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RE: What is the one thing that melts your heart? - 4/21/2006 12:17:43 AM

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Honesty.

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RE: What is the one thing that melts your heart? - 4/21/2006 12:24:32 AM

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greeting Tress

Oh my my heart stop in my chest when I read
what you wrote!!!!!! Oh the wonder of it all
if some only knew what joy we have with our
submissives thank you

I will remember that for so long

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RE: What is the one thing that melts your heart? - 4/21/2006 12:26:47 AM

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You know, I have to ask, because I've seen this a lot recently.

Do male subs really cry that much?

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When one of my boys is getting to that place where I know nothing else exists for him but me, he begins to laugh, just a soft giggle, it's really sexy. But then once he's there, tears begin to fall from his eyes. He's not really sobbing but crying gently. No matter what I'm doing at this point I have to stop and hold his head close to my bosom if only for a moment, and he says "thank you Mistress". Oh, I'm melting just thinking about it.

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RE: What is the one thing that melts your heart? - 4/21/2006 12:34:26 AM

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LAM, I can only speak for My subs (past and present)...they all cry, male or female, it matters not. I have asked each of them why, and the answer is almost always the same.

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RE: What is the one thing that melts your heart? - 4/21/2006 12:35:32 AM

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I have one who is my adult baby he is so sweet
the other day he thought I for some reason was leaving him
for another sub the moment he call me he cried that made me
know he needs to so, so very much and Ido adore him
also he is learning to listen and follow what I say. It is
so true what you have said they need us so much. He makes me
know I am needed so much more then ever that gets to me

mons/jane

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RE: What is the one thing that melts your heart? - 4/21/2006 12:40:21 AM

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LordandMaster

YOu have asked the question do submissive
really cry that much? The answer is yes! You have
submissive or slave your do cry after a session?
I would be surpise if they did not cry. Is it because they
are men that it surpise you? It is the sweetest sound
to my ears. It makes me melt and so much more.

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RE: What is the one thing that melts your heart? - 4/21/2006 1:01:27 AM

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I've never had a male sub, so I don't know. I'm half surprised and half not-surprised. I'm not surprised because subs sure do cry, but I am surprised because part of me can't imagine a male sub crying without having seen it. So, yes, it's because they're men that it surprises me.

I've been with sub couples and cuck couples, and I'm trying to remember whether the males have ever cried. Oh... Yeah, OK, I withdraw the question.

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RE: What is the one thing that melts your heart? - 4/21/2006 1:15:58 AM

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For many years i used to use a, what i believe to be, southern slang "saying" of sorts....
"well fuck me to tears"
it was not truly until i delved deep into the recesses of my soul and this lifestyle that i truly understood that.

It has not happened often..but i have been so over come with emotions either during or most often after a "session" that i have been moved to tears... but only with someone i have completely given myself too.. and who has returned that...as well as someone who has truly gotten to know me...my quirks, my faults, my strengths and my weaknesses... both in the "bedroom" per se and other aspects of my life...embraced them.. used them to their advantage in a positive way... and helped me where need be in deficiencies.

Unless the sole purpose is to make your sub/slave cry (i.e. humiliation, pain, etc) i dont think it that uncommon that a sub/slave cry, no matter what the gender.... and some may think i am wrong for the next portion of this statement..... but i dont find it weak, demoralizing or uncommon if a Dom/me were to do the same from time to time.

We are sexual beings....and some of us express our feelings and emotions in different ways...in my personal experiences... i think to find the one that is so overwhelmed with true and genuine emotions that they express it through tears.. is a very rare and precious gift that should be embraced.

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RE: What is the one thing that melts your heart? - 4/21/2006 4:08:19 AM

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After an intense time (in the box, heavy bondage) he is crying and I take him out and we sit on the floor facing each other, he wraps his legs, his arms, uses every part of his body, feeling like he is trying to crawl into me, melt, be absorbed by me. It brings me to tears too. It is amazing.
We cuddle, I warm him, then I turn sadistic again and he realizes he is too close, he can't get away and the torture is far from over

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RE: What is the one thing that melts your heart? - 4/21/2006 6:54:40 AM

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Honesty.

I realize this more and more everyday, the tender sharing of the deep things---the things that in one's mind could be the deal breaker--the things that have to come out to give Me the total picture---but are damn hard to share.

As for the question on tears---IMHEO, when any man cries, it is a tender moment for they are conditioned against it--but when the boy cries, that is the moment of total trust and ulitmate devotion---and I feel the essence of who I am.

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RE: What is the one thing that melts your heart? - 4/21/2006 1:55:49 PM

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In a similar light as previous answers...when I am pushing her to do something that is really difficult and she is struggling, usually trembling with tears in her eyes, and I can see how desperately she wants to please me. As soon as she gets there and begans crying in exhaustion and relief. Then I can hold her close, feel her wanting to almost become part of me and absorb my strength, knowing she feels such a feeling of accomplishment and joy at pleasing me. Everything about those moments after.........would not trade that for anything.

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RE: What is the one thing that melts your heart? - 4/21/2006 2:07:12 PM

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I've never had a male sub, so I don't know. I'm half surprised and half not-surprised. I'm not surprised because subs sure do cry, but I am surprised because part of me can't imagine a male sub crying without having seen it. So, yes, it's because they're men that it surprises me.

Subs of either gender will frequently cry during or after a Scene. Sometimes it is
a more physical release, sometimes it is a major emotional catharsis. Aftercare is
likely to take longer in these instances. Pack along some tissues and eye drops in
the gear bag.

I've been with sub couples and cuck couples, and I'm trying to remember whether the males have ever cried. Oh... Yeah, OK, I withdraw the question.

Hey, ANYBODY can cry given the right stimulous. Have you ever accidentally
gotten chili oil/onion juice/garlic oil near your eyes? Or seen a group of sports fans after a big game when their favorite team lost? Or a group of soap opera fans when a favorite character dies?

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RE: What is the one thing that melts your heart? - 4/21/2006 2:58:26 PM

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Just to clarify: I don't look down on male subs who cry. People are what they are. I've just been surprised by all the references to it lately. I'd guess it's something that few people outside the male sub-fem domme world are aware of. But now that I think about it, it's less surprising than I initially thought.

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RE: What is the one thing that melts your heart? - 4/22/2006 4:10:45 AM

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I had a sub that used to cry after reaching sub space. Its a form of release, something many women I'm friendly with have known for years.... amazing what watching a sad film and having a good cry can do.

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