LanceHughes
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Er.....um..... well, Bear..... That's why you're the assistant top. LOL! I'm not sure you're trainable, but we'll have to have a private session before we let you try that again.
Here's how you do it: (Riding crop in hand - I have an all red one that has a bite that others don't.) Do all that negotiation thing on health issues. And away we go:
<In a soft, reassuring voice, but don't lose command voice...: I have never had "red" called on me but in this instance we have some first timers as to same sex.... Hmmmm.... If anyone needs to break... just say any breakfast cereal and I'll come to you immeadiately. Touching an uncomfortable spot (body or mind) is okay, but we won't probe any further. This session is about fun and experimentation - me too <laugh>, not about expanding limits. Say any cereral and depending on exact situation, we might get you into aftercare. I'm sure all you ladies that have "done" bi will understand and will either come down slowly or will be able to stay in scene until I get you taken care of. We'll see how it goes, but no one is going anyplace that's "wrong" for them. Are we agreed? <all nod> Remember, any cereal. Just for fun, I'd like to hear your safe word - I'd like to compare men's choices against women's.<whispers: bear, stay to my left. Point to each. I bet we'll hear "special k" alot> That's what I was expecting. Man seem to choose "corn flakes" alot. What does that say? Probably that they grow more corn on MArs; more "K" on Venus. <Laugh, establishing sense of fun... now to get serious.>
Ladies! I want you to form a circle, facing OUTWARD. Now, STRIP! Place your clothing neatly in front of you... ... ... <you take note of skin tone, breathing patterns, etc. get the basline> Stop your giggling. We've had enuf of that. Stand up straight. I said "Stop your giggling." <Wait for the smirks to die down and continue...> I like the definition of BDSM as serious fun and that is what we're going to have - fun, but serious fun. Shoulders back. Good. Breathe a nice deep breath.... Good. Breath naturally, maybe a little deeper than usual. Now, quietly pick up your clothtes and walk slowly over there<point to left> and put them against the wall Stay there by the wall. All of you face me. <since some figured they hadn't been told, they didn't> Now hold hands with your neighbors. C'mon, c'mon.... that's the last time I'll tell you to stop giggling. Do it again, and we're done.
<they will giggle as they touch each other..... I'm getting them to touch sexually (they know this is where we're going) - some for the first time - but in the most comfortable way. Note that I didn't say: grab a breast as I might have with all men.... well, balls. Get it, Bear? Women are different than men. Back to it since they've had time to establish a link. Now a little further...>
We're going to do a little trust exercise. I want two on the end to close your eyes. Now - on my order - wait for it, the line is going to walk forward until you are back where you started. Guide each other and don't go too fast for the ends. Okay, slowly, slowly..... help each other by using your hands... Good.... a little further ...STOP! <move to center, behind them> Everyone open your eyes. Drop hands, turn around and re-join hands. Now, everyone except the ends close your eyes. Ends, make a circle around me. Guide the line around my voice, make a circle around my voice <much nervous giggling..> I said "Quiet." <once circle is made, continue> All eyes open. Look to your left and squeeze that persons hand. Look to your right and squeeze that persons hand. Now just randomly, look to one side, then the other - what ever - but catch that person's eyes and look into them while exchanging squeezes. Keep looking around till everyone has looked into the eyes of each side. When you are done, look into the center. I'll catch each of your eyes in order.... Look into my eyes as I go around, one by one.
<"go slow and careful," I say to bear. Take your time - they don't know it, but I'm going to go around twice.... I'll watch for the fear of the newbies, take longer with them. After one round, say> I'm going around again, looking into your eyes. As I do so, I want you to stroke the forearm of both sides. Just to the elbow.... slowly, sensously, up and down.... <use almost hypnotic voice> Open yourself to them stroking you and you stroking them... slowly, warmly, greeting them, desiring them, slowly sensuosly......
<that's all for now.....>
AWWW! Lance.....
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