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Toy questions - 9/22/2009 11:28:37 AM

maat

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Pulling out my little toybox again after having had it put away i naturaly come to think more and more about the questions of toys.

1, as a sub, do you have your own toys or was it your Master/Misstress toys or maybe you gatherd them together?

2, how do you store them?

3. Have you made toys of yourown

4. and finaly.. whats your favorite one?

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Ofcorse im going to answer this for myself as well.

1. the toys are mine. Mostly made or bought by me, a few have been gifts from my Master.
2. right now a small box till i get some kind of toolrack thing to put on the inside of a wardrobe next to my bed.
3. Yes, love making toys myself. And finding kinky ways to use everyday things (IKEA has great stuff)
4. Have to be one of the floggers i made.

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RE: Toy questions - 9/22/2009 11:43:28 AM

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We usually go and buy things together, it's part of the process. He picks out something, or points out something he wants to use on me. We do this a lot when it comes to some of the more extreme things like canes and such, I know my knees almost buckle at some of the things he would like to get.

We keep them in the drawers in our room..too many eyes around here.

I love to come up with new things, from things to tie me down, to things for him to use on me.

I love my restraints and the rope whip he uses.

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RE: Toy questions - 9/22/2009 11:45:06 AM

Eamane

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1, as a sub, do you have your own toys or was it your Master/Misstress toys or maybe you gatherd them together?
Sir bought the toys (except for my vibes), but they belong to me. He feels weird using the same toys on different subs, so even if we were to go our seperate ways I would keep the toys

2, how do you store them?
They are kept in a Tinkerbelle (If I have to take care of them I get to choose the storage container!) shoulder bag. They're supposed to be with me, but I forgot them at the back of Sir's closet where they've been sitting all summer

3. Have you made toys of yourown
No, but I would love to learn how- well I did sand down a bunch of clothespins so I wouldn't get splinters...does that count?

4. and finaly.. whats your favorite one?
to look at- my crop; it is purple, and sparkly, and has a flower as the striking part
to play with- hemp flogger, it's the thuddiest in the toybag ^-^ unless rope counts...I love nothing more than rope!

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RE: Toy questions - 9/22/2009 12:02:15 PM

maat

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Eamane -- Absolutly count,

ohh, your crop sounds adorrable (hm, maybe not the right way to describe a crop but it does) very girly

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RE: Toy questions - 9/22/2009 1:31:46 PM

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for U/us the toys are individually owned, i have my own as does my M'Lady and her husband. as for storage there are various bags and such to put them in. i have made my own toys from items in the stores and such. as for what is my favorite its hard to pick just one, single tails are high on the list fire and wax and needles and more.

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RE: Toy questions - 9/22/2009 2:07:59 PM

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All of our toys have been bought since we've been together. He won't use anything on me that I may have had from before we met.
We store them in locked storage trunks.
Haven't made any as of yet.
My favorite toy is his hands. Always available and ready to go at a moments notice. Second favorite is rope.

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RE: Toy questions - 9/22/2009 2:16:12 PM

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My toy bag was stolen from the trunk of my car about a year before my breakup. After the break-in we mostly used mind games when we played so we never did get around to replacing toys except for rope.
2 or 3 yrs ago after the breakup I started buying things I knew were great. No expense was spared in getting what I wanted because from prior experience I knew what worked well and held up over time. I did not have a partner at the time nor any desire to find another mate but getting the toys seemed like a positive step.
My toy bag is pretty extensive now, each and every item was chosen with different sensations in mind. Some of them are nice, and some are evil. Yes, I even purchased toys I know are too hard on me if used with that intent.

I never keep them in my car unless I am traveling with play in mind. They are kept in my new toy bag if I can, all in catagories, sucky things, whippy things, bondage things, rubber things, pokey things, ect. Crops and floggers are hanging in the closet. My home is air conditioned.

My favorite toy is the one thing he bought me which was thankfully not in my car when it was broken into. The Violet Wand.

