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RE: cross dressing - 11/10/2009 5:05:26 PM   
sunshinemiss


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ORIGINAL: bobipanti

It feels wonderful and helps any man get in touch with his feminine side. It makes me feel, act, and think differently.It brings in a whole new world that is much better for many.


I'd beg to differ with you bob.  There are some men who would be totally creeped out by this.  I can just imagine you saying this to a bunch of Gorean men.  HA HA HA HA HA... I'd buy a ticket to that.

I went through a stage of trying to be more in touch with my "masculine" side and tried putting on a couple of cut off shirts and work boots, and I just felt stoopid.  I'm not butch.  Period.  Ever.  No way.  Not even a little bit.  And I expect there are men like that when it comes to women's clothes.

TO THE OP:

start small.  If it works for you, then do a little more.  See what works and what doesn't.  Remember, women's clothes run the gamut from sports bras and shorts to designer evening gowns to business suits to French maid outfits to nun habits to simple shifts.

Good luck.



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RE: cross dressing - 11/10/2009 7:01:33 PM   
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i'm curious about trying it but first i would like to know how does it feel to do this? like was it uncomfortable or embarassing the first time or something else? comments would be much appreciated


These are questions only you can answer. put it on and find out. embarrassing, depends on how you wouuld feel if someone found out? Like you should concern yourself with what other people think, not likely

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RE: cross dressing - 11/10/2009 10:15:46 PM   
fadedshadow


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i think it may be a little of each, acer49


I suspect it makes you feel closer to women.



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RE: cross dressing - 11/11/2009 6:30:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sissylittlebitch, You are so R I G H T ! !  It feels so neat, under work clothes, and knowing that nobody knows it, except you. Just that thought, makes it seem so much nicer. Plus it makes my dreary work day go by so much faster, and nicer. Plus I wear Mary Janes a lot at work, and have fun watching people walking towards me, and see if they are looking down at my shoes. I just have the cookies big enough to wear things like that, while most of the MOCHO MEN wouldn't be caught dead in something like that. I LIVE for HALLOWEEN !

Missing my French Maids Outfit, sub BalletBob

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RE: cross dressing - 11/12/2009 3:27:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've had a lot of clients for whom I'm the first woman they have cross-dressed for, and no one has ever been embarrassed or uncomfortable.  The most resounding emotion: joy.  Happiness.  Most clients who fit into that category talk about who good it feels.

So do what you want, and do it with people who will accept you and be great about it and you will have a sensational experience.

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RE: cross dressing - 11/12/2009 3:30:38 PM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		He would look so ridiculous in my little black dress....although, he has the legs for it.

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RE: cross dressing - 11/12/2009 6:24:40 PM   
JoannaMaguire


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Status: offline 		It is wonderful to dress as a woman.Most start in private. Most of us eventual go out in public. Most of us are eventualy discovered by a partner or wife. There are CD clubs in most cities where you can go and meet other CDs ie Look up "The Seahorse club in Australia on the net. I used to be a member. But I now live to far from a city where the meet once a month. They also have an annual CD ball Its great You can dress up in evening or ball gowns
Warning Once you start dressing enfemme Most dress for their life time with breaks in betwee where they purge their feminine clothing for a period Then they start over buying new clothing to start dressing again in a year or so ? Expensive However it great buying new clothing Shopping is probably another fetish. Spend hours shopping. Believe me no one takes much notice when you buy feminine clothing when you dress as a woman. More notice you especialy when you shop for womens clothing when you arre dressed as a man. I have been a Cd for over 50yrs now. I live most of the time as a woman I have a wardrobe full of feminine clothing wigs and make up etc. It has felt great for all those years.My mother dressed me as a girl often But I thing I first became a Cd when I was 14 I purchased a Sarong high waisted girdle and stocking of mt own I have been into B&D since my early 20s Dressing is fun and not just sexual even though sexuality is always involved dressing enfemme My wife is now my Mistress She is "The Boss" We made an arrangement. I am allowed to dress when ever I like as long as I do all the housework and she disiplines me If I do not do the housework properly or any other think She does not like I receive a caning or whipping in bondage I love that as well
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RE: cross dressing - 11/13/2009 3:46:20 AM   
bipet123


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Status: offline 		I feel really comfortable wearing a skirt - even when I don't really have the time to go into full dress mode, I will often come home and change my trousers into a skirt. It just feels more relaxing and nice having some air circulate instead of hot sweaty restricting trousers.
I don't have a great deal of clothing, a few bras, tights, cotton knickers, a couple of skirts, a nightgown and a maid's dress - you can get things on e-bay tailored made from China quite reasonably priced. I don't go in for the thrilly lace, satin type sissy clothes, I am more practical - my maid dress is exactly that - a heavy cotton work uniform to stop me getting dirty when doing house work.
I agree with Joanna, you do go through periods of great guilt where you purge all your female attire etc. I can sometimes go a few months without feeling a need to crossdress followed by an intense period where only fear of the unknown is stopping me trying to book into a Thailand clinic for the full op. My desire to be a woman is always there though even when I don't need to crossdress for it. Crossdressing has a sexual thrill to it at the beginning because it is a taboo, but after a couple of hours in drag that feeling subsides and I am just comfortable feeling more feminine. When sexual release does occur though there is an extreme feeling of guilt and annoyance with myself afterwards - the sexual thrill gives me the courage to crossdress but once that thrill disappears it leaves a sense that I wished I did not have this happening to me... causing two questions... first why couldn't I have just been born a normal man? and why couldn't I have just been born a woman? The first question wanting to change my mind/soul/feelings, and the second question accepting my soul but wanting to change my body to match it. Instead my soul and body are different - life would be easier if they were the same either as both male or both female.  

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RE: cross dressing - 11/13/2009 6:05:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		There are many different types of cross dressers. Some men just like the feel of silky undies, others want to alter their appearance to such an extent that they can "pass."
When you toss in sissy maids and forced fem, there is a huge range in terms of what is considered cross dressing.

I personally really like cross dressing in a male sub. It's not necessary for me that he actually appear feminine (I tend to go for the big strong guys), it's a humiliation thing. For a sub into that, saying something as simple as "wear your pink girly panties all day at work today" can be hugely arousing.

I also like very femmy looking males who want to be taught how to appear more female.

My advice to the OP is to allow yourself to explore your fantasies, see what turns you on, and try to find a female friend who can offer assistance. Even knowing what panty size to buy can be a big challenge when you are new.

Feel free to message me on the other side (but say something aside and in addition to "hello", I really *don't* respond to that.) Best of luck.






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RE: cross dressing - 11/13/2009 3:02:06 PM   
VioletGray


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Even knowing what panty size to buy can be a big challenge when you are new.


I've been crossdressing as a girl since I was 6 and I still don't know that! lol I don't know sizes in my male underwear either! 

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RE: cross dressing - 11/13/2009 3:11:46 PM   
Moonhead


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Status: offline 		I know I'm not a size six...

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