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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 3:28:25 AM   
allthatjaz


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ORIGINAL: IronBear

I love the artistic application of shibari type rope and chain bondage , but body decoration with needles are my favourite. Are these "Play"? for me not but an extension of the artist in me however others probably see it as play. if I look at posts in these forums, I rate very poorly on the play list as far as time with slaves and BDSM, However I do what I do on the rare occasions I actually have a living human body as an empty canvas for me to create something with. 


I would call it play but like you, when I am doing needles, branding and hook pull it is very much the artist and the canvas. I do none of those things to create pain but to induce endorphins and get in touch with ones inner spirit. I have also done this with people that are not into BDSM at all and so although I call it play, I don't often think of it as BDSM.

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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 10:42:14 AM   
beltainefaerie


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Status: offline 		I love being worked over with everything in the toy bag (floggers, canes, crops, tawse, paddle, vampire gloves, knives) as well as fire.  I also love beautiful ropework, but more like when Master creates corsets and harnesses around me than when I am bound.  While I may not like each and every toy, I love experiencing so many sensations for his pleasure.  Doubly so if there is some kind of sex involved.

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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 11:16:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		I too enjoy a lot of things, but anything that causes pain floats my boat. I love anything that stings; singletails and canes especially. I also enjoy anything that thuds like a flogger. The two different sensations do different things for me. Thuddy type things will send me into utter relaxation. A stingy type of implement will send me straight to subspace. Mix the two sensations together and it's absolute heaven.

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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 11:19:25 AM   
VampiresLair


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Status: offline 		For us its restraint and physical power play. I can and do hold Fox down, and it does wonderful things for us both. I can get into a position where I can pin both his hands with one of mine and hold him in place while making sure he knows I have only one holding him, and things like that.

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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 11:56:17 AM   
leadership527


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Status: offline 		Owning a woman IS my favorite form of play. We don't "play" in the sense that you meant it... but honestly, in the sense that it gives me a heady rush, owning Carol is what does it for me.... it might be as subtle as grabbing her for a kiss when she walks by and she was distracted... not really ready for kissing.

Or, put differently, the inverse of what Prinsexx said :)

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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 12:47:18 PM   
RavenMuse


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Status: offline 		Toying with her headspace, flipping her emotional state from one to another and maybe back again... and again... and again, teasing her, turning her every which way yet never once loosing that underlying security that keeps her feeling safe even when trembling with 'fear'.

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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 2:40:48 PM   
subTeacher4u


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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 3:09:14 PM   
krikket


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Status: offline 		sensory dep, collars/leash and mind fucks are my favorite.  i'd love to build up my tolerance for pain, which is weaker than i wish...

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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 6:42:38 PM   
BalletBob


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Status: offline 		Wow, there are so many. I guess my favorite is to be tied to a bed Spread Eagle, Blindfolded and Gagged, and then have a Female play with my Puppies (Nipples) with her fingers or nails. It drives me nuts ! And being tied, Gagged and Blindfolded, I don't know what will happen next, or be able to say anything about it. I usually just MOAN, very Happliy.

Miss it so much, sub BalletBob

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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 6:43:29 PM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		A really good hard take down.
Hard, hard, hard face slapping.
Hogtied with rope at his feet...especially when he's working.
Mindfucks
Anything that puts "that look" in his eyes and makes him growl in my ear.



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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 6:47:28 PM   
secretmaster22


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Status: offline 		Sharing, exhibitionism, any neck play, biting, but more than anything just knowing that she has given herself to me is enough to make me yearn for more and more of her

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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 6:49:43 PM   
BalletBob


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Status: offline 		I couldn't find your Profile Aileen. I wanted to ask you about your outfit, in your profile Picture. Very Nice !

Curious (Nosey), sub BalletBob

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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 6:53:00 PM   
Aileen1968


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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 7:07:55 PM   
pyroaquatic


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Status: offline 		My Favorite?! My favoritist of favorites that sends me into a mad fevor?

Gee.

At this point general play would be nice. but beyond general.....

Resistance. Rope. Bondage. Heavy Bondage. Chain, shackles, Realigning my perceptions (mindfucking), licking, lots of licking, being a cherished pet, cages, prisoner scenarios.

Does cuddling, affection, and sweet kisses count?

i think that is my favorite above all else.


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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 7:18:02 PM   
BalletBob


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Status: offline 		Hi Aileen. I would like to ask more about it, but I don't want to hi-jack the thread.

Thanks Aileen and everyone.

Sub BalletBob

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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 8:55:02 PM   
Ialdabaoth


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Status: offline 		Me? I have two seperate "favorite forms of play", which - happily enough - are rather easily woven together.

First, I like taking a pretty young girl with promising athletic abilities, and training her to do things that no one has ever seen done before, and to do them with panache and showmanship.

Second, I like taking a pretty girl that I own, who can do things that no one has ever seen done before, and showing her off to a stunned and appreciative audience.

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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/5/2009 9:44:58 PM   
looking4princess


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Status: offline 		Mindfucking, denial, scolding, anything involving serious mental real life and very personal Dominance/submission. Not much for pain unless it is ritualistic and in context.

Caning, paddling, whipping just for the sake of the activity holds no meaning for me.

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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/6/2009 4:49:23 PM   
laura2161


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Status: offline 		Face slapping.
Light face slapping.
Hard face slapping.
Did I mention face slapping?




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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/6/2009 4:58:19 PM   
glitter


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Status: offline 		Bondage...breathplay...sucking cock...biting...so hard to pick a fave!!...sex, violent hard rough sex, hair pulling during sex...errrr..... is it getting warmer in here......?

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RE: Favourite form of play? - 10/6/2009 5:52:59 PM   
porcelaine


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Status: offline 		my faves in no particular order.

tos, mind fuck/reprogramming, cane/single tail/flogger/belt, breath play, extreme objectification, speech and visual restrictions, rape/abduction, hair pulling, forcible sharing, extended bondage sessions, cutting, puppy, edge and age play.

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