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choccywoc -> I could turn into a zombie... (9/28/2009 9:17:34 AM)

I could easily turn into a zombie, sat here on Collarme. The trouble is, i seem to be on-line,
when everyone else is off-line. I'm still not fully conversant with all of the site, for instance,
i'm someone who has never used a chatroom. Someone said; "talk to me on "MSN," what does that mean?
I want so much to be an active part of this community, so advise me if you can?
I've only got you to ask.




Scotty306134 -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/28/2009 9:37:08 AM)

They're saying they use an off site instant messageing service for chat. There's msn messenger, yahoo messenger, aol instant messenger and probably many more I dont know about. I use Yahoo IM myself. Scotty




fluffypet61 -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/28/2009 12:11:19 PM)

Welcome! [sm=welcome.gif]
 
My preference is to stay on Collarme and use their email (read mail) for several rounds of communications before going off-site to chat.
 
i prefer NOT going to an off-site instant message system for chat right away.  Even though i have a dedicated email off-site for communicating with CM folks, i don't give it out to just everybody who asks for it.
 
My experience (and that of some others) is that most of the folks who try to get you to go off-site immediately are trying to get money, or trying to get you to sign up for a pay site.
 
Use your judgement.  If it doesn't feel right - don't do it.
 
Remember - Don't send money to anybody!  




Venatrix -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/28/2009 2:03:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: fluffypet61

Remember - Don't send money to anybody!  


Except me.  People can send money to me; I'm a real domme.




choccywoc -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/29/2009 3:33:59 AM)

THANKS FOR THE GOOD ADVICE EVERYONE, I'M CONSTANTLY TRYING TO IMPROVE
THE LOOK OF MY PROFILE, WHAT ABOUT THE PHOTOGRAPH? DOES IT NEED
TONING DOWN? SHOULD I USE A PICTURE OF A BOX-TOP OR SOMETHING
LIKE THAT? 




dreamofthemoon -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/29/2009 3:41:59 AM)

Hi, choccywoc,

Welcome to the boards!

For you photo, i'm not sure what to say, though most people (the Ladies here) like to see a person's face, if you're going to put your real photo up like that.

Though typing in all caps, on the other hand, could be "toned down", too. [;)]




choccywoc -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/29/2009 5:03:15 AM)

dreamofthemoon, unable to use my face photograph, for business reasons,
perhaps if i wore a mask or sunglasses? I'll look at the "caps."
Thanks for your kind words, i like your photograph.  




dreamofthemoon -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/29/2009 5:32:33 AM)

Thanks, choccy.  Though it's not really me in the photo, lol.  There's the "My Profile" link up in the upper right corner of the screen here.  Click that and scroll down a bit.  CollarChat has their own set of picture avatars you can use on this side instead of using your real photo.

Though i like the wearing a mask/sunglasses idea you had, too.  Or just take a photo of something else (i.e. not necessarily of -you-) and use that, perhaps.

Just a few thoughts. [:)]




choccywoc -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/29/2009 8:32:21 AM)

dreamofthemoon, i thought it best to use a photo of myself so that a prospective Mistress,
would see what she is getting. Maybe i should try another image and put my "bottom,"
in the gallery. You know i'm surprised at the large numbers of usa female submissives visiting
my profile (they are all welcome) & so few Mistresses, of course it only takes that special one.
A silly question, but what does "lol" mean? On the "Home" page i only see ads from British advertisers,
do usa Mistresses see my profile? Sorry to trouble you, just so many areas to look at. 




fluffypet61 -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/29/2009 10:51:11 AM)

LOL = laughing out loud
 
What i like in a profile pic is something i can talk to.
 
You might try wearing a hat, looking over your shoulder at the photographer behind you, standing under some trees with a shadow across your face,  posing far enough in the distance that facial details are somewhat fuzzy, or cutting off the top of your head.  

i like to see how someone would look in the outside world.
 
Keep the other photo.  Just make it secondary.
Just my 2 cents [sm=2cents.gif]




dreamofthemoon -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/29/2009 6:54:58 PM)

Choccy, what fluffy said. [:)] [;)]

The ads you see are just that.  Ads.  We have them, too.  They seem to be all over the place on there.  What you really want to pay attention to on the "Home" page is the list of screen names in RED.  Red screen names are female d-types.

And yes, if a Mistress from the USA here is searching for a male sub/slave from the UK like you, they will see your profile.

Oh, and call me dream or dreamy, thanks.




choccywoc -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/30/2009 1:06:32 AM)

fluffypet61/dreamy, thanks for taking the time and the good advice.
I'll work on the photograph, you are both right of course. Last night i
found some photographs from my early days, but perhaps i will use them as
secondry items. You know, i thought lol meant; "lots of love."
Have e-mailed an English Mistress, hoping for new adventure.

  Regards,   choccy. 




dreamofthemoon -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/30/2009 1:16:38 AM)

Ooh, good luck, choccy! [:)]  And you're welcome.




choccywoc -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/30/2009 1:40:05 AM)

dreamy, have requested your photograph to my circle of friends.
You probably don't want a picture of my bottom, but i'd really like
your picture, if that's alright. Don't know wheather i should say this here,
just been e-mailed by a female submissive wanting contact. She says; "put me-
on your ym," What is a ym? Also, what does BTW mean? Any ideas?

                 Many thanks,   choccy. 




TwistedPoet -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/30/2009 1:46:37 AM)

YM = Yahoo Mesenger

BTW is By The Way




choccywoc -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/30/2009 2:00:56 AM)

TwistedPoet, thanks for that information. People seem to speak in Text language, it can be confusing.




dreamofthemoon -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/30/2009 2:25:10 AM)

Thank you for the friend request, choccy.  i'll send you a pm (private message) on the main site and send you a photo that way. [;)]

i know text speak can be hard to understand and figure out at first.  i did a regular internet search and came up with a page of basic net speak definitions to help.
<<HERE!>>




choccywoc -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/30/2009 2:30:59 AM)

dreamy, thanks again for your help and the photograph. Hope i can
talk to you again in the future & of course, you can talk to me at anytime.
If everyone on here was like you, it would be a much better site.

                                       choccy.




dreamofthemoon -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/30/2009 2:48:52 AM)

 
It's no problem.  Glad i could help.
quote:

ORIGINAL: choccywoc

dreamy, thanks again for your help and the photograph. Hope i can
talk to you again in the future & of course, you can talk to me at anytime.
If everyone on here was like you, it would be a much better site.

                                      choccy.

Aw, hehe, i'm blushing.  Thank you. [:D]




choccywoc -> RE: I could turn into a zombie... (9/30/2009 2:59:13 AM)

dreamy, when i click on; "my friends," i get your name banner,
not the picture. is there anyway i can get that picture on "friends?"
By the way, what time is it in California?

              choccy. 




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