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Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/12/2009 1:55:23 AM   
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My Dom/Papi is considering my undying curiosity with induced lactation. I had heard of a sub asked to cooperate with the process, which may take several weeks and many, many hours of sucking day and night... He recruited men and women to suck the sub on schedules until milk was flowing naturally. The size of her breasts increased a few sizes, her engorged breasts could only be expressed, pumped or sucked with His permission. In essence, He truly owns your breasts. Apparently, this fills Him with a sense of pride and ownership...his friends want for this to happen as well.

I guess the question is...has anyone experienced this...good, bad, or ugly? I have to admit it sounds exciting...but wonder what drawbacks might be? Help?
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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/12/2009 7:03:19 AM   
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While the idea of hordes of people coming in on schedule to suckle makes a good fantasy, a hospital grade electric breast pump will do the job much more realistically, assuming you don't live in a large poly household.

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/12/2009 7:45:48 AM   
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Its very easy to get a painful breast infection, while nursing.

Not to mention that having a bunch of eager volunteers suckling you, would be an open invitation to whatever diseases they may carry.... Ew.


Also, adults (especially guys, who may be the bulk of your volunteers) don't generally know how to suckle.
Babies do. Adults will tend to want to just suck directly on the nipples themselves. This will generally induce a lot of pain (think: chapping, cracking, soreness, etc.) over time, rather than lactation. Babies know that to suckle properly, they need to start from behind the nipple.

And adults have teeth.... Its bad enough when a baby has one or two. Adults would need to be careful not to let their teeth hurt you....


There are a lot of things to consider when your health is involved. Drifa is correct- a breast pump is a better idea.

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/12/2009 7:53:53 AM   
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If you leave the breasts un-suckled or un-pumped for too long, you will start to dry up, as well, which seems to be counter to what he desires of you. Also, I don't think there's any one specific activity that shows "total submission." Doing something you hate because he wants it of you can be a major expression of submission, or merely of obedience, depending on your mindset at the time, but that applies no matter what it is that he is making you do.

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/12/2009 9:36:17 AM   
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quote:

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My Dom/Papi is considering my undying curiosity with induced lactation.

I guess the question is...has anyone experienced this...good, bad, or ugly? I have to admit it sounds exciting...but wonder what drawbacks might be? Help?


Hello,

Drawbacks include the previously mentioned need for ongoing maintenance (first the stimulation required to induce lactation in the first place and establish milk supply, then the need to regularly remove milk from the breast in order to keep the body making milk--i would second the recommendation to get a high quality breast pump) , and increased susceptibility to breast infection (you can reduce your chances by not letting the breasts get engorged on a regular basis). Another thing to consider is that if you are employed, it will most likely be necessary to take time during your working hours to do this (use of the pump to establish and maintain milk). As dreamerdreaming pointed out, any adult involved will have to learn to actually suckle correctly. You'll need to have a good  grasp of breast anatomy and physiology, and there are plenty of good sources for inducing lactation, so i would recommend your Papi and you find some and do the background research needed to do this successfully.  Good luck.

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/12/2009 9:39:23 AM   
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quote:

...I have to admit it sounds exciting...but wonder what drawbacks might be?...


one possible drawback might be after all of that work and effort...you might not lactate.
some women don't.

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/12/2009 1:48:37 PM   
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thanks to all...lots of things I hadn't considered (infection, for one...) A pump sounds like the better investment safty-wise and schedule-wise...don't know if this removes some of the appeal of watching me being sucked...will have to investigate this more.

I do know there are herbs that can actually assist in the process, made into a tea. Has anyone had experience with any of these?

Seems too, a 'how to suckle' class may be a pre-req. I think you're right, it may be mostly men with no idea how to "help" correctly.

You're all wonderful! Keep your insights coming ...thanks

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/12/2009 1:48:41 PM   
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No, I haven't experienced it to any detailed degree. I quite liked the idea of it  and I still do to an extent, but ideas have a habit of not going the way of the reality.

After a while of me using a pump, trying to fit in the amount of hours it'd take to induce lactation, unless it'd been some type of undying passion, it died a death.

For the right person, with the correct amount of time to devote to it, with the amount of devotion and passion for it, it might be an interesting experience. I'm afraid the practical aspects became glaringly prohibitive for me. I simply don't have the amount of time that I'm willing to devote to wandering around being pumped.

So, basically.......... depends how much you want it and as Merc said.......... you could still put in a lot of effort and still not manage it.

agirl

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/12/2009 2:08:39 PM   
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Maybe the end result is not as important as the journey? My willingness to try may be the part that pleases? Maybe the huge committment speaks of my committment in the rel? dunno...

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/12/2009 2:56:03 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: spanque

Maybe the end result is not as important as the journey? My willingness to try may be the part that pleases? Maybe the huge committment speaks of my committment in the rel? dunno...


The end result may well depend on many things, to be honest.. I was postng from the position of someone that initiated the idea and the interest. There was no *pleasing or not pleasing* . I was posting in a factual sense from someone that * had a idea/thoughts/ fantasy.etc......and found it hard work and impractical to fit into real life, beyond the *idea*.

