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Tease and Denial - 3/4/2006 10:00:40 PM   
MistressMonet2u


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Status: offline 		Which would be worse...

A) Knowing your Mistress's kiss and the promise it holds, knowing her method of making love with all the sensuality it holds and feeling her "velvet" embrace and never being allowed to have it again

OR

B) Never knowing it at all and forever being denied

both knowing that she will give this and more to someone else and you may be there to witness it.

C'mon, lemme hear from you...A or B???

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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/4/2006 10:04:53 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Either is ok, as long as I know what to expect. If she leads me to believe in one and then makes it the other, then there's communication problems.

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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/4/2006 10:05:04 PM   
foxglove716


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Status: offline 		I think being forever denied would be worse for me.

Its better to have loved and lost than never loved at all.

Please shoot me for making such a terrible cliche

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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/4/2006 10:58:42 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		i won't shoot you. i was thinking along the same lines. If my Master disappeared tomorrow, he still would have given me the biggest gift in life, and that is to have known him.

Cherish what you have been given. Missing it only emphasizes what a gift you received.

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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/4/2006 11:08:11 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
i won't shoot you. i was thinking along the same lines. If my Master disappeared tomorrow, he still would have given me the biggest gift in life, and that is to have known him.

Cherish what you have been given. Missing it only emphasizes what a gift you received.

Having something disappear is something very different than this particular situation. There is a sense that, in time, a loss becomes bearable and you are able to forget the pain and enjoy the sweetness.

But that's not the same as every day being shown and reminded of what you are not getting, and perhaps having to watch others having what you are specifically being denied of. I can tell you that when I was owned by my aunt and her husband it became very hard to sleep in a separate bed every single night. I still loved them, I still served and was happy to be owned by them. But not being allowed to be in bed with them didn't emphasize the wonderfulness of the rest of it- it was just something difficult to deal with and accept.


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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/4/2006 11:12:58 PM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross


quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
i won't shoot you. i was thinking along the same lines. If my Master disappeared tomorrow, he still would have given me the biggest gift in life, and that is to have known him.

Cherish what you have been given. Missing it only emphasizes what a gift you received.

Having something disappear is something very different than this particular situation. There is a sense that, in time, a loss becomes bearable and you are able to forget the pain and enjoy the sweetness.

But that's not the same as every day being shown and reminded of what you are not getting, and perhaps having to watch others having what you are specifically being denied of. I can tell you that when I was owned by my aunt and her husband it became very hard to sleep in a separate bed every single night. I still loved them, I still served and was happy to be owned by them. But not being allowed to be in bed with them didn't emphasize the wonderfulness of the rest of it- it was just something difficult to deal with and accept.



Indeed. As when a former Dom took over a friend of mine and i was left to the side to watch/hear them. It got to the point where i couldn't do it anymore. i wasn't trained to deal with it, and was released. And yet...in the long run...i had to take something good away from it, or what would have been the point?

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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/5/2006 9:17:35 AM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		I would take B.

I would rather not ever know, then to know and have to watch and wonder why it wasn't me in that place.

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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/5/2006 9:39:37 AM   
LokisBrat


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Status: offline 		B. for me as well. It would be terribly difficult to have to know and watch. Seeking a reason why....very hard on the sense of self-worth for me.

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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/5/2006 12:11:53 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		I think both scenarios suck...so I take "C"

C. Keep your cock in your pants, your heart in your chest and stop thinking so damn much!

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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/5/2006 2:29:26 PM   
dave1212


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressMonet2u

Which would be worse...

A) Knowing your Mistress's kiss and the promise it holds, knowing her method of making love with all the sensuality it holds and feeling her "velvet" embrace and never being allowed to have it again

OR

B) Never knowing it at all and forever being denied

both knowing that she will give this and more to someone else and you may be there to witness it.

C'mon, lemme hear from you...A or B???




Well its got to be A for me too ...

Got to say cliche or not foxglove716 you are correct

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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/7/2006 1:07:29 AM   
1wildwolf


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Status: offline 		ill take B thanks, and i even have my own saying to go with it too, lol

"ignorance is bliss"

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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/7/2006 6:40:09 AM   
edianspet


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Status: offline 		well, If I were to lose Him due to death, I'd have to say that I am happy to atleast had many of our wonderful moments, at least knowing it and having it then to never have had it at all.

If on the other hand, I was taunted and tortured knowing he was sharing life with another in ways only he and I have shared or if it were made that I had to witness and watch while being taunted... well then I'd chose B.

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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/7/2006 7:01:54 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I have to agree with foxglove with this i did lose my late master due to death but i was glad we had the time we had together. Now i am very very happy with my new Master.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/7/2006 9:44:22 AM   
MTslave


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Status: offline 		As one who has lost but hasn't lost one's Master I can answer this with experience as well. By the time I see my Master again, it's very likely going to be close to a year. Thats a long time to not see one's Master. Not only that but with the things we've been through when he gets back there is no guarentee that things are even going to still work out. I am right now in a lot of pain over the whole thing. However.......... even with all that being said I can honestly say if I had to do it all over again I'd do the exact same thing. To have had this two years with him has touched my life in every aspect, no matter the outcome. I'd rather to have had the experience and learn from it then not know at all.

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edited cause MTslave can't spell to save her life

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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/7/2006 4:54:16 PM   
Firmmaster4u


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Status: offline 		being happy with yoru new master is all that matters your life is now complete ml

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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/8/2006 3:45:10 PM   
subtoFemDommes


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Status: offline 		i'm tempted to quote W.C. Fields here and say i'd rather be in Philadelphia; but if i really had to choose...

i'd take A, at least i'd have the memory of something wonderful.

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RE: Tease and Denial - 3/9/2006 11:51:38 AM   
Haole30m


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressMonet2u

Which would be worse...

A) Knowing your Mistress's kiss and the promise it holds, knowing her method of making love with all the sensuality it holds and feeling her "velvet" embrace and never being allowed to have it again

OR

B) Never knowing it at all and forever being denied

both knowing that she will give this and more to someone else and you may be there to witness it.

C'mon, lemme hear from you...A or B???



Damn that would suck both ways! I am a very passionate person, who very much desires to love, and be loved as well as spend time with the Women that I love. Although I have had the desire to be cuckolded, I would say that it would be very hard to deal with knowing how it was, and then having to watch, and never be allowed to feel that way again. So I would say in such a case, I would rather never know if I was to be exspected to watch. How can you miss what you have never had? B is the best option for me.

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