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RE: Toy questions - 9/22/2009 2:31:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: maat

1, as a sub, do you have your own toys or was it your Master/Misstress toys or maybe you gatherd them together?

About three days after becoming sexually active I began to acquire my own toys. By the time Val and I got together, I had a pretty nice toybox to introduce him to. I strongly suggest that single submissives acquire their owns toys so that, until they are in a committed relationship, they know exactly who has used those toys, who has cleaned them and who they have been used on. Even for crops and whips - I tend to get some flooding going on and my fluids have gotten on floggers and such and needed to be cleaned.

Since getting together, we have acquired new toys together as we saw fit but I usually pick them out. I like shopping more.

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2, how do you store them?

I like large hatboxes because they look pretty and most people assume they are simply for decoration or mundane things.

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3. Have you made toys of yourown

Not really. We've taken ordinary things and made them into toys. Athough was that great time where Val turned some bamboo into a spreader bar spur of the moment.

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4. and finaly.. whats your favorite one?

No fair! I can't pick!

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RE: Toy questions - 9/22/2009 2:55:07 PM

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quote:

1, as a sub, do you have your own toys or was it your Master/Misstress toys or maybe you gatherd them together?

this slave had no "toys" or dildoes, vibrators, etc. when we met.

Master had a few toys and over the years we have been together He has gathered quite a collection.

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2, how do you store them?

most of them are downstairs, in the dungeon-room, either hanging on the wall, lying on the table or put away in a chest of drawers. some are in the top drawer of Master's nightstand.

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3. Have you made toys of yourown

Master has, but this slave has not.

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4. and finaly.. whats your favorite one?

our minds.

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RE: Toy questions - 9/22/2009 7:11:30 PM

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He gets them. Mainly lots of rope and various stuff he's picked up at kitchen stores and such. A package of wooden spoons costs nearly nothing in the grocery store but stings a lot.

He keeps talking about making bondage furniture once the youngest is in college. Couple of years away. He's looking at the Quik Connect stuff (think that's how it's spelled), intersecting metal things you build with.

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RE: Toy questions - 9/22/2009 7:21:32 PM

mbes

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quote:

ORIGINAL: maat
Pulling out my little toybox again after having had it put away i naturaly come to think more and more about the questions of toys.
1, as a sub, do you have your own toys or was it your Master/Misstress toys or maybe you gatherd them together?
2, how do you store them?
3. Have you made toys of yourown
4. and finaly.. whats your favorite one?

He has toys. It would seriously squick me out if he used them on anyone else, though. We've gathered them together for the most part.
I think they are mostly stashed in the closet, but since I'm not to touch them, I haven't looked for them.
I've made restraints and floggers. I stripped and sanded a couple of canes, those turned out very nice. We made a dragontail together, and he made one himself.
Physical toys, his hands and his belt would probably be responsible for my favorite sensations. Oh, and his feet. Never knew I had a thing for feet until recently...

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RE: Toy questions - 9/22/2009 9:26:49 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: maat

Pulling out my little toybox again after having had it put away i naturaly come to think more and more about the questions of toys.

1, as a sub, do you have your own toys or was it your Master/Misstress toys or maybe you gatherd them together?

2, how do you store them?

3. Have you made toys of yourown

4. and finaly.. whats your favorite one?

i have some things that i've had for a bit. which i keep in my room since i live alone. i've never made toys of my own but i got some great suggestions on how to do so from tng a couple of years ago.

faves: those sharp little clamps that are placed in groups. they hurt like an sob when i walk around and lead to expletives and moans. other than that i will glorify my hitachi. it gets the job done everytime.

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RE: Toy questions - 9/22/2009 10:32:32 PM

sweetsub1957

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quote:

ORIGINAL: maat

Pulling out my little toybox again after having had it put away i naturaly come to think more and more about the questions of toys.