I *gave it a go*...and posted the result as an opinion from someone that had tried it. That's why I said ......

"I'm afraid the practical aspects became glaringly prohibitive for me."


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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/12/2009 3:00:17 PM   
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Search this board for threads on lactation.  You will find much discussion on the topic.

Bottom line is, it can be difficult to impossible, have significant impact on your helth, and in the end, you may not even like it.  My best suggestion would be to meet and talk to some women who engage in erotic lactation and see how they feel about the journey and the results.

And when you are engorged, your tits will not wait for permission.  I leak when I hear babies crying.

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/13/2009 3:31:30 PM   
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I do know there are herbs that can actually assist in the process, made into a tea. Has anyone had experience with any of these?


as someone who breastfed her two imps, yep.

basil.  you use the dried herb (about a teaspoonful) to make a cup of tea. and drink a cup of tea several times a day.  this actually doesnt taste bad *at all* and is helpful to make an *existing* milk supply more plentiful.

beer.  yep, a beer or two in the evening can help re-establish an existing supply of milk, as can breast massage.

however, i was dealing with milk supply coming in after a pregnancy, with all the normal hormones running through my body that would automatically (theoretically) bring in an abundant supply to feed a wee one.  starting a milk supply in a woman who had not given birth recently would be more difficult, and starting in a woman who had not given birth *at all* more difficult yet.

however, there have been cases of men who were able to develop a milk supply, so it is not out of the question.

i would suggest looking up La Leche League on the internet, and take advice from them.  they might be a bit out there (suggesting breastfeeding till kindergarten age, for example) but i know they also have answers for women who adopt and would still like to breastfeed.

kitten

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/13/2009 7:28:57 PM   
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Having breast fed before - make sure you have a ready access to a great bookstore, because boredom will be your worst enemy.

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/13/2009 7:49:13 PM   
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I hope it works for you, it's something I have always wanted to try. I am hoping I might find the right one to try it with the next time.

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/13/2009 8:59:14 PM   
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OP:
I induced lactation last year and am a Grandmother..in menopause..

I used the MARMOT method...there are sites on line and support..

YOU can express and manipulate a certain way..there is a way to grasp the nipple..roll and push back..on the ducts..
I used a breast pump from hospital and had willing sucklers
**suckler note...most adults do not know HOW TO SUCK LIKE BABIES..
babies have their tongue UNDER the nipple and are EXPRESSING milk..almost stroking like a cow's udder would be
 
There is medication Drs can give,,,,and the herbs have been mentioned.
THICK STOUT ale will increase production after..
 
 
INFORMATION IS THE KEY..
what will if be like FOR YOU?? if are engorged hourly is there enough suckling to drain and things like that
 
GM

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/15/2009 7:01:30 PM   
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Rather than go through all the bother of pumping or the constant line of volunteer sucklers, buy yourself some Domperidone. It's brand name is Prolactin and it's a synthetic version of the enzyme that spurs the breasts of mothers to be to begin lactation. I buy pharmaceuticals from overseas without a prescription and aside from having a shipment or two seized (all they do is send you a letter telling you they've confiscated it unless you've ordered something stupid like 5,000 tabs of valium) have never had a problem.

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/15/2009 7:15:14 PM   
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Having breast fed before - make sure you have a ready access to a great bookstore, because boredom will be your worst enemy.

Ha. So fucking true.

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/15/2009 7:55:23 PM   
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You need to be bored to have your milk production be regular. Consider cows; they do nothing but eat and sleep. If you are under any stress, the milk may well dry up.

But I would consider first figuring out how you are going to take a 15 minute break every two hours at work to pump, carrying the pump with you when your boss and coworkers know damn well you don't have a baby. Talk about outing oneself.

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/15/2009 8:23:13 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: spanque

My Dom/Papi is considering my undying curiosity with induced lactation. I had heard of a sub asked to cooperate with the process, which may take several weeks and many, many hours of sucking day and night... He recruited men and women to suck the sub on schedules until milk was flowing naturally. The size of her breasts increased a few sizes, her engorged breasts could only be expressed, pumped or sucked with His permission. In essence, He truly owns your breasts. Apparently, this fills Him with a sense of pride and ownership...his friends want for this to happen as well.

I guess the question is...has anyone experienced this...good, bad, or ugly? I have to admit it sounds exciting...but wonder what drawbacks might be? Help?


It has been written that this activity may cause mood swings, bouts of depression and other emotional issues. I would check it out before starting this

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RE: Induced lactation as total submission to my Dom? - 10/15/2009 8:43:34 PM   
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I would second the suggestion to checkout the materials provided by La Leche League (http://www.llli.org/). If you do get a significant amount of milk production, you might actually consider freezing and donating it, and LLL will help you find out how in your area.

Since human breast milk tastes rather like the milk left over when you have a bowl of Frosted Flakes with skim milk, it's probably not something most adults want to guzzle (YMMV).

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