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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/7/2009 5:09:23 AM

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I assess my girl's health. If it is severe, than any motion may actually cause her to vomit, and that is a huge turn off to me. If it is a simple headache, then I take her as I wish.

Headaches can be a sign of other major health issues, and if it is caused by raised blood pressure, then they kind of sex I have may raise it so much more she could have a slight stroke.

It all depends on the circumstances.

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I was wondering how you handle it?

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/7/2009 6:11:18 AM

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There is a theory that being sexually stimulated and having an orgasm can help a migraine, and I thought this was the reason for your question.

I think this has something to do with blood flow. A migraine is caused by over-dilation of blood vessels to the brain, so sexual stimulation would draw blood away to the groin and chest areas. But, it may also have to do with what sexual stimulation does to your brain chemistry and your nervous system.

However, I think it is a question of who, and when.
That is, according to when, during the cycle of a migraine, how severe the headache, and the individual's physiology, maybe it would help, or maybe Hell, No.

Migraines usually have a long cycle, with pre-symptoms before the real pain sets in (my pre-symptoms are for hours in advance), and recovery, after it begins to ease up. If you catch it in time, being sexually stimulated and/or stimulated to orgasm, might interrupt the cycle, and after, when the person isn't nauseous or in pain, anymore, it might be soothing. But during - only a person who'd never experienced that type of pain would think of having sex during.

And to any domly dom types who think they should just take it when they want, regardless of their slave or submissive's state of wellness, it would be unconscionable to play the duty-of-the-slave card, when they are in the middle of a severe headache, whatever type it is.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/7/2009 6:16:21 AM

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P.S. - I've come to manage migraines pretty well, over time, so that they aren't nearly as frequent, and I can usually prevent them going full cycle. So I'd be willing to discuss that, if you or your partner are looking for help with relief from them.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/7/2009 6:30:09 AM

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I minor stress headache can be helped through sex. A severe migraine will just get worse.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/7/2009 6:59:41 AM

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I recommend a rain check- ...WITH INTEREST.

Don't force sex when the other is ill.... I get sinuses and aint no deep throat when the sinuses are bad....!!

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/7/2009 7:09:36 AM

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Migraines usually have a long cycle, with pre-symptoms before the real pain sets in (my pre-symptoms are for hours in advance), and recovery, after it begins to ease up. If you catch it in time, being sexually stimulated and/or stimulated to orgasm, might interrupt the cycle, and after, when the person isn't nauseous or in pain, anymore, it might be soothing. But during - only a person who'd never experienced that type of pain would think of having sex during.

I was with a man for years who had terrible migraines. A nice long drawn out blow job during the pre-symptom stage could cut off the migraine, or at least seriously decrease the ensuing pain. It would never occur to me to expect someone who feels a migraine coming on to engage in any active role in sex. Someone in the middle of a migraine is best left alone in the dark.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/7/2009 5:32:06 PM

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I had a lover who got a post coital migraine Every time! I was amazed he still had a drive for sex!
A couple excedrines and a hot shower helped though.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/8/2009 2:15:51 AM

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s it a good idea to have sex when your partner has a Migraine?

Yeah, just not with that partner.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/10/2009 4:51:23 AM

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Atta boy, Ron. You always inspire me.

Ditto for me on this topic. Make her chew the pillow. It will take her mind off her headache. Win, win.

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tell her I ain't interested in her fuckin' head, and take her in the ass.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/10/2009 9:46:50 AM

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NO!!! Not ever.....in fact when I have a migraine don't even think about touching me....seriously....

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/10/2009 2:39:33 PM

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No sex. Combining stroke risk with added pressure of an orgasm just doesn't seem like a good idea.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/10/2009 4:13:40 PM

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For me sometimes climaxing while I have a severe headache can make it much worse. If I am truly not feeling well and he can tell then I usually make sure that He is satisfied and all is well. I am in agreement with littlewonder though...he does pretty much take it whenever He wants. Lucky for me I am not under the weather much at all.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/10/2009 4:18:15 PM

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The endorphins can help kick the migraine.
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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/10/2009 7:35:33 PM

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Fast Reply -

As you can see from the variety of responses, some people experience pain relief and for some the pain increases with sex during a migraine attack. And some people have migraines as a result of sex.

Mine come with nausea so any movement is a bad thing. Rubbing my feet and using acupressure techniques is beneficial.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/10/2009 7:37:01 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: yellowroses

For me sometimes climaxing while I have a severe headache can make it much worse. If I am truly not feeling well and he can tell then I usually make sure that He is satisfied and all is well. I am in agreement with littlewonder though...he does pretty much take it whenever He wants. Lucky for me I am not under the weather much at all.

reason #472 why you are the perfect woman.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/10/2009 7:54:05 PM

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If anyone comes near me when I have a migrane, they will be in the shower, so it might as well be a cold one, cause all they are going to get is thrown up on...lol

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/10/2009 9:21:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AnimusRex

quote:

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For me sometimes climaxing while I have a severe headache can make it much worse. If I am truly not feeling well and he can tell then I usually make sure that He is satisfied and all is well. I am in agreement with littlewonder though...he does pretty much take it whenever He wants. Lucky for me I am not under the weather much at all.

reason #472 why you are the perfect woman.

Oh my...and You just caused me to blush publicly. I have said it before I am the lucky one.

Back to the topic---It seems things vary from couple to couple.

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RE: Is it a good idea to have sex when your partner has... - 10/10/2009 10:06:38 PM

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quote:

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I was wondering how you handle it?

When my slave had a migraine, I would tell her to go lay down, I would give her any pain medicationas well as something to drink, I would bring her a cloth and a bucket of ice water that she could lay across her forhead I would make the room as comfortable and as dark as possible. I would inform the two little people that if I so much as heard them breathe they would find their noses stuck in a corner until they were 40.

Since I am part of the human race, the thought of sex would have never even been imagined

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