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RE: Grounding a new Dom - 3/2/2006 10:04:37 PM

LthrdWolf

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

so do you um grow cucumbers??? lol

*Rotflmqao*!!

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RE: Grounding a new Dom - 3/2/2006 10:11:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

Could have done with having a girl to remind me of that BEFORE I left the house... oh well at least I got the rest of what I went up for.

Well Mr Muse <--- j/k with you here my friend -lol.

If you like to 'swing in the breeze' under your jeans

...you could just have Your grrl bring your unders along & then put them on in the change room ...or don't you use those tiny closets that side of the pond?!

After thought edit: Orrrrrrr she could scoot away & 'buy' you a pair - lol.

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RE: Grounding a new Dom - 3/2/2006 10:24:35 PM

LthrdWolf

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ORIGINAL: Submotive

i've been involved in this lifestyle for about 7 months. Recently i was collared for training by a Dom Who is also very new to this lifestyle. i'm told He is going through Dom frenzy, feeling overwhelmed, doing some absent minded things like locking Himself out of His apartment. i want to help Him in any way i can.

Many of you are far more experienced than i. Have you encountered this? If so, what did you do to help your Dom through this time? Help Him feel more grounded. Thank you much.

He probably also has extra spills of endorphines (feel Good hormones) flying around his bloodstream,so He needs to be Sure to get proper rest & meals etc.Spiritually speaking whenever 'ritual' is performed it is followed by food & drink ...besides a nice apres/after business social aspect ...it is to help 'grounding'.

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RE: Grounding a new Dom - 3/3/2006 12:20:51 PM

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Many of you are far more experienced than i. Have you encountered this? If so, what did you do to help your Dom through this time? Help Him feel more grounded. Thank you much.

I cannot respond from a submissive stand-point but I can offer some wisdom from My mentoring advice--what He is experiencing IMNSHO could be Dom-frenzy--or it could be a basic flaw He has ( yes Doms have flaws but shhh don't tell them)--as a devoted submissive you need to watch for this, if it remains---as RavenMuse indicated, this will be an area that you will "serve" your Master as the helpful watchful eye for Him.

As for grounding--things need to happen slowly--taking one's time and building--with sanity checks along the way--and in a potential 24/7--vanilla things need to be added as well, otherwise the dust settles, the drop stops and there is emptiness---its like a child outside a candy store and a sign that says " All Free today"---too much of a good thing---so taste small samples, talk about it, evaluate it, add it or throw it away--and by all means realize that what you build is for Y/you and no one else---

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RE: Grounding a new Dom - 3/3/2006 12:33:05 PM

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same style..not same size! He wore 29 x 36 when we met 8 years ago...he's now 31 x 36...HUGE...grin

He's peachy keen!

um he's filled out um very nicely.... Now I understand why you have such a lovely grin!!! *G*

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RE: Grounding a new Dom - 3/3/2006 3:37:05 PM

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( yes Doms have flaws but shhh don't tell them)--

That is an urban legend, the dom with a flaw.

I am perfect just ask the little one, but let me get the stick first before she answers, "g"

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RE: Grounding a new Dom - 3/3/2006 3:41:57 PM

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Have you encountered this? If so, what did you do to help your Dom through this time? Help Him feel more grounded.

Tell him to smile and laugh.

When he gets to the point that during "knife play" while you are tied up and blindfolded, he says; "whoops". Then you feel a warm thick liquid on your body where you just felt the "knife" tip. You scream, so he takes off the blindfold and you see he was using the "sharp" tip of a chocolate fudge sauce dispenser fresh from being warned by the micro-wave. You look in his face and see a sadistic grin and you'll know - he's confident and "grounded".

Have fun!

Thanks for the idea, it is hard sometimes to harrass the mind of one who trust you so much, though I did have her convinced the other night I had a several thumb tacks stuck in her.

K

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RE: Grounding a new Dom - 3/3/2006 3:59:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

( yes Doms have flaws but shhh don't tell them)--

That is an urban legend, the dom with a flaw.

I am perfect just ask the little one, but let me get the stick first before she answers, "g"

K

Hey I Know I am perfect! I am told I am prefect by lots of people... mom, dad, brother,sister, friends, my slaves I hear them call me perfect all the time...

I recall it now

"your a perfect asshole"
"your a perfect bastard"
"your a perfect prick"
"your a perfect arrogant shit"
and many other phrases of well just too numerous to list.

yup - I keep hearing that I am perfect!!!! um the others stuff well that is just shallow flattery to my perfection!

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RE: Grounding a new Dom - 3/3/2006 4:33:42 PM

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Hey I Know I am perfect! I am told I am prefect by lots of people...

Prefects are seldom perfect...as those movies about exclusive English boy's schools seem to be fond of pointing out...

Cin <~ in a sassy mood today

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RE: Grounding a new Dom - 3/3/2006 5:35:26 PM

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My sincere gratitude to T/those of Y/you nice enough to respond to my need seriously. Although, the rest of Y/you have amused me.

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RE: Grounding a new Dom - 3/3/2006 5:58:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

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Have you encountered this? If so, what did you do to help your Dom through this time? Help Him feel more grounded.

Tell him to smile and laugh.

When he gets to the point that during "knife play" while you are tied up and blindfolded, he says; "whoops". Then you feel a warm thick liquid on your body where you just felt the "knife" tip. You scream, so he takes off the blindfold and you see he was using the "sharp" tip of a chocolate fudge sauce dispenser fresh from being warned by the micro-wave. You look in his face and see a sadistic grin and you'll know - he's confident and "grounded".

Have fun!

damn i LOVE how you think!!!

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