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Our Fantasies - 10/4/2009 12:35:26 PM   
TenderBlade


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Status: offline 		To all the Mistresses,I have one question
Do our fantasies surprise you?
I mean ,Is there any limit  when you finally say "That's enough you are sick!"
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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/4/2009 1:51:19 PM   
aidan


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Status: offline 		You're asking a question that, posed to twelve different people, will yield thirteen different answers.

Put simply, yes, those sorts of outer limits to palatability do exist in all people, including Dommes. It's just that where the border is differs from person to person, in this case from Domme to Domme.

For instance: my Mistress is not keen to hear even fairly mundane sexual fantasies from just any yokel on the site with an account and rudimentary typing abilities. With a photographic subject, how they wish to present themselves and in what context might skirt into discussions of fantasies, but even then it's still pretty limited. With me, She's happy to hear about all sorts of perverted and dirty things, because we have a loving, trusting relationship that has built up over time.

But still, even with me there are some things that She is made uncomfortable by or doesn't find appealing at all. Thankfully for both of us they're not things that are obsessive or important to me, so I don't mind not going to those places. Frankly we're both mutually freaky in enough ways to be very, very happy.


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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/4/2009 1:57:27 PM   
TenderBlade


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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/4/2009 4:13:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		OP, I'm baffled by your post.  You make it sound like a Mistress is a drive-through at a fast food place, where you order what you'd like, and proceed to the window where you get your fantasies fulfilled.  You can get that with a service Domme, but... the Mistresses here will be happy to listen to your fantasies, but they will want you to serve them.  In other words, they get their wants filled, and you get yours filled through serving them.

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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/4/2009 4:18:42 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		What DarkSteven said.



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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/4/2009 4:48:16 PM   
CarrieO


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TenderBlade

To all the Mistresses,I have one question

I'm not a "mistress", I'm a woman. Not sure if that will fit the bill for you.

Do our fantasies surprise you?

Very little surprises me anymore.  Are you going for shock value?

I mean ,Is there any limit  when you finally say "That's enough you are sick!"

My limit is listening to a random stranger's wank material.  If you mean is there a limit to what I would listen to from a submissive mate...if he felt the need to ask that, I would wonder if he really knew me.  If I felt the need to tell my mate "that's enough, you're sick" I would question if I really knew him.



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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/4/2009 6:01:13 PM   
littlesarbonn


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Status: offline 		Sometimes, I think that my lack of creative fantasies is somewhat of a turn off for the average dominant woman. This comes from a lifetime of successfully achieving quite a few of the visual and psychological fantasies I had when younger, so that now I'm a lot more focused on the act of service rather than the specific list of fantasies that others tend to be fixated on. I recently had a woman ask me to detail my fantasies, and to be honest, I couldn't really come up with a list, or even that much of a perspective. I almost felt that stating I liked something or other was probably more than enough to cause a potential partner to dismiss me because I'm looking more at my own fantasies than the ones that she might be seeking. It's really hard to explain and digest this sort of thinking I've come to, mainly because I tend to feel there aren't that many that are going through the same thing.

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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/5/2009 7:39:49 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: aidan

For instance: my Mistress is not keen to hear even fairly mundane sexual fantasies from just any yokel on the site with an account and rudimentary typing abilities. With a photographic subject, how they wish to present themselves and in what context might skirt into discussions of fantasies, but even then it's still pretty limited. With me, She's happy to hear about all sorts of perverted and dirty things, because we have a loving, trusting relationship that has built up over time.



This is My opinion on the subject exactly.  I'm very interested in the fantasies of the people that I'm intimately involved with.  I don't particularly care to see them on the message boards or, even worse, sent to Me via email.  If it's a friend, I might have some interest level.  If it's somebody that I don't know from Adam, I really don't care what turns them on and I probably don't want to be subjected to it.

Thankfully, not long ago, the site added a Creative Writing section.  This gives folks an opportunity to write out their fantasies without putting them up on the discussion boards.  It's a good outlet for those who want to do the writing, while saving those of us who don't especially want to read it.


