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RE: I am an idiot - 3/27/2006 6:50:42 AM

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and we think this drama is real--why?

Hmm I guess for the same reasons we call 911 when we hear someone scream "Help I'm being raped".. Because its better to err on the side of safety?

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RE: I am an idiot - 3/27/2006 7:30:28 AM

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and we think this drama is real--why?

Hmm I guess for the same reasons we call 911 when we hear someone scream "Help I'm being raped".. Because its better to err on the side of safety?

ah a valid point SimplyV--I stand corrected.

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RE: I am an idiot - 3/27/2006 1:19:15 PM

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and all this time...i thought i was the village idiot...of course...i may be stupider that i appear anyway.

not sure it would do me the lest bit of good to make any formal apologise to anyone here...not that anyone would except them anyway.

guess that DOES make me the true idiot here.

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RE: My master just passed - 3/27/2006 4:07:21 PM

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My condolences to you.. take time to heal

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RE: I am an idiot - 3/27/2006 9:50:53 PM

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and all this time...i thought i was the village idiot...of course...i may be stupider that i appear anyway.

not sure it would do me the lest bit of good to make any formal apologise to anyone here...not that anyone would except them anyway.

guess that DOES make me the true idiot here.

Rest easy, Michael. Your position looks pretty secure from here.

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RE: I am an idiot - 3/27/2006 9:53:45 PM

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gee thanks...

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It's over - 3/30/2006 10:40:24 PM

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Hi all,

Well with the help of SimplyV I have decided not to meet with the masters. They took my questioning for lack of trust in them not just trust in the situation. So I am a free man and going to focus the last few weeks of classes. I will try to find someone over the summer in my area. Attend a few munches while in Detroit, we don't have any really in the upper penn that I am aware of yet.

Thanks for your concerns all.

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RE: It's over - 3/31/2006 6:54:33 AM

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Hi all,

Well with the help of SimplyV I have decided not to meet with the masters. They took my questioning for lack of trust in them not just trust in the situation. So I am a free man and going to focus the last few weeks of classes. I will try to find someone over the summer in my area. Attend a few munches while in Detroit, we don't have any really in the upper penn that I am aware of yet.

Thanks for your concerns all.

Good luck, Easy E.

Taking time to grieve and to get to know yourself and to get involved in a community will probably help you find a master.

I'm assuming you are bi or gay given what you've said so in reality a munch may not be the best community for you to circulate in. It won't hurt you at all, and I personally find omnisexual groups great learning experiences, but most munches tend toward het.

Not being a gay man myself I'm not sure how you find these groups exactly -- I know many aren't openly advertized or advertize in gay magazines and newspapers.

Just suggesting that if one of your goals is to find a partner it might be a good idea to find venues that have a higher ratio of the general category of person you are interested in.

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RE: It's over - 3/31/2006 1:34:19 PM

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Actaully I'm straight. My servititude would have been in a nonsexual manner. The reason I have not been able to find any munches where I am attending college (Houghton, MI). Its pretty much in the middle of nowhere. I will be in Detroit for the summer and look into something there.

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RE: My master just passed - 3/31/2006 5:17:53 PM

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I have terrible news and need somone to talk to. I just learned that my master of about 2 months has passed without me ever having the chance to meet him. No one I am close to knows about my lifestyle, so I have virtually no one to talk to. I could use some advice from where to go from here. I will need to start the process of finding someone all over again . I know this is kind of selfish because I am not the dead one but I am deeply hurt and missing someone. I am supprised by how much I came to depend on him and need him.

Okay, I didn't read the replies... I am sure they were all heartfelt.

meh. Two month online relationship. Pity me my master is dead. I am not sure what to do. Um anyone wanna fuck me better?

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RE: My master just passed - 4/1/2006 1:05:23 AM

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. first thing about this lifestyle is SSC. you have to be careful.its the motto we LIVE by and its why we stay alive. I am sorry about Your loss of your former Master. but if steps are not taking to watch your safety. this lifestyle is very dangerous. you were talking meeting in a motel room, being blindfolded. first of all. first meeting should never be for play in My book. its about meeting E/each O/other. Seeing face to face whats real and whats not. online is very real yes, but when you meet the feelings you feel here may not transcend into real time.and any TRUE master would not expect to blindfold you and play first meeting.

set up safe calls. have a friend watching that if something gets uncomfy they can break in thats why you meet in a VERY public place . lots of light people. never alone in a hotel room. being bound and blindfolded. your putting your life in a strangers hand and may be the last mistake you ever make.

what do you KNOW about this person. everything I have read not that damn much. hmmmm usuing same email as former Master thats fishy. I like Geoff have many emails emails are not sufficient verification of who somoene is. talk to people. if a Dominant has nothing to hide. they will provide refrences of dif people . phone numbers and so on.

if they have no qualms about providing refrences and personal info. fine but if not and the thought they want you blindfolded sends up a major red flag and I would run the opposite direction.

is this person clean? do they have tests done regularly for Hiv aids. know what you are getting yourself into. you may be young and new to this lifestyle but geez use your head.

take some time .. you lost a Master grieve for Him before you rebound into another relationship. talk to friends. get involved in a munch. stay on the boards you have some sound advice here. will you listen to it is the question

they are not worry worts as you call them they are conscerned. in this lifestyle we watch each others backs. at this meeting who will be watching yours? I hope if you are determined to meet you at least take the precautions we have told you.

Im not your Domme. these are not orders, but as a concerned Domme its advice I hope you will head. so you will live another day..

if somoene in this lifestyle will not follow safety procedures when meeting. they have something to hide and are NOT to be trusted.
Celleste Im sorry about the loss ofyour uncle sweetie. My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family. just as My thoughts are with you E for the loss of Your Master, but dont jump into something else because you miss and grieve for him.

I have to agree with the fact that the brother is full of crap. first of all you dont make demands on a sub/slave you dont know. to order them to call you Master would have been My first sign WANNNABE. I have dealt with many subs hurt by wannabes online and realtime. I hope you will not be another statistic in that line of numbers.

I make no demands on what to be called. no true Dominant does. we know the titles are earned not given they are earned . .submission is given not demanded. hence the term submit. fundamentals this lifestyle is based on.TRUST and RESPECT. please follow our creed be SSC, SAFE, SANE,CONSCENTUAL. that creed is there for a reason . for each and everyone of our protection.
hugzzzzzzz the ever Protective Lioness with claws out a bit.

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RE: It's over - 4/1/2006 11:44:06 AM

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ORIGINAL: EasyE

Hi all,

Well with the help of SimplyV I have decided not to meet with the masters. They took my questioning for lack of trust in them not just trust in the situation. So I am a free man and going to focus the last few weeks of classes. I will try to find someone over the summer in my area. Attend a few munches while in Detroit, we don't have any really in the upper penn that I am aware of yet.

Thanks for your concerns all.

Hmmm. I'm still not sure what to make of all of this. I'm trying very hard to give you the benefit of the doubt, but it really did sound like you were enjoying all of the drama you created here.

At any rate, glad you finally listened to someone. If you're going to be in the lower penn for the summer, any if you're interested, message me and I'll send you some info on southeastern Michigan groups you might want to check out.

Best of luck

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