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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:00:21 PM

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But what good will gags do when W/we are not together????? Maybe my fingers should be broken so that I cannot type or text also!??!?!!!?? I AM a masochist, but I really need my digits!

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:13:14 PM

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smiles lose the internet> i have thought of that! smiles

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:15:04 PM

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but then i'd have the cell phone still and with a handicapped child i cannot afford to be without it.

self-control. we must learn self-control, tammy.

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:15:30 PM

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Do you folks have journals? Because if you poured it all out there, knowing he would read it, you might be able to avoid dumping it all on him/them.

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:20:52 PM

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~~~dusting off a new journal~~~

page 1) shut up
page 2) your not shutting the hell up
page 3)burn this one get a new one, start all over
smiles just a joke, your right that would help, but only as much as jut not typing what i am thinking....

self control????! got a definition for me?

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:32:13 PM

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in all seriousness you both are right learning self control and the journal would help. the journal would help primarily to keep His inbox down, for most instances i have always said a journal was a great thing. but i dont in this case, He has enough to worry about without reading a journal, it wouldnt work for U/us. but i do believe in them.

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:33:19 PM

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The whole thing about a journal is that you are supposed to pour everything into it. If he reads it that night, fine. If he doesn't, you 've still gotten the worry out of your head and onto paper/pixels. Sometimes just the writing it down is good enough to vent it.

Beyond that, if he doesn't ever want to know how you feel, not just the I'm hot and bothered fun stuff, but the bad stuff too, then is this really the relationship of your dreams.

There are times he's been impatient with my issues, but he knew about them coming in. He just takes a deep breath, reminds me yet again he isn't my ex, and then we move on. If I can't share everything, then I don't want to share some of it. I won't censor myself, won't cut part of me off again. This, warts and all (metaphorically) is who I am. If you want the good stuff you must accept the bad. I'm not willing to be half a person.

And because he's been so patient, reminding me over and over that he never did that, whatever it was, that he never will do it, that I'm safe, the insecurities have pretty much faded away by now. The more impatient he was, the worse I would be. He either loves you the way you need to be loved, or he doesn't. And if not, well maybe it's time to reevaluate a relationship that incompatible.

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:34:37 PM

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i have a diary online. i have given Sir the login and password for it. Does Sir read it? Has Sir ever logged into it? My guess is no. Do i have the guts to ask? No, again, not at this point. my guess is i won't be asking Sir for anything for a few days until He cools off.

Self control....looking it up. i don't know the definition, it just seemed like the thing to say :)

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:37:54 PM

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wanna exchange text msgs? smiles you can tell me when your planning something stupid or not shutting up and ill tell you.....
and darling i would never ask that question ever. i would hate to know that He has never read it, if He hadnt.
good point that He doesnt have to read it, just for you to know He can.

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:40:37 PM

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that might be a great support system. text a 911 help me close my mouth please please when i feel a stupid moment coming on. i will cmail you my number.

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:41:56 PM

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I just read all of this and I was wondering....do you girls run on batteries or are you plugged into a socket?

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:45:06 PM

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aha ha hahahahahah ummmm pfftttt!!! zepher! come on, W/we only plug in, im waaaay too good for batteries now, lil bastids wouldnt stand a chance! and yes we hijacked my own thread, and made it submit to us!

< Message edited by tammystarm -- 9/30/2009 4:46:41 PM >

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:46:29 PM

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Both... i've battery backup just in case the power goes out

< Message edited by SubOnlyForHim -- 9/30/2009 4:47:33 PM >

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:47:46 PM

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:49:06 PM

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well then your electricity bill must be astronomical! Go to Costco you can buy a crate of them there.....

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:52:12 PM

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Money is not a concern. Being wired at both ends at all times is!

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:52:34 PM

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OP: You sound from the first post to be a genuine, sweet, thoughtful, service-oriented submissive girl. From that one post (not knowing you), you come across as a dominant man's dream. Just by asking for help to be more submissive, you've proven you're already well on your way. Hopefully you can listen to the submissive voice you clearly have inside you, and let it guide your actions. :)

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:53:59 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SubOnlyForHim

Money is not a concern. Being wired at both ends at all times is!

I'd settle for being wired at one end *sighs*

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:55:20 PM

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i dont think 750 a month for electric is THAT bad, yes on battery backup!!

thanks normal i do try really hard, i make alot of stupid mistakes and have that one issue, but i know that He is very pleased with me when W/we are together. Now if You Sir ever see me doing something stupid here REMIND ME! thanks

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RE: Learning to be sub....all over again... - 9/30/2009 4:56:33 PM

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ooooooo look, I'm kinky!!!!!!

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