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Female sub in BC, Canada - 10/7/2009 11:50:45 AM

sweetNsmiley

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Just a quick note to introduce myself.

I am currently in a relationship that started out on here...under the pretense of it being a Dom/sub relationship, turns out its more of a control thing. Unfortunatley I found out too little too late and I had already moved half way across the country to be here and we have had a child in the meantime.

We are working together to either try to work things out or go our separate ways. The only way things would work out better for me is if he were to realize that he is in fact quite controlling and in so being cannot be at this time the kind of Dom I would like in my life.

I am looking to either just chat with someone for now about common interests and such or just have distant relations for now. Until I know for sure what is going to happen.

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RE: Female sub in BC, Canada - 10/7/2009 11:52:33 AM

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RE: Female sub in BC, Canada - 10/7/2009 1:48:10 PM

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RE: Female sub in BC, Canada - 10/7/2009 4:59:32 PM

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Welcome...sounds like you have a lot on your plate. Good luck and enjoy the forums.

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RE: Female sub in BC, Canada - 10/8/2009 1:20:31 AM

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RE: Female sub in BC, Canada - 10/31/2009 8:16:57 AM

LaMarrKee

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Hope you can work things out between you, esp. with a child involved; My slave and I (along with My free companion) live on Vancouver Island; if you'd care to chat sometime, about the lifestyle, or just ships-and-strings-and-sealingwax-and-cabbages-and-kings, Say hi.

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RE: Female sub in BC, Canada - 10/31/2009 10:16:57 AM

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Welcome to CM

and to the poster above: Jabberwocky... nice.

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RE: Female sub in BC, Canada - 10/31/2009 11:04:18 AM

prpackaged

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Welcome and I hope you are finding mutual grounds to build a relationship with. Such a pity to move half way across country only to find that your definition of sub and dom did not encompass control. Thre are so many forms to follow that understanding the other and their desires needs to be explored before commitment. If you do not find that the relationship works then do make sure that you understand better when that next com comes into your life.