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RE: how do you ask round children friends etc - 10/6/2009 7:15:52 PM

MasterTslave

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rules are relaxed around kids and we don't let on around the kids...just code words or looks...they have no clue!

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RE: how do you ask round children friends etc - 10/6/2009 8:38:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

I don't want my kids to know. I have never wanted my kids to know but I suspect they do. I remember my ex asking the youngest to design himself a bed and he would make it for him. When my then partner looked at the design he said 'this looks like a cage', to which my youngest replied 'yep I have always wanted to sleep in a cage'.

My oldest always would kick the dog out of the cage so she could curl up in there and read. Usually would wind up with the dog on her lap eventually. But she hates people ordering her about. So I think it's just a slight fear of open spaces manifesting in the comfort of a small cozy space.

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RE: how do you ask round children friends etc - 10/7/2009 12:49:32 PM

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We are not around children much. Around vanilla friends we have code words. When i am with him i have to ask permission to go to the bathroom. With vanillas i will say i have to go to the bathroom and h wil not or say then go. My vanilla friend did ask me about kissing him when i leave his side and when i return. I just said when i leave him i am sad so i kiss him when i return i am so happy to see him i kiss him again, she thinks its cute.

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RE: how do you ask round children friends etc - 10/7/2009 1:18:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: spookyfe
i will soon be moving to my master. we have been talking about practicle M/s things i am his slave as such i ask to do a lot of if not all things. how do others get across to their masters in a way children don't know whats going on.

My own opinion in this is that while forms of speech have their place, they should not be confused with the underlying reality. You are either his or not. The forms of speech do not make this true or false. So I would vote for bowing to expedience when necessary and realizing that has nothing to do with the actuality of your dynamic or relationship.

To put this in vanilla terms, I never fondled Carol's breasts in front of her parents either, but that didn't make her any less my lover.

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RE: how do you ask round children friends etc - 10/8/2009 11:21:48 AM

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We dont act any different around the children. We are fairly normal anyway so there isnt much to adjust to. The only thing would be me wearing my leather collar in the evenings when we are at home. During the day i wear an O ring necklace or a steel choker but when we are home and we know we arent going anywhere that evening i meet Master at the door when he comes home from work with my collar, sometimes kneeling and he puts it on me and locks it. It is the only one that locks. i love it!! We dont change that because the kids are around. The teenager thinks its cool and the 4 yr old isnt old enough to really ask anything yet but when he does we will talk about it. The kids know dad makes the rules and he has me do things for him. He always asks me but of course there is no question. Its just normal. i dont call him Master in front of the kids, its usually the normal vanilla stuff, honey, baby, sweetheart, or just his name.

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