Disappointed (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Polls and Other Random Stupidity



Message


seeksBBW2serve -> Disappointed (9/28/2009 3:43:25 PM)

When I first joined this site it was with high hopes and great expectations that I might have at last found a place where true lovers of bondage, discipline, female domination, and even bdsm came to chat, make friends and maybe one day even meet. But sadly once again I am disappointed. Once again all I found was a site filled with prostitutes pretending to be something they are not and seeking out the sad, desperate and lonely, and dreamers in search of a fantasy world that so many on here claim to inhabit, but outside of fetish clubs and fevered imaginations doesn't actually exist. I am beginning to wonder if there are actually any real people out there, or if the whole d/s scene is simply a cynical ploy by the unscrupulous to make money from the desperate and deluded. Is there a real d/s world out there? Where people are interested in each other, and not just a bit on the side. I think not. Sad but true.




Elipsis -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 3:48:27 PM)

You figured it out.  Those people don't exist.  None.  Zero.

You are the only person in on this web site who is looking for that.  Probably the world.

I'm actually in on the cynical ploy.  I saw that the only real person on earth signed up here and followed you a few months later just to be a part of the elaborate facade designed to disappoint you.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 3:49:06 PM)

Thanks for sharing.  Me and my realtime friends who see each other, beat each other, attend events both kink and vanilla, will miss the likes of you.  Where are those real people, you might wonder?  A fair number are here on these boards, where you have evidently not posted much.  The rest are in the world that is not your computer.  Enjoy.




Elipsis -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 3:50:19 PM)

Also come the fuck on you have a blank profile...




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 3:52:45 PM)

He does?  Thanks for saving me the time, Elipsis, I was actually going to check!




sweetsub1957 -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 3:57:27 PM)

Wow.  His profile is 100% blank, no essay portion, no likes/loves/dislikes, etc.  OP, that won't get ya very far.....at all.  Fill out your profile with a positive attitude & maybe you'll have a bit of better luck.....it sure can't hurt.  [;)]




Elipsis -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 3:58:55 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

Wow.  His profile is 100% blank, no essay portion, no likes/loves/dislikes, etc.  OP, that won't get ya very far.....at all.  Fill out your profile with a positive attitude & maybe you'll have a bit of better luck.....it sure can't hurt.  [;)]


Well, not 100%... he's got a height and weight... [8|]




sweetsub1957 -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 4:02:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Elipsis

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

Wow.  His profile is 100% blank, no essay portion, no likes/loves/dislikes, etc.  OP, that won't get ya very far.....at all.  Fill out your profile with a positive attitude & maybe you'll have a bit of better luck.....it sure can't hurt.  [;)]


Well, not 100%... he's got a height and weight... [8|]



haha  This is true.  I'll revise that to 98, 99%.  lmao




bignipples2share -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 4:04:29 PM)

Many of us here are not selling any services, some are and I have no problem with them doing so.

Please don't equate your needs with those of others. It is not your place to decide what others should, or should not do, or want. If someone is looking to pay another person, again, it's not your decision. Even if they do this, they are real people.

If you've have some sort of bad experience, that's part of life. Happens offline, as well as online. You are going to find posers everywhere, not just on this site. Pick yourself up, dust off your butt, vent, then try again.

You don't always find what you're looking the first couple of times of looking.   

Now...back to looking for that dropped contact lens...................

~Big







AquaticSub -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 4:09:49 PM)

~FR~

I am not a real person. I do not attend fetish/kink events as often as possible. I have never actually scened and do not have a deep love for singletails.

I am also made entirely of butterscotch candy.




SassyBird -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 4:10:33 PM)

Make a profile. We take what we see at face value, and right now, you're just not worth any non-pro-dommes effort.
Get over yourself and grow a pair.You can dream dreams, or you can chase dreams. Nothing good comes to those who wait.




CarrieO -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 4:16:40 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: seeksBBW2serve

When I first joined this site it was with high hopes and great expectations that I might have at last found a place where true lovers of bondage, discipline, female domination, and even bdsm came to chat, make friends and maybe one day even meet. But sadly once again I am disappointed. Once again all I found was a site filled with prostitutes pretending to be something they are not and seeking out the sad, desperate and lonely, and dreamers in search of a fantasy world that so many on here claim to inhabit, but outside of fetish clubs and fevered imaginations doesn't actually exist. I am beginning to wonder if there are actually any real people out there, or if the whole d/s scene is simply a cynical ploy by the unscrupulous to make money from the desperate and deluded. Is there a real d/s world out there? Where people are interested in each other, and not just a bit on the side. I think not. Sad but true.


What you could have taken from this experience is to not put all your eggs in one basket.  "Is there a real d/s world out there?"....why don't you go out into the real world and find out.  Have you tried that?

You offer nothing on your profile but height/weight/location...why would I or any other person bother to write?  What do you offer?  When I see a blank profile ( yes, yours qualifies, to me, as a blank profile) I think blank person. 
Make the effort because guess what...no one is gonna beat a path to your door begging you to serve if you can't make the effort to show who you are and what you can offer.

You can have a pity party where no one attends or you can stop feeling sorry for yourself and show some gumption.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 4:37:02 PM)

Aquatic!!  I LOVES me some butterscotch candy!!  [:)][:)][:)]




tammystarm -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 4:37:09 PM)

all of a sudden im craving butterscotch candy that isnt real. damnit!!  o well remember the diet o wait since im not real neither is the diet im on, therefore butterscotch candy and chocolate pretend cheesecake




odioustoad -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 4:49:26 PM)

what's with all the threads about fakes and posers? but hell's bells, i'll have some of that fake butterscotch and fake cheesecake!




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 4:50:19 PM)

Odi!!  See what it takes to bring you out!   [:D]  Butterscotch candy and cheesecake!




AquaticSub -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 4:52:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Aquatic!!  I LOVES me some butterscotch candy!!  [:)][:)][:)]


Feel free to take a lick. [:D]

quote:


all of a sudden im craving butterscotch candy that isnt real. damnit!!  o well remember the diet o wait since im not real neither is the diet im on, therefore butterscotch candy and chocolate pretend cheesecake


You might not believe me but check out the Weight Watchers butterscotch candy. I swear I love that stuff and their toffee squares!




tammystarm -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 4:52:26 PM)

O O O lady i men L_A_D_Y    ahhhh      *starts touching self*
OMG i am real!!!  wow when did that happen, o wait it was your magical touch!!! woot!!  loving the Lady mucho!!!




AquaticSub -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 4:53:08 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: odioustoad

what's with all the threads about fakes and posers? but hell's bells, i'll have some of that fake butterscotch and fake cheesecake!


I could find a panty shot or something... oh wait. We're taking about the food not comics huh?




tammystarm -> RE: Disappointed (9/28/2009 4:54:44 PM)

i love the fake snickers bars from slim fast  amazing!! i got so used to them i couldnt eat a snickers...thank God




Page: [1] 2 3   next >   >>

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.03125