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Sunnyfey -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (9/27/2009 11:34:38 AM)
Agree with Des here, Master just moves to where he wants me [:)]

maat -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (9/27/2009 12:35:49 PM)
Thnking and listening during sex is a good one. Glad im not the only one. Actualy for me its a dubble thing. Master is american, im not but we comunicate in english so i need to actualy function in a different language when just listening is hard enough during sex. It comeplecates things. It kind of forces me to be compleatly there and compleatly focused when all i whant to do is just be, and to be alone. During an of period with my Master i found out i compleatly hate not having a Master in my life. i need a center, i need a focus point and i cant deal with it beeing me. it is so much easyer to do something for Him than it is to do the same thing for myself. So, not having that center wuld be it for me to.

petmonkey -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (9/27/2009 6:25:42 PM)
i've spent way too much time in my life living in the now. Sir wants me to focus on my future more. i find it a struggle. So far, i've dealt with this by breaking the big picture down into what i'd consider manageable time spans or tasks and by making tiny, rather insignificant or less important goals as the goal in the foreground of my thoughts; something that seems logical and easily accomplished after the big goal came to fruition. It isn't exactly what He has in mind as far as thought process goes, but it's working more or less on a practical level.

sweetsub1957 -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (9/27/2009 6:44:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sunnyfey Whats something your Master has you do that's difficult for you to handle sometimes? How do you cope with it? Or do you just deal with it? He tells me to not fret, but it's oh so hard not to. I've been a worrier my whole life, but the way I'm attempting to handle it is to tell myself if I don't try to stop , I'm being blatantly disobedient, so I had better stop or I'll get a red ass. haha quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 I make her wear her collar out sometimes. He'd have to make me not. I love His collar and wear it constantly, unless He tells me not to, and He never has. [;)]

Hierodule -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (9/27/2009 8:58:22 PM)
Keeping my eyes open during sex/orgasm. I never noticed it until He pointed it out, but I involuntarily squeeze my eyes shut when I cum. He makes me look at him when I climax. It is almost impossible for me. But I'm getting better. * edit for typo *

SubmissiveSu -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (9/27/2009 9:34:58 PM)
I don't know if I could physically keep my eyes open during orgasm. Seriously. He could tell me to do it, but I don't know if I could.

spookyfe -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (9/28/2009 8:03:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SubmissiveSu I don't know if I could physically keep my eyes open during orgasm. Seriously. He could tell me to do it, but I don't know if I could. i forgot that one i have the same he likes my eyes open it is so hard.

Hierodule -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (9/28/2009 8:42:37 AM)
When I hear his voice sternly say " Look at Your Master" during, it is so wonderful. It makes me want to open them for him so so badly to show him how good I am. But then I start to orgasm again and they snap shut. I'm not purposely disobeying it is completely involuntary.

malloves69 -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (9/28/2009 9:07:42 AM)
never been a big pain slut so i would have to say that [:)] sometimes my lady gets in one of those moods she wants to whip and cane my ass but i dont get into that as much as she does ...must be a mindset thing ....love to see her getting ready but those smacks do hurt i must say [:)] wish i was a better painslut for her ...but yes that is difficult for me ...have fun mal

lovingpet -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (9/28/2009 9:07:56 AM)
I don't think there are too terribly many things he asks of me that aren't difficult! LOL! It is just the way it is for us. When it comes to play, it is often dealing with the mental edge on which he is choosing to play. When it comes to the practical, I am no good at taking care of me and he knows it. It has gotten so bad that I have gone through periods of having to report all my menus for the day, my sleep hours and any disruptions noting why they occured if I knew, my medication dosing, and what kind of exercise and for how long I did it. He also demands to know my thoughts constantly. I am always thinking, but barely aware of exactly what all is really synthesizing in my own head at any given moment, so I find that very difficult too. lovingpet

petitbateau -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (9/28/2009 11:20:49 AM)
Worrying about everything and biting my nails. :) I'm quite surprised I'm not the only one with the same issue lol

HisSub1213 -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (9/28/2009 11:56:16 AM)
I have to say worrying... He tells me all the time to "relax". But I'm a worrier. Its what I do, and what I've always done. So this is very very hard.

twistednikki -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (10/5/2009 9:23:28 AM)
I just wanted to say I totally know where your comeing from, I worrie about everything comeing an going. My Master tells me try an refrain from this Im doing nothing more then hurting myself, an make others worrie about me, so now I try an keep myself busy, but even that sometimes doesn't always work, but it also helps knowing I have a whole lot of family an a few good friends thatare a constent in my life, an the counceling week to week is also helpfull, if you think that my help.

Surrenderwithin -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (10/5/2009 8:46:05 PM)
Learning not to fidget when I was nervous, Breaking the habit of biting my nails ( spending a day wearing oven mits and still having to accomplish my tasks helped in that department), Learning to verbalize negative emotions without expressing them in what I considered normal ways, Letting go of the idea that I wanted to be the prized lamb and not just one of the flock and realizing that even though he has multiple slaves and submissives I still have value and worth, Being willing to let him be wrong, among many other things.

TheGaggingWh0re -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (10/5/2009 9:30:38 PM)
Ugh, speaking! I don't have a problem flapping my trap at any other time than when he wants me to say something dirty. I just melt into a puddle of squeaks and whimpers until he snags me by my hair and tells me to speak properly. Recently he followed up with some brutal punishment should I choose not to speak.

fadedshadow -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (10/5/2009 9:35:20 PM)
standing and walking in 5 inch heels and wearing them throughout a play session

MasterTslave -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (10/6/2009 7:13:25 PM)
the nipple clamps...have a hard time with the pain there and just freak out...Master is kind and doesn't make it last long...i usually end up crying like a baby

Eivarden -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (10/6/2009 10:02:18 PM)
Counting. I find that difficult. Speeling two. Thatz' harde. Wait, the hardest thing I've been asked, was to be dominant and take control. That's where I fail.

Zechriel -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (10/10/2009 4:46:51 AM)
Good morning! There is actually 2 things that I have such such problems with. 1-not teasing him about other girlfriends or subs. Coming from a Mexican family, all the adults used to tease about "sancha (the other woman) or sancho (the other man)". It's just natural to me and I tease my hubby all the time, esp. when he traveled for work for so many years. It's just good fun but Daddy HATES it. His first wife accused him when she was actually doing it. it's hard for me to stop before the words come out, like he says "What time is it?" and I'm all "What time is she coming over?" and he throws me this god awful look while I'm chuckling. Yikes. So most times I can catch it but sometimes I do get spanked for it. And 2-masturbating. Gods! I hate that. Daddy takes my hand and places it on my kitty and tells me to rub or feel good and I freeze. I hide in his chest or blush and have a really hard time coming like that. Usually it is more b/c he is rubbing my back or touching me elsewhere. He really likes making me do that but I would rather not. So I just do it and most times it's over with pretty quick from other things. Then I get to stop. But for this, I would say hearing his encouragement relly helps me to get my head around it. Good luck! Love, Zechriel [sm=couple.gif]

sblady -> RE: Whats Difficult for you? (10/10/2009 1:09:31 PM)
Over thinking......all the time. It drives both of us crazy and He's not having that. I'm often on the receiving end of the word "STOP". Such a simple word carries a lot of weight when uttered by the correct person. [:)]

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