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CarrieO -> RE: New slaves (10/3/2009 10:23:14 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

I need to have a mental connection with someone before I can have any interest in dominating him...


That's the key for me..the mental connection.  Add to that manners, maturity (doesn't mean age), intelligence, a sense of self (who are you and can you articulate that to me...not what you want but WHO you are), a sense of humor because I crack myself up and I want someone who likes to laugh and a real desire to please me not because of a reward but because it pleases him to please me.  All of this and other, personal, things are what I've looked for in the past. 

Of course, a tight ass is nice too.




strangedesire -> RE: New slaves (10/3/2009 10:47:30 AM)

I don't think that "Mistresses" as a group look for anything.  Every woman is and individual, and therefore is going to want something different from a submissive or potential slave.  While there's something to be said for appealing to a wide demographic ("obedience" is getting a lot of votes) I'd think that it would be more beneficial to look at what you have to offer, and find a Mistress who wants those things from a submissive. 

Personally, I'd rather wait to find compatibility than get into a relationship where I have to pretend to be something I'm not.  But then again, maybe that's a dominant thing?  I change who I am for no one, and people who alter themselves to please others don't really make sense to me. 




slavekal -> RE: New slaves (10/5/2009 2:12:52 PM)

Ms. Mlicious uses the same method as Lady Hibiscus.  I just got a message from a guy a few minutes ago.  Told him that Ms. Mlicious will be at the Noir Hellbound this Saturday.  If he shows up, he may very well have a shot.  I have found that maybe one out of every five guys actually does.




SomethingCatchy -> RE: New slaves (10/5/2009 5:54:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

Willing obedience.

And an easy smile, and sense of humor.


And a picture of their face, and not their naked ass.




choccywoc -> RE: New slaves (10/6/2009 1:53:27 AM)

A piture of their face? Seems to me like everyone's hiding behind
some sort of plaque or image.




choccywoc -> RE: New slaves (10/6/2009 4:09:55 AM)

Just been talking to a Mistress, who tells me she much prefers to see a bare ass,
rather than any other image.




SomethingCatchy -> RE: New slaves (10/6/2009 5:46:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: choccywoc

Just been talking to a Mistress, who tells me she much prefers to see a bare ass,
rather than any other image.



I suppose some people enjoy looking at naked strangers. I'm not one of them, but at least it wasn't your penis. Those pictures are getting old as well.




RedMagic1 -> RE: New slaves (10/6/2009 6:06:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: choccywoc

Just been talking to a Mistress, who tells me she much prefers to see a bare ass,
rather than any other image.

Is this "mistress" a female?

Serious question.




choccywoc -> RE: New slaves (10/6/2009 7:51:18 AM)

Yes.
 
Serious answer.




LadyPact -> RE: New slaves (10/6/2009 9:05:36 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: choccywoc

A piture of their face? Seems to me like everyone's hiding behind
some sort of plaque or image.


Is that so?

Anyway, I have to wonder the same question as Red.  It's a rare case that a female on this site wants to see some random male's naked ass.




choccywoc -> RE: New slaves (10/6/2009 9:21:49 AM)

My answers are pure honesty, the Mistress is most definitely a female.
What can i gain by a fabrication of the truth. One thing i'm rapidly learning
is that it's impossible even trying to comply with so many opinions, they are,
after all just opinions. Don't misunderstand me, i appreciate all your advice
and will act upon it accordingly. It's my ass and i'm rather attached to it, but
in time, the ass will be replaced. 




RedMagic1 -> RE: New slaves (10/6/2009 9:25:08 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: choccywoc

Just been talking to a Mistress,

Do you mean "talking to, in real life," or do you mean something along the lines of "IM'ing with"?  Remember that male sexuality is more visually driven than female sexuality.  99% of the pic hunters I have encountered were men, regardless of what their profiles said.

If you're IMing with someone new, and you don't know if the "woman" is female, a good rule of thumb is this.  If she enjoys talking about her friends or her nieces, nephews, or pets, she's female.  If she says she's very openminded and would like you to talk about anything (wink), she's a guy.




CarrieO -> RE: New slaves (10/6/2009 9:30:11 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: choccywoc

 ...One thing i'm rapidly learning
is that it's impossible even trying to comply with so many opinions, they are,
after all just opinions. Don't misunderstand me, i appreciate all your advice
and will act upon it accordingly. It's my ass and i'm rather attached to it, but
in time, the ass will be replaced. 


The original question...

quote:

It's probably an old recurring question, but what do Mistresses look for in potential slaves?


I wasn't aware that this post was about you in particular.  I was given to understand it was a general question.  Perhaps next time you could be a bit clearer in regards to your expectations. 

For what its worth...I find that when a man feels the need to post a photo of his bum/backside, it shows what's important to him.  Much like the cock shots...all there is to offer.  If a "woman/mistress" tells you "she" prefers talking to your ass...well [8|]




LadyPact -> RE: New slaves (10/6/2009 11:18:28 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: choccywoc

My answers are pure honesty, the Mistress is most definitely a female.
What can i gain by a fabrication of the truth. One thing i'm rapidly learning
is that it's impossible even trying to comply with so many opinions, they are,
after all just opinions. Don't misunderstand me, i appreciate all your advice
and will act upon it accordingly. It's my ass and i'm rather attached to it, but
in time, the ass will be replaced. 

Unless I'm mistaken, that is the original main pic that you posted when you created your profile.  Therefore, unless the 'mistress' in question gave you the direction to do so, I find it highly unlikely.  It wouldn't be the first time the person in authority in the dynamic would direct their sub to create an account.  I did the same with My own boy.  However, the only time his ass is put up on display on a website are play related shots because I happen to like the look of My work.

What I was actually disagreeing with you on was your incorrect observation that "everybody" was hiding behind an avatar.  Take a closer look around.  There are a number of us with photos that include a face.  Granted, not everyone has that luxury, but quite a few folks put up their real pictures. 

On to this part.......

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: choccywoc

Just been talking to a Mistress,

Do you mean "talking to, in real life," or do you mean something along the lines of "IM'ing with"?  Remember that male sexuality is more visually driven than female sexuality.  99% of the pic hunters I have encountered were men, regardless of what their profiles said.

If you're IMing with someone new, and you don't know if the "woman" is female, a good rule of thumb is this.  If she enjoys talking about her friends or her nieces, nephews, or pets, she's female.  If she says she's very openminded and would like you to talk about anything (wink), she's a guy.



Can't disagree with logic.  Not so much the percentage, perhaps, but definitely on the concept.  If you haven't seen the person in the flesh, you really don't know their gender.  There are a few on this site who have been burned by those who are not exactly who they say they are. 

Which leads Me back to asking a question in response to your original question.  If you are talking to someone who is interested in you, why in the heck are you asking us instead of her what she looks for in a potential slave?  It would be her preferences that are important, not ours.  It's not a one size fits all deal.  We're all different individuals with our different perspectives.  It would be My opinion that your question would yield more constructive information if posed to the person you would like to serve.




IBused -> RE: New slaves (10/6/2009 1:55:20 PM)

well, I have had Mistresses look at me and say.."you Ass," and I'm dressed and facing them?  I do wish they would at the least add in the adjective "tight", hmmm, I'll work on that one.




Lockit -> RE: New slaves (10/6/2009 2:25:55 PM)

LOL...




IBused -> RE: New slaves (10/6/2009 4:17:39 PM)

only one ape in my family tree.......friken alpha male gray back at that...but I have evolved....Mistress...I swear.




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