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Looking for some help! - 10/4/2009 2:52:35 PM   
curiousjenny


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Status: offline 		Hi everyone, I'm looking for a bit of help from anyone who's willing to provide it!

I'm a student and I'm currently preparing a presentation for one of my sociology classes. I would like to talk about D/s relationships and the power exchange that happens in them and whether they can be seen as healthy relationships. Please don't be offended by my wording; it is my eventual aim to prove that they are actually perfectly healthy relationships, providing that all parties are willing, able and happy!

I have a whole load of questions, but I'll save those for a later date! I would also love to talk to any of you who would be willing to answer my questions, whatever your inclination is (though of course, I would never use your identities or anything in my presentation).

But, at the moment, I would just like to know if there's any literature (books, websites magazines etc) out there that could help me, especially any works by any sociologists. Does anyone know of any? I've had a quick peak at Kinsey and Brame, but I need more! Does anyone have an opinion on what Freud would have made of the lifestyle? (Feel free to be mean about Freud...he's not my favourite sociologist!)

I would be so grateful for any help I can get! Thanks so much!

Jenny



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RE: Looking for some help! - 10/4/2009 4:30:29 PM   
fluffypet61


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As to your request, i'm not really interested in being part of your homework.  i'm not an animal in the zoo to be examined or analyzed.  Nor am i interested in doing your research for you.
 


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RE: Looking for some help! - 10/4/2009 4:31:55 PM   
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RE: Looking for some help! - 10/4/2009 4:34:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh, thanks, Steven. 
 
Anything in particular you want me to do with it???

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RE: Looking for some help! - 10/4/2009 5:35:20 PM   
curiousjenny


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Status: offline 		I'm sorry you feel that way. I don't mind that you don't want to help and I wasn't intending on using anyone as some sort of zoo exhibit.
I am genuinely interested in the BDSM lifestyle, not just as part of my studies, and I only wanted to know if anyone knew of any helpful sources that could help me understand and be able to present the dynamics of the relationships better.
I don't know about you, but I'd rather prove to a class-room full of students that people involved in BDSM are not a bunch of victims and abusers, as an awful lot of people unfamiliar with it think.

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RE: Looking for some help! - 10/5/2009 2:38:04 AM   
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RE: Looking for some help! - 10/5/2009 8:29:12 AM   
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RE: Looking for some help! - 10/5/2009 2:01:31 PM   
candysweet26


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Status: offline 		i would be more than willing to respond to any questions that you may have.  i have been in the Lifestyle for just over 13 years now.  i relish the opportunity to educate other on O/our Lifestyle.  Just send me a private message if interested in my thoughts.

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RE: Looking for some help! - 10/8/2009 10:09:28 PM   
brokenheart56


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Status: offline 		hi!!! i will try an help you...please feel free to email me. if you want i will give you a email address to contact me.

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