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Zechriel -> RE: Distracted Master (9/24/2009 7:20:58 PM)
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Good evening!
I heard a wonderful explanationa while ago about men and women and cx (communication). Men like simple, straight to the point, then to drop it. Women hamper on it, analyze it to death, then doubt it, etc etc. We just don't GET each other. Daddy is exactly like this. I have to allow him to work it out, step back, and know that I am still here IF he needs me. If I continue to ask, pester, peck, then he gets annoyed and I run the risk of him telling me to back off and he will contact me again when all is done. Do I want that? Hell no!!! Not at the beginning and certainly not now (18 months into a relationship) The more you try and help the more he hears "Let me handle it; I can do it better/faster; You're not handling it right; you are incapable of solving this" Not something a Master wants to conclude. He wants to be strong for himself and you.
Sometimes men need to be men, they need to go off and grunt, complain, brood and the thing we have to do is wait and be there when they come back to their senses or figure it out. Just lower your head and say very quietly to him, "I understand, and I will be here when you are done." but only if you mean it. He will love you even more for it, or never come back. I know, I spent 8 months day after day waiting for him to drive up-and he never did. Made me a stronger slave because I followed orders and waited with no contact at all. Made me see that the next Master I gave myself to would see the perfect loyalty and devotion and love that I could offer him. And Daddy does. Good luck!
Love,
Zechriel [sm=couple.gif]
P.S. get the Mi Vida Loca soundtrack and listen to "Girls it ain't easy." Helps whenever Daddy struggles with his pressures and won't let me in. That and Disturbed's "Stricken".
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