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knees2you -> Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/1/2006 12:30:05 PM)

Hello all.[:D]

Was just sitting here thinking about different ways
Masters/Mistresses/Switches
Apply Discipline to their Subs/Slaves
According to their age?

Is it different for a Sub/Slave who is much younger
then another Sub?slave?

quote:

"So often times it happens that We live our lives in CHAINS that we never even know we have the KEY? {The Eagles} "


Sincerely, Ant[:D]




Lordandmaster -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/1/2006 12:31:16 PM)

I hate rearing my age. I much prefer rearing other people's age.




knees2you -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/1/2006 12:36:15 PM)

Two Elephants Screwing, It's no wonder.[8|]


Sincerely, Ant[;)]




RiotGirl -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/1/2006 12:37:06 PM)

omg that is too funny




thetammyjo -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/1/2006 12:40:22 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you

Hello all.[:D]

Was just sitting here thinking about different ways
Masters/Mistresses/Switches
Apply Discipline to their Subs/Slaves
According to their age?

Is it different for a Sub/Slave who is much younger
then another Sub?slave?

quote:

"So often times it happens that We live our lives in CHAINS that we never even know we have the KEY? {The Eagles} "


Sincerely, Ant[:D]


I use discipline and punishments that are specific to the individual so age isn't the important thing, their personality and needs are the important thing. Also since I tend to prefer slaves who are very service focused I've found that practice, doing something over, and just being told "I'm disappointed" is generally all I need to do.




RavenMuse -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/1/2006 12:44:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you
Is it different for a Sub/Slave who is much younger
then another Sub?slave?


It is dependent on what would work on that individual and frankly I can't see how age would work into that.

Doesn't matter if she is 20,40 or 60 if she likes being spanked then spanking isn't a good punishment. If she hates the cane then it would make a good punishment

(Waves hi to a certain lurking little lady... synchronisity huh, exactly what we where just talking about *g* you still not ready to get your feet wet in the forums?[:)])




IronBear -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/1/2006 12:55:50 PM)

Why should age enter into things?




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/1/2006 12:55:51 PM)

Unless the person is in their teens, no I really wouldn't see a need to change how discipline is done based on age.

Discipline should change based on the person, their personality and their own structure, but I don't think age is a serious factor in that. I think once you've reached the point of being able to be in a serious relationship, you can handle basic concepts of discipline directly.




RiotGirl -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/1/2006 1:12:11 PM)

yeah! And we've all been reared already! Cept me.. but i'm special <sticks out tongue>




IronBear -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/1/2006 1:47:03 PM)

I've been reared and potty trained and...and..and know which sand box to play in. isn't that enough??????




amayos -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/1/2006 2:12:09 PM)


I am of the mind that discipline should be:

a. Based on your own established and enjoyed methods;

b. Optionally adaptive to the slave/submissive's personality and nature of offense.





ownedgirlie -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/1/2006 10:03:52 PM)

Master knows what trigger points effect me the most, and therefore what discipline is required. Age is irrelevant to it.




OscarHargraves -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/2/2006 10:12:03 PM)

I just prefer rear(end)ing ! !




redheadedfire4u -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/2/2006 10:31:25 PM)

age is just a number and not even reflective of growth

the old can be young and the young can be old ... things should be based on the individual.

warm smiles to all




MHOO314 -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/3/2006 5:45:56 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

It is dependent on what would work on that individual and frankly I can't see how age would work into that.

Doesn't matter if she is 20,40 or 60 if she likes being spanked then spanking isn't a good punishment. If she hates the cane then it would make a good punishment

(Waves hi to a certain lurking little lady... synchronisity huh, exactly what we where just talking about *g* you still not ready to get your feet wet in the forums?[:)])


I agree with Raven, one submissive/slave's punishment is another's pleasure--so I don't see it as age but person dependent--

(Raven --do I sense a certain new friskiness in your tone these days?[;)])




candystripper -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/3/2006 5:54:27 AM)

i was here for months before i looked closely at Lam's avatar; Y/you people are perverts.

candystripper




Slipstreme -> RE: Age rearing in Bdsm. (3/3/2006 9:10:25 AM)

It is a bit hard to apply discipline based on age. After all, we are all adults, aren't we? Even when we act like children. I doubt there are many people over 18 who still live with, and recieve punishment from their parents. Now in age play, perhaps. However, I don't see there being any real "age appropriate" punishment for adults, other than something that they don't like.




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