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Acer49 -> RE: Bruising (9/25/2009 9:07:30 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

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ORIGINAL: Acer49
I do not see one's value increase simply because they can absorb and submit to such an activity,
I am also afraid I would question the administor of this activity as to why he/she feels this is an acurate way to judge a sub/slave's value
but if it works for you, happy bruising


Where on Earth did that come from?  Show me where I said or even implied that.  I don't judge myself by my marks and neither does he.  All I said was that I liked them and wanted them.  Don't read your own values and expectations into others' words. 


I am sorry but I believe you did, as the first line of your orginal post states

I want bruises. I like em. I like em a lot. And so does he.

Since you derive pleasure from the bruises, the bruises has value, the more bruise the more value

the more value, the more satisfaction and enjoyment.

I am not attempting to pass judgement on the validity of your kink. I don't understand it, but then I don't have to as it is not my life. All I am saying is if you are going to involve yourself in this type of play, is to play smart, so nobody gets hurt.







Aileen1968 -> RE: Bruising (9/25/2009 10:56:26 PM)

He doesn't judge me as being better or worse because of how I bruise, which is what you are implying.
You're stretching your definitions and expecting others to hold the same mindset.
Not everyone follows the ssc limits. Some of us are quite aware of the risks we take every day.




worthlesstrash -> RE: Bruising (9/25/2009 11:07:01 PM)

Wow, you have a black eye?  I would love to have a black eye or something along that line. I know some people don't agree with it, but it does turn me on. I want something I can see every time I look in the mirror.

Vit E? I had better go back and read further, I missed that entry.

edited to add..Oh, I see it now. I hadn't heard of that. I just might have to pick some up before our private time out this next month. He would be so surprised if I woke with a pretty lil bruise.




ExSteelAgain -> RE: Bruising (9/26/2009 5:45:14 AM)

I believe bruising is partly psychological. When I first met Chain, she would bruise easily, but now even if I whip, cane or whatever much harder, she doesn’t bruise. She thinks it is due to feeling more relaxed now when I beat her. Who knows?




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