebook", I'm also left with a thought that I just thought I'd share (my reason for responding to this thread). I have a few bdsm friends who I have friended on Facebook, and I understand that they often post bdsm-related things. At first, this concerned me because my vanilla friends see all my updates and such, but then I started to think to myself that if someone is actually my friend, then seeing that stuff shouldn't really scare them away. I have a few friends from high school days who appear to be very religious, and it's interesting that they're probably reading some "interesting" stuff from my other friends. I would assume that my bdsm friends might wonder why my overly religious friends are posting that kind of stuff as well.

The main point is that my own information is basically non-bdsm because I'm not living a bdsm lifestyle right now. But I have no problem with others posting that sort of stuff, even if my vanilla friends might see it tied to me. However, I have to kind of wonder if the OP and some others have gone through the thought process that as they start to integrate themselves into their full time jobs that they may be keeping long term, if they've thought through that curious people who will eventually be friending them through business contacts, might not wonder about stuff like "being a slave on Facebook." It's a choice, and that's fine, but one thing about Facebook and the Internet is that it is VERY hard to erase a history of such involvement. I discovered that the hard way while working in academia, and then just decided I wasn't going to hide it anymore. Worked out okay in the long run, but there were some long months where it didn't work out as well as I was hoping an enlightened academia might deal with it.

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/18/2009 11:23:18 AM

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I was curious how on earth someone can serve a Mistress on Facebook (and I still really hope the OP comes back to answer that) so I did a search, and apparently there are plenty of groups and even a couple of applications relating to BDSM. Who knew. It never would have occurred to me to do anything kinky on Facebook, it's one thing for my little brother to know I'm kinky, quite another for him to see it every time he's online.

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/18/2009 11:35:33 AM

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Taking aside the facebook thing and just looking at the rest:

If you are serving a Mistress, she makes the rules. She would be the one to say yes or no to serving others. Once you give your service to her, that's it (if you are serious about your service). So...yes ASK her, but be honest about why. Is it that your Mistress is not meeting your needs? Or you just want to play with as many Mistresses as possible?

Just my 2 cents

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/18/2009 11:41:46 AM

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Is ok to serve more then one Mistress on face book?
Should I ask her if I can serve other Mistresses?
How do I ask or know if a girl is a slave on face book with out coming off as a psycho?

Won't there be internal conflict? And how do you serve someone on Facebook?

I'd say if you have a mistress, then asking a board full of strangers if you should share this with her says she isn't really your mistress. Just my opinion.

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/18/2009 12:24:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: BoyDoggy

Is ok to serve more then one Mistress on face book?
Should I ask her if I can serve other Mistresses?
How do I ask or know if a girl is a slave on face book with out coming off as a psycho?

all i want to know is are all of the people posting these threads remotely related? because there is a common denominator in each. if they are i'd really like to talk to the parents and suggest they stop breeding immediately. crikey

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RE: I have a question or two about being a slave on fac... - 9/18/2009 12:39:28 PM

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