1, as a sub, do you have your own toys or was it your Master/Misstress toys or maybe you gatherd them together?
I have my own, Sir has His own, and we have also acquired some together.
2, how do you store them?
I have a special spot in my bedroom where I keep all mine away from prying eyes. Sir stores His in a closet at His place and transports them in a HUGE duffel bag.
3. Have you made toys of yourown
Not yet. I'd like to learn how to make a flogger, though, in pink and black to match my crop. I love pink. haha
4. and finaly.. whats your favorite one?
Sir's flogger. It's wonderful.

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RE: Toy questions - 9/23/2009 2:57:19 AM

silkncarol

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1, as a sub, do you have your own toys or was it your Master/Misstress toys or maybe you gatherd them together?
Never had any of my own toys...well except insertables until my last Master passed away...then i inherited His toy bags...haven't added anything to them though.

2, how do you store them?
Stored in bags.....the canes, crops, whips, etc are stored in a hard plastic case..like you'd use for blueprints and everythings in my closet.

3. Have you made toys of yourown
Only toy i ever made was a black suede flogger...went to a toy making class at an event and we made them.

4. and finaly.. whats your favorite one?
Favorie toy would be a play partner with a wicked sadistic mind! second fav......cane

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RE: Toy questions - 9/23/2009 4:33:10 AM

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Yes I have my own.

Most live in the toy bag that I keep under my lingerie dresser. Paddles and floggers hang on hooks on the back of the closet door.

I've made a few things on my own. Many things have been "found," such as the pattern tracing wheel form my sewing supplies.

If I had to choose I'd say the crop was my favorite, it's just so versatile.

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RE: Toy questions - 9/23/2009 1:57:27 PM

littleone35

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Master an i shopped together for toys.
They are stored in a bag in my nightstand.
Never Made one but would be interesting.
His hands and voice are my favorite "toys"

Matt's littleone

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RE: Toy questions - 9/24/2009 5:50:51 AM

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anything that gets inserted in someone.. they own, and it's there toy. Regardless of who paid for it. as far as impact toys go.. I don't like to be the one who wields them, so I don't own many.
I keep mine in a bag.. the insertable and lub in a smaller one inside, rope and bondage gear outside of that.
I've never made a toy.. but love using some bottles as insertables for me.
my favorate toy aside from the mind used to be a plain blue water-proof vib. not to big, not to small, not too soft and not too hard. but, after about a year of heavy use.. it started to degrade, and I couldn't find it anymore.. I wonder who makes it.

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RE: Toy questions - 9/24/2009 9:54:45 AM

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1. JR had a large selection before we met, since then he's added many more that one or both of us wanted.

2. Most are kept in his dungeon/playroom.

3. Yes - artificial grass swish, elastic band flogger, velcro cuffs, tack bra, device for keeping labia spread apart, and a few others.

4. A rather cool cat shaped leather paddle (can be seen in one of his profile pics, JRIrish) which hangs in his kitchen and which the vanillas who visit think is just a decorative item, lol.

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RE: Toy questions - 9/24/2009 8:22:20 PM

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1. I have my own Toys. I got them myself, before I had a Mistress (which I don't have now). They still some in handy sometimes for Self Bondage or just for fond memories.

2. I store them mostly in a Under the bed Plastic Container. I seperate them according by their use, like Nipple Play, Ropes and straps, and so on.. I keep the clothing for sessions though, in a dresser drawer.

3. I have made a lot of my own Toys, including Nipple Suction Tubes. YUMMY !

4. My favorite Toy is my Penis Gag. It keeps me quiet, and also is there to PLEASE Females.

Love Bondage Fun, sub BalletBob

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RE: Toy questions - 9/29/2009 8:13:58 PM

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3. Yes - artificial grass swish, elastic band flogger, velcro cuffs, tack bra, device for keeping labia spread apart, and a few others.

Care to elaborate on the "tack bra" as it sounds like it would definitely be a progression from drawing pins on a piece of tape slipped into the bra?

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