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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/5/2009 8:05:16 AM   
SnowRanger


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Status: offline 		A Fantasy:

I saw this Western movie once.  Two out-laws are trying to evade  a posse of trackers.  Every time they look back, the trackers are right behind them .  One out-law asks the other, "Who are those guys?"  Well, I wasn't one of 'those guys;' but, I am that type of guy.

Untill this morning, I would have said that I was the best a what I do.  Now, I know that there is someone better.

I was riding along the old wagon road when I spotted vultures circling off to the West.  Was it one of my herd?  I went to investigate.  I rode up on a scene that I could barely belive.  Big Bad Bob, the county sheriff, was flat on his back... dead.  In examining the area I learned alot.  Much of what I learned was intruging.  Bob's opponent was fast!   Bob's gun never cleared leather.  There was only one wound, right through the center of Bob's badge and into his heart.  Bob's opponent was accurate!  Other than Bob's, there was only one set of boot prints (including one in the middle of his chest) in the area, small boot prints.  Bob's opponent was small! 

Large or small,  I didn't care!  This was somebody I wanted to make friends with!  Besides...  We needed a new sheriff.  Would this some body want a job?

The tracking was a challenge.  Through the day I gained more and more respect for this somebody!  Still I held onto the trail.  I entered the canyon country late in the afternoon.  The shadows were long.  Those shadows were my un-doing.  My eyes had yet to adjust  when a lasso sailed over my head.  I was pulled off my horse face down onto the ground.  The lasso tightened and things went gray.  Right before things went black I heard that voice, "Gotcha' cowboy!"  That voice!  This somebody was a woman!

When I woke, it was dark.  I tried to move pulling at ropes on my hands and feet.  What the?!? I was staked to the ground!..  naked!...

Then I heard that voice, I voice I would learn to love.  "Relaxs cowboy.  I just want a play toy for a while...."

This is what I think of when I think fantasy.  Too often I thik that we guys confuse our  ist of likes and wishes with fantasy.

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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/5/2009 2:59:02 PM   
kccuckoldmist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: aidan

For instance: my Mistress is not keen to hear even fairly mundane sexual fantasies from just any yokel on the site with an account and rudimentary typing abilities. With a photographic subject, how they wish to present themselves and in what context might skirt into discussions of fantasies, but even then it's still pretty limited. With me, She's happy to hear about all sorts of perverted and dirty things, because we have a loving, trusting relationship that has built up over time.



This is My opinion on the subject exactly.  I'm very interested in the fantasies of the people that I'm intimately involved with.  I don't particularly care to see them on the message boards or, even worse, sent to Me via email.  If it's a friend, I might have some interest level.  If it's somebody that I don't know from Adam, I really don't care what turns them on and I probably don't want to be subjected to it.

Thankfully, not long ago, the site added a Creative Writing section.  This gives folks an opportunity to write out their fantasies without putting them up on the discussion boards.  It's a good outlet for those who want to do the writing, while saving those of us who don't especially want to read it.




As others have written and especially this, I have zero interest in strange men going into detail about their fantasies on a web site.

Fantasies can range from very realistic to completely idiotic/distrubed and zero desire or intent to make them happen even if you could. So the answer to can some fantasy make me sick is no and my thought when reading such is not judging the fantasty but wondering why someone would communicate it in the first place and I mean this from a troubled sad way.

In terms of being with my lover/slave I enjoy a mixture. Certainly I want to know some of his but at the same time I believe added enjoyment, excitement and mystery between two people of not blurting everything out that is thought about in our brains.




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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/5/2009 5:38:59 PM   
StoneFox


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Status: offline 		My switchy companion likes the idea of forced lactation in a sub female and making cheese from the milk or taking the milk in his coffee. It grosses me out and I think for a lot of women, sub/Domme/switch, lactation could be a sensitive subject. But even though I'm grossed out by his little fantasy, I would rather know it (and thus know HIM) then not know it and have some part of his mind hidden to me, if that makes sense.

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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/5/2009 5:45:13 PM   
SomethingCatchy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TenderBlade

To all the Mistresses,I have one question
Do our fantasies surprise you?
I mean ,Is there any limit  when you finally say "That's enough you are sick!"



