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LaTigresse -> RE: a sub and a girlfriend (10/10/2009 5:20:31 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery
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I damn sure could not understand the stuff Ron said.
This is an acquired skill. You must listen askew, with the corners of your ears, and look especially into the silences between the spaces. Practice with a prism at first, until you can catch the concepts just from a careful re-read.
This made me smile..... It is rather like learning a new language. At first it makes no sense at all, then you begin to see glimmers, then all of the sudden there is that........tadaaaaaaaaaa.........lightbulb moment. After that, it tends to be pure delight.
And to add because I was interupted yesterday.
Like LadyPact, I have a vanilla person in my life. However, unlike LadyPact, I don't discuss it much on here. Not because I wish to hide anything. It is simply out of respect for this person. They do not wish to have their personal life broadcast on the internet.
To make this person even BEGIN to understand all of this was a challenge of epic proportions and there are still moments that can be somewhat stressful. I have known this person for over 20 years, through thick and thin, military deployments, the hell of teenagers I already had, sexuality issues, financial crisis, just all sorts of things that people tend to experience with a few that most don't. We have stuck it out and are so much stronger for it. I elude to this relationship in my profile but yes am vague. Anyone that should express any sort of real life interest in me, is given the facts immediately.
This relationship has withstood more than most. It is never going to be sacrificed for an additional one........though there have been past moments it was teetering for certain. At this point, no, no more teetering. I am quite happy with the quid pro quo. Anyone that comes into my life will be enfolded into all that my life includes, family and all. If they cannot accept the realities, then they are simply not for me.
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