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Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 10:33:35 AM

geomease

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Well this is my first day here. I made up my profile and I had several doms approach me almost right away. The responsiveness from this site is way better than any other I have ever been on. Already it appears as if I have been claimed by someone. Her username was TotalDominance and as soon as I told her about myself she instructed me I belong to her now. It looks like I am going to belong to her from now on (I do not think I could have stood up to her even if I wnated to ._. ) and I know I am going to become a good little slavegirl for her.

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 10:36:23 AM

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Ja, word of advice, cool the jets there, minnesota nice.

It is a cold cruel world out there.

Welcome,

Ron (up north of you in mid-central)

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 10:44:32 AM

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Do you think I moved to fast? I am still quite new to this scene and I didn't want to upset anyone or anything like that. I still have no experience and no training so I didn't want to come off as a bad sub.

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 10:48:27 AM

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quote:

Well this is my first day here. I made up my profile and I had several doms approach me almost right away. The responsiveness from this site is way better than any other I have ever been on. Already it appears as if I have been claimed by someone.

Sweetie....slow down

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 10:50:40 AM

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that's about where we're at, yes. Get you to a munch, go right now and look up bitatruble in search, send her a polite email telling her I sent you to ask where the munches are in MSP.

when at the munch, don't trail toiletpaper, eat with your mouth closed, and for FUCKS SAKE, don't stab any Dominants in the eye with your fork........

Obey those rules, and you will do gangbusters, nothing at all to worry about. then consider from there. you are so not alone, kiddo.

Ron

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 10:52:40 AM

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Right I'll take it slower, sorry. Just a little nervous and excited I suppose.

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 10:55:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: geomease

Do you think I moved to fast? I am still quite new to this scene and I didn't want to upset anyone or anything like that. I still have no experience and no training so I didn't want to come off as a bad sub.

Oye!!! Chill dude!

YES! I think you moved wayyyyyyyyyy too fast. You haven't a clue about this person and you wish to belong to her. What if this person is actually a guy? What if this person is nothing but a net scammer? You know NOTHING about this person, there is NO WAY you should be obeying them.

Stick around here...........read. And listen to Ron.

And welcome! From a neighbour to the south.

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 10:55:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: geomease

Do you think I moved to fast? I am still quite new to this scene and I didn't want to upset anyone or anything like that. I still have no experience and no training so I didn't want to come off as a bad sub.

if you have no experience, you should stop trying to present yourself as a sub. Rather, speak as yourself. THAT is who the domme needs to see, if she is in anyway interested in you for the right reasons.

Try looking at this in a vanilla light. Suppose you have never had a girlfriend and you really want a relationship that leads to a lasting commitment. Are you going to approach the first girl that makes eye contact with you and decide to be exclusive with her? Of course not. You would take the time to get to know each other, then if the chemistry is there, you take the next step.

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 11:01:51 AM

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does anyone have links to the munch usa and the old darkdesyres (carols) thingie? I have no idea where mine are anymore.

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 11:03:26 AM

geomease

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Right, thats some sound advice. I will try and be myself from now on. As for emailing bitatuble I am having trouble finding her email address in any of the searches I am doing. Can anyone help me out in that respect?

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 11:05:39 AM

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BitaTruble

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copy and paste in the search, never mind it says spain, they are just vacationing she is a twincities chick. And not dominant so no axe to grind.

Ron

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 11:09:44 AM

geomease

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I tried that but it doesn't list any email address's that I can see. Is that because I don't have facebook?

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 11:11:15 AM

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There is no such thing as a "bad sub" from the get go. You need to learn, and you need to do that by talking to others, experiencing things and meeting people. What is a bad sub to some is the perfect sub to others, thats terribly relative.

Slow down and look around, then worry about who you want to be with. Remember these are relationships like any other, dont be a role, be a person. Dont meet someone because they are Dominant, meet them for who they are and then enjoy their dominance. Get to know them, not their title.

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 11:13:09 AM

mnottertail

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no, search here in collarme on the front page. in the search for username put in that bita and underneath her picture which will pop up, you will see a send this user a note.

not out on the WWW, not here on the forums. back where you were being 'collared'.

Ron

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 11:20:34 AM

geomease

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Thanks I just sent her a message. And thank you all for your concern and bringing me back down to earth. I will do my best to try and become a supporting part of this community.

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 11:23:39 AM

mnottertail

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good, next assignment is to search here in the forums for 'sub frenzy'. read the threads (search is upper right in the gold stuff here on the forum.

go to it, tiger.......

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 11:31:51 AM

geomease

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Hmmm I see, that kinda puts it all in perspective. I suppose that would explain this near constant restlessness I have. Thanks for the reading material, you probably just saved me quite a bit of time, energy, money, and pretty much everything else.

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 11:32:48 AM

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And for the love of pete, if she tells you to send her anything like "tribute", which means money, DON'T!

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 12:07:37 PM

mnottertail

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quote:

ORIGINAL: geomease

Hmmm I see, that kinda puts it all in perspective. I suppose that would explain this near constant restlessness I have. Thanks for the reading material, you probably just saved me quite a bit of time, energy, money, and pretty much everything else.

OK, so on to your profile.......you are pretty much saying you will take and do anything in there.......cut it down to your hearts desire, and stick with it, you want a Male? you want a Female Master? or is either acceptable? you have no inborn gender requirements, K I get that.

But when you aint sucking genitalia what do you do? do you just sit and play on the computer? Cause if you are looking for a Female Master, you are going to have to have some skills around the house, manners and be able to serve in non-sexual ways. Are you mechanically inclined? Are you extremely well read and can carry on fascinating conversations? Can you serve tea? Can you cook (and I don't mean boil beef brisket or open a can of soup)?Can you landscape? Tend gardens? flowers? Can you make money? what good are you? get that at the top of your profile...

What do you have that would enhance my life? Or do you want me to make you stand in the corner in a fuckin' clay tree pot and stick your arms out all day pretend you are a sagauro cactus and I can hang coats off you?

Because you can attach yourself to various genitalia on command --- well, it is no different than the rest of the world out there, you gotta be interesting and useful in other ways.....what the fuck you gonna do for the following 23 hours and 59 minutes after they get their nut? get that shit on your profile, hopes, dreams, ambitions, drives.......

Now, make a first decision, you want to be owned by Master or Mistress, primarily?

Go introduce yourself POLITELY with no sex shit involved, that is, tell us who you are, (we know you got holes need fillin), either on ask a Master, or ask a Mistress, it doesn't leave you out of the bi-sexual aspect, necessarily.

Wise up quick my minnesota grasshopper, if folks knew how minnesota nice we can be out this way, women would no longer quake and drop to their knees, mouth open and slobbering for cock, at the mere presence of me looking at their posts in these forums. This is not an altruistic undertaking.

Ron

< Message edited by mnottertail -- 9/25/2009 12:10:53 PM >

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RE: Hello, new young sub here - 9/25/2009 3:39:50 PM

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"Did you hear that? Mnotter has a new sub..."

Welcome to CM geomease.

< Message edited by happylittlepet -- 9/25/2009 3:40:15 PM >

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