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bluefireeyez -> RE: looking for helpful tips in pleasing my dom (9/22/2009 9:47:46 PM)
Good luck! Remember, don't forget to ask all of the things you are wondering about...esp how he wants you to please him!

SerenityLuv -> RE: looking for helpful tips in pleasing my dom (9/22/2009 10:08:40 PM)
i will probably have a list longer then Santa Clause lol with how many questions i have :) he is also going to show me some websites and stuff.

ExtremeMaster60 -> RE: looking for helpful tips in pleasing my dom (9/23/2009 10:28:50 AM)
Just ber honest with your feelings.

SerenityLuv -> RE: looking for helpful tips in pleasing my dom (9/24/2009 1:36:02 PM)
just to update my talk i had with my Dom last night. it went well. iwas told i really need to relax and stop overthinking everything lol. feeling better about everything still feel a little lost on some stuff. but i will learn in due time. i just really need to relax :)

maat -> RE: looking for helpful tips in pleasing my dom (9/24/2009 1:57:19 PM)
serenityLuv... I can so relate to overthinking things and needing to relax. I whont say you get over that but you learn to live with it. To me its part of my submissive side. i need to understand things, to relay get it so i think, think and think some more. in the begining i was so nervues about making mistakes, about leting my Master down, about messing upp, well, about moste things actualy. That part i got over. i know i can only do my best and to be open and honest with my Master. Everything else will work itself out with comunication.

MasterTslave -> RE: looking for helpful tips in pleasing my dom (9/25/2009 9:39:25 AM)
there is a diff between "punishment" for something that you have done wrong and your Master/Dom expects you not to do...and then we have "funishment"...this is something that He might be doing just to get the dust of the whip..lol :) Master hates to "punish" me..He feels that it reflects badly on Him (like what didn't HE do to make me do what He wanted)...and then there is just giving swats or whatever He feels like because He can...

BoundDragon -> RE: looking for helpful tips in pleasing my dom (9/25/2009 12:31:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SerenityLuv iwas told i really need to relax and stop overthinking everything lol. Funny you should say that, I get told off for overthinking. [:)] I am learning that when master says something that is all there is too it... nothing more, certainly no hidden meaning he expects me to decipher. I'm glad to read you feel more comfortable about things. Just take it slow and let this relationship grow in its own time, like any other (vanilla) relationship really. Trial and error comes in to it too... don't knock it til you've tried it but make sure you stay safe too. To me there are a few key words I stick to: Loyalty Honesty Respect Trust Open (to learn for example) I try to stay humble although I do get knocked down a peg or two as I get cocky far too much. Enjoy[;)]

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