I've only thought that with one persons fantasy, although you should hear some of mine. When I really think about it, I should probably be locked up.


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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/6/2009 2:52:40 PM   
IBused


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Status: offline 		I thought we were all sick?   We're not?   fuck you, now I'm confused, just when I thought I was in a healthy place.   OMG, I am sick.   Damnit Mom...I told you so.

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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/6/2009 8:31:28 PM   
SnowRanger


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Status: offline 		When I complain that I am sick, somebody always tells me to take two Tylenol and call the doctor in the morning.  

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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/6/2009 9:32:21 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: aidan

For instance: my Mistress is not keen to hear even fairly mundane sexual fantasies from just any yokel on the site with an account and rudimentary typing abilities. With a photographic subject, how they wish to present themselves and in what context might skirt into discussions of fantasies, but even then it's still pretty limited. With me, She's happy to hear about all sorts of perverted and dirty things, because we have a loving, trusting relationship that has built up over time.



This is My opinion on the subject exactly.  I'm very interested in the fantasies of the people that I'm intimately involved with.  I don't particularly care to see them on the message boards or, even worse, sent to Me via email.  If it's a friend, I might have some interest level.  If it's somebody that I don't know from Adam, I really don't care what turns them on and I probably don't want to be subjected to it.

Thankfully, not long ago, the site added a Creative Writing section.  This gives folks an opportunity to write out their fantasies without putting them up on the discussion boards.  It's a good outlet for those who want to do the writing, while saving those of us who don't especially want to read it.



I don't think you answered the question.

I think he wanted to know if we (men/males) fucked your head backwards.

(We, being somewhat unusual, having fantasies about small farm animals, vegetables, things with not a lot of sharp edges....that kind of thing).

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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/7/2009 3:25:45 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Okay the guy that wants to make CHEESE from human milk?  That is HARDCORE dedication.  Respect.

And in answer to the OP, OH yeah there are some things that really nauseate me.  Like, there is NOT ENOUGH BRAIN BLEACH.  That doesn't make those things bad (as long as nothing is killed or injured) it just makes it something that I NEVER EVER want to hear about.  EVER. 

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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/7/2009 8:41:51 PM   
sweetsub1957


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CarrieO

My limit is listening to a random stranger's wank material.  If you mean is there a limit to what I would listen to from a submissive mate...if he felt the need to ask that, I would wonder if he really knew me.  If I felt the need to tell my mate "that's enough, you're sick" I would question if I really knew him.



What she said.

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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/10/2009 8:22:07 PM   
GYPSYMAMBO


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TenderBlade

To all the Mistresses,I have one question
Do our fantasies surprise you?
I mean ,Is there any limit  when you finally say "That's enough you are sick!"



All Mistresses do not listen to ALL subs fantasies..
If you  mean have we heard shit on here that curled our hair..NOTHING
surprises me anymore..nothing..
Subs do try over and over to tell their fantasies..many in their profile.and it is often one single OBSESSION then they lament they cannot find a Mistress  who
eg)wants to shit   on them everyday..put bugs down their dic...or
eat then vomit and feed it to them.
wow..hay ya let's base a realtionship on bugs or shit or vomit..cool

IF you mean do I listen to my sub's fantasies..
yes..
and do I say enough?/
I do if they go on and on and want a McDOMME-ALDS.
and forget who is in SERVICE.

as for shock...wierd..fukked up..nope..beyond belief...
nothing has made me gasp..........yet..I have repeated some of it to those who fainted..
and as well most of mine make the average man wither,

GM


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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/11/2009 12:13:29 AM   
ThatDamnedPanda


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SnowRanger

A Fantasy:

I saw this Western movie once.  Two out-laws are trying to evade  a posse of trackers.  Every time they look back, the trackers are right behind them .  One out-law asks the other, "Who are those guys?" 


Butch Cassidy and The Sundance Kid!

"Oh, what are you worried about? The fall will probably kill you!"


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RE: Our Fantasies - 10/12/2009 6:04:24 AM   
SnowRanger


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Status: offline 		OH!  That's who those guys were!

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