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Aileen68 -> Little Tasks (3/2/2006 12:38:20 PM)

Unfortunatley I can't see my one as often as I would like.
We communicate mainly by phone and email when apart.
For those times, he likes to give me little tasks to do.
His preference is self portraits which agrees very well with my creative nature.
I click, I crop, I send.

What, if anything are you required to do for your one when you can't be together?




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Little Tasks (3/2/2006 12:50:06 PM)

Long distance Ds

Pleasing my master long distance

Training vs play- the practical matter

Long Distance Relationship

In between visits

Online or Distance Relationships




Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Little Tasks (3/2/2006 12:57:30 PM)

One that worked well for me in a past relationship was having to keep completely clean-shaven all over. Everyday.

It was effective because

a) It was a daily reminder of how my body was a possession for his pleasure.
b) It gave me a ritual time everyday when he was on my mind so I felt connected to him everyday.
c) It was not something he could really check up on, so it was completely an act of what I call submissive honour that I did so...and that made me feel very proud of my submission.

I obeyed even when technically I could get away with it, and this had the effect of making me feel owned everyday.

Cin




KatyLied -> RE: Little Tasks (3/2/2006 1:15:46 PM)

blog
pictures




MasterFireMaam -> RE: Little Tasks (3/2/2006 1:28:46 PM)

Maintaining a journal that he can access has two excellent purposes. One, he gets to keep track of you and two, you get the cathartic experience of journaling.

Fire




slaveladyj -> RE: Little Tasks (3/2/2006 1:34:27 PM)

My cyber dom likes to control how I do the things that need doing around the house. From floors to laundry, he always adds a little something to how I do it, from being shackled to performing all tasks while kneeling, things like that, just so I know, that while I may live in a vanilla household, there is still someone out there controlling my moves.




slavejali -> RE: Little Tasks (3/2/2006 2:02:54 PM)

When Master and i were chatting, i used to do a daily journal to him, mostly it was me being crazy about my frustration with no physical contact lol...He also gave me topics to write about which was excellent.

I also spent the time making him things, cuffs, floggers, even made a bdsm themed quilt, which kept me sane.





Evanesce -> RE: Little Tasks (3/2/2006 3:20:50 PM)

quote:

What, if anything are you required to do for your one when you can't be together?


Maintain His calendar for appointments and important dates
Keep His house clean
Feed, water and otherwise keep His pets (all 10 of them) happy and healthy
Take piano lessons and practice daily
Work out 2 hours a day
Perform all routine household maintenance
Do special household projects like hanging wallpaper and painting (that's on the schedule this spring)
Make sure His favorite foods are in the refrigerator/cupboard when He arrives home (especially those triple-chocolate Dove bars!)
Negotiate with contractors when repairs/upgrades are needed at either house

Basically, I do everything necessary to keep a household running smoothly, so He doesn't have to and so when He arrives home, it's all US time.







littleone35 -> RE: Little Tasks (3/2/2006 6:30:49 PM)

Well i see my Master 2 or 3 time a week. ther is one task he always has me do. it is when i leave to go home as soon as i get home i have to e mail him so he knows i got home safe and sound. It makes me feel so special and cherished.

Matt's littleone




ownedgirlie -> RE: Little Tasks (3/2/2006 9:19:16 PM)

photos
journal to him
write stories for him
write essays for him
go to school
work out
strive to get ahead at work and "move up"
be involved in family

and then all sorts of other personal things. my days without him are filled with him.




Firmmaster4u -> RE: Little Tasks (3/3/2006 2:13:11 PM)

sounds like a very special master who cares for you a lot




BitaTruble -> RE: Little Tasks (3/3/2006 3:26:26 PM)

quote:

sounds like a very special master who cares for you a lot


Sounds pretty normal to me, and nothing that most vanillas don't do as well. Whether it's 'give me a jingle so I know you got home safe', or 'leave me an Email so I don't worry about you.' Doesn't take a 'special master' at all.

Celeste




littleone35 -> RE: Little Tasks (3/3/2006 3:39:04 PM)

Well i think he is pretty special but i admit i am very biased. I think all slaves/sub think their Master's/ Doms are special.

Matt's littleone




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