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RE: Chastity and key holding - 9/23/2009 1:06:13 PM

MmeRegineSybille

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ORIGINAL: SaharahEve

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ORIGINAL: SomethingCatchy

So I've been seeing a guy who has expressed interest in chastity, but due to his job he's unable to wear anything for most hours of the day, which I think kind of defeats the purpose. The more I think about it, the more interested I am, and this leads me to this question.

What exactly is a key holder, how is a key holder active in the participation of chastity, and what are your thoughts, experiences, or disagreements with it?

Unless his interest lies more in the actual chastity device as a fetish, why not simply use your command to retain his seed? If he passes the test, he passed because of his devotion to You and your word, not because he's locked up in a chastity device. Makes the male's suffering that much sweeter to me. ;)

A very smart Woman!

I would not own a boy that required Me to bother with a lock and key. It is not My fetish and I am not here to serve theirs.

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RE: Chastity and key holding - 9/25/2009 8:58:50 AM

SaharahEve

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Trust is the foundation of a relationship. If not, why bother?

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RE: Chastity and key holding - 10/11/2009 12:05:57 PM

GoddessSpitfire

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I am curious to know what kind of work he does? as long as the device is plastic and so is the lock there should be no problem as its easily hidden under clothes. And of course if there is some kind of emergency he could always take it off (but thats why I use metal locks hehehehe EG) Anyway I agree it does defeat the purpose so I would talk to him about it. Ask him why he wants to be in chastity.

A keyholder is a Dom/me that holds the key to the lock on your chastity device. My thoughts are that I love chastity, its the best way to control a man. My experience has been with the cb6000 but for short term. He took if off after 3 days and never brought it back. But thats besides the point. I am saving up to buy a new device and plan on using a metal lock this time so I dont lose my CB again. The only issue of chastity to really watch out for is hygiene. Make sure you are taking it off regularly for proper cleaning.

Good luck

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RE: Chastity and key holding - 10/12/2009 7:03:27 AM

creampieboi

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I have a stainless steel houdini chastity cuff that i can be locked in for 4 to 7 days before chafing but no keyholder. i would like a keyholder .

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