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RE: Tickle Torture Inquiry. Females Only Please. - 9/21/2009 9:59:25 PM

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OP, good to see a couple of posters have pulled you up for being so bloody crass in stating "Females Only"> the addition of please does not excuse you rudeness for such a faux par in a Forum obviously listed as General. Perhaps next time you may like to limit such posts to "Ask a Mistress".

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RE: Tickle Torture Inquiry. Females Only Please. - 9/21/2009 10:06:21 PM

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Op, you also have to remember, everyone woman posting in here was at one time a girl. Guess what happens to girls on the play ground or around older cousins or brothers?

We got tickled. Often times till we threw up or pissed ourselves. 99.9% of us dont want to relive that kind of thing or do it to someone else.

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RE: Tickle Torture Inquiry. Females Only Please. - 9/22/2009 4:21:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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I am confused..... why is this question aimed at females only?

So, he can wank.

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh now I get it

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ORIGINAL: Sunnyfey

Op, you also have to remember, everyone woman posting in here was at one time a girl. Guess what happens to girls on the play ground or around older cousins or brothers?

We got tickled. Often times till we threw up or pissed ourselves. 99.9% of us dont want to relive that kind of thing or do it to someone else.

And the above is precisely why I cannot stand even the threat of being tickled..... bad bad child hood memories

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RE: Tickle Torture Inquiry. Females Only Please. - 9/22/2009 4:30:49 AM

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Or they tickled you past exhaustion...and did that hanging spit thing right above your face....

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RE: Tickle Torture Inquiry. Females Only Please. - 9/22/2009 7:44:12 AM

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I had a female roommate once that took a lot of joy in having her and her female friend who was actually my gf for a shorttime double team me and tickle me for what seemed like a very long time :P till they got bored (usually about 10-15mins) I can't say I would list it as one of my own "kinks" though the domination is good lol.
they both seemed to enjoy doing it a great deal but still got bored of it after 15mins I really can't envision to many people wanting to do this all evening as the only form of entertainment. I would guess that if it did happen then after 30mins or something while the sub is tied up someone would have a different idea of something to try and the evening would really start to get entertaining for everyone as the sub experianced a wide range of fun kinks that everyone enjoyed haha.

I think the point is that just about any fetish or kink if it's the ONLY kink then it's very unlikely anyone would be able to make an entire evening of it with several people at the party. Unless you formed some sort of specific fetish group and made friends because of the particular kink weather it's spanking or tickling or wax play or what ever it is very few people have the exact same kink to the point they are willing to do the single one for the entire evening.
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RE: Tickle Torture Inquiry. Females Only Please. - 9/22/2009 2:31:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

OP, good to see a couple of posters have pulled you up for being so bloody crass in stating "Females Only"> the addition of please does not excuse you rudeness for such a faux par in a Forum obviously listed as General. Perhaps next time you may like to limit such posts to "Ask a Mistress".

Ok..it seems that one has to be specific to the epitome here and state reasons why when posting an inquiry and so on.
I wanted females only because I was looking for the opinions of female ticklers only and trying to avoid having 95% of the thread responses from male ticklers and or it turning into a volunteer competition of male lees wanting to be that one or two or more victim(s).
I posted the inquiry here to get the opinions from a general bdsm population where I would get perhaps a feel for whether or not tickle torture is even recognized and or accepted in bdsm and not from a strict tickle forum.
I did not consider a "Tickle Mistress" party thus not proposing the inquiry in "Ask a Mistress"
Being called "crass" is a bit much especially if any of you knew me, that would surely not be one of the traits I would have.
However, in the outright bdsm community there has been mostly rude offensive and false accusatory responses that were totally unfair.
It showed me how pre-judgmental people can be.

Oh well...nevertheless to those who were "nice", thanks.

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RE: Tickle Torture Inquiry. Females Only Please. - 9/22/2009 2:43:20 PM

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I have yet to find a submissive male that didn't want to be the life of a domina party, surrounded by women focused only on him and what they might do to him.

What you are asking is not just how many are into tickling or what they might think of the fantasy scene you have presented. You are presenting a fantasy that most submissive males have... thus you will get responses from us based maybe on our roll of our eyes and tired of that fantasy thing being so unrealistic. I mean... how many men can say they were in a room full of dominant's wanting to torment and play with a submissive using only one of his fetishes?

