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A request for profile help. - 10/10/2009 4:56:43 PM

NoxSerpentine

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Evening everyone. I'm fairly new to the BDSM community, and thus, am still finding my way around in terms of who and what I am exactly. That being said, I'm requesting help on my profile to make it better. Any help that you can offer would be greatly appreciated. *smiles*

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RE: A request for profile help. - 10/10/2009 5:14:15 PM

CarrieO

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First, let me say welcome.

Now, on to your question...I'm not sure why you feel your profile needs help. I find it to be clear, well-written, humorous (ex-retail person here!) and a good balance between vanilla and kink. I like that you're up front about being fairly new and still learning. You offer a nice photo and you've made a step towards posting on the forums, which is a good idea for people to form a mental picture of who you are and your views/opinions.

Of course, this could just be a well thought out plan to draw attention to your profile...if that's the case, bravo!
Again, welcome...good luck and keep posting. It's always nice to see a new face, as opposed to other body parts

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RE: A request for profile help. - 10/10/2009 5:21:14 PM

NoxSerpentine

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Heh, well, to be honest, I have a horrible time writing profiles, at least mine. Now, ask me to write a profile for a fictional character, I can give you details down to when he/she/it broke their arm falling out of a tree they climbed on a dare. ;) I appreciate your input, it's good to know that I'm actually getting better at that.

As for making the post to draw attention to it? *laughs* I had honestly never thought of that idea before, but now I know I'll be using some variation of that tactic now on other sites that I visit. Thank you for the idea. :D As for other body parts... yeah, not happening yet. Maybe in several months. *pats belly with embarrassment and slithers away*

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RE: A request for profile help. - 10/10/2009 6:04:01 PM

zephyroftheNorth

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First of all, welcome to CM!

I too cannot find anything wrong with your profile, it's well-rounded and gives the reader a good sense of who you are. Wouldn't change a thing.

zeph

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RE: A request for profile help. - 10/10/2009 11:48:17 PM

Acer49

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ORIGINAL: NoxSerpentine

Evening everyone. I'm fairly new to the BDSM community, and thus, am still finding my way around in terms of who and what I am exactly. That being said, I'm requesting help on my profile to make it better. Any help that you can offer would be greatly appreciated. *smiles*

giving me the peace and quiet I need after a day dealing with (debatable) men, most of which are still wet behind the ears from high school and think they know everything. I on the other hand, DO know everything (according to angry customers back in my retail days). (have to be to survive in my family!),
not really needed

I'm still learning where exactly it fits into my life.
or If?

Since you have no idea where you will be after enlistment, seeking something more than friends would be pretty much a waste of time unless you are willing to relocate near or with somone that you found fit your needs

Wondering why you don't list switch as a possible relationship?
Why would a Dom/me voluntarily enter into a relationship where there could be a power struggle when you "switch" to dom mode? you would need to be able to answer that along with other queestions relating to your dominant mode.

Over all, very well done, You came off a genuine human being and that is the most important thing of all

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