You know there are people into tickling... if you are, there are other's. You know that you haven't found this situation, but maybe are presenting your fantasy as an attempt to find those who might be interested. Who knows... but you weren't just wanting to know if we would be interested in it, because realistically... it isn't rocket science to figure out how many would want one thing, at a party of one submissive. I mean... really... think about it.

Therefore your idea and post and wording come into an area of inspection and critical type attitudes so easily gotten with so many people who have not thought about it.

Reverse your fantasy. Would you like to be one of many men who got to do only one thing with one woman?

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RE: Tickle Torture Inquiry. Females Only Please. - 9/22/2009 6:37:01 PM

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Well since you DID clarify, and it was rather confusing, I'd have to say that I love tying my guy down on his back with his arms and legs bent behind him to where he can't protect himself, and tickle him mercilessly. Why do I do it? Because it makes me laugh, because it's a fun game, and it gets my endorphins rocketing around my head. I do NOT do it just for the tickling. Really, if there were another easy way to get me zoned into the mood fast, I'd do that other thing. I do it for the fun devious things I do to him afterward when I feel sufficiently 'toppy' and mean after watching him squirm around trapped under me.

And really, it's one of the only ways to get sexy noises out of him.

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RE: Tickle Torture Inquiry. Females Only Please. - 9/23/2009 6:24:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I have yet to find a submissive male that didn't want to be the life of a domina party, surrounded by women focused only on him and what they might do to him.

What you are asking is not just how many are into tickling or what they might think of the fantasy scene you have presented. You are presenting a fantasy that most submissive males have... thus you will get responses from us based maybe on our roll of our eyes and tired of that fantasy thing being so unrealistic. I mean... how many men can say they were in a room full of dominant's wanting to torment and play with a submissive using only one of his fetishes?

You know there are people into tickling... if you are, there are other's. You know that you haven't found this situation, but maybe are presenting your fantasy as an attempt to find those who might be interested. Who knows... but you weren't just wanting to know if we would be interested in it, because realistically... it isn't rocket science to figure out how many would want one thing, at a party of one submissive. I mean... really... think about it.

Therefore your idea and post and wording come into an area of inspection and critical type attitudes so easily gotten with so many people who have not thought about it.

Reverse your fantasy. Would you like to be one of many men who got to do only one thing with one woman?

Thanks for responding and thanks also for being civil and respecting. I do appreciate it.
I see your point and totally understand it. Actually I should have been more specific and descriptive in my proposal.
Furthermore, actually, the wife and I have had a plethora of "parties" some of which that had strictly tickling and others that threw other bdsm play(spanking, heating of the soles of the feet, some light whipping and the use of various other "toys and tools" of the trade so to speak).
I was presenting the situation to find others who were interested for sure but not for my own purposes or desires but to find folks outside the specific tickling community as it were and those who would take tickling and tickle torture to higher levels and react to a more intense situation and not the playful coochie coos that are found all to often in the strict tickle forum. At the same time I wanted to get a feel for what the bdsm community thought about tickling and tickle torture aside from hearing that it is childs play or a hard limit.
Sometimes doing just one thing, merciless tickle torture is enough if taken to the extreme beyond playfulness.
Sometimes adding other "things" is needed and just damn fine!

Thanks again for your time and response!

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RE: Tickle Torture Inquiry. Females Only Please. - 9/23/2009 6:27:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: SomethingCatchy

Well since you DID clarify, and it was rather confusing, I'd have to say that I love tying my guy down on his back with his arms and legs bent behind him to where he can't protect himself, and tickle him mercilessly. Why do I do it? Because it makes me laugh, because it's a fun game, and it gets my endorphins rocketing around my head. I do NOT do it just for the tickling. Really, if there were another easy way to get me zoned into the mood fast, I'd do that other thing. I do it for the fun devious things I do to him afterward when I feel sufficiently 'toppy' and mean after watching him squirm around trapped under me.

And really, it's one of the only ways to get sexy noises out of him.

Yes I am sorry I did not clarify moreso originally. I forgot I was in a wider range of bdsm venue and just presumed being simple and direct would make the point and get the reaction and response.
Love your post and I thank you for it. You made great points too that are quite true!
Yes there is more than just tickling but I was looking to see what a group of women would rather have and I should have spread it out more than just tickling here.

Much thanks!

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