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Dreams and Orgasms... - 10/12/2009 12:28:56 PM   
VelvetAngelique


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Greetings everyone.
Lately I've been having these wild, erotic dreams where I literally wake up shaking in orgasms..I used to experience something similar when I was younger, but I have never actually given it much thought until now. These orgasmic dreams seems to have somehow intensified as I have grown older and usally revolve around the bizarrest of fantasies which are beyond my control.. :3
I asked a few of my friends out of curiousity (both males and females), if they have ever had similar experiences, but they all claimed that such things have never happened to them.. I suppose I should be happy to have such a creative mind, and whilst I admit that it feels just wonderful in the very moment, it is defiantly also a cause for awkwardness.. (Yep, it happened once when I was sleeping in a tent... and everyone noticed except for me of course..)

Now I ask, since most here have plenty of experience in the kinky-field, if this is a normal thing to experience?

Also, I've been wondering about how some claim to be able to verbally control an orgasm, whilst I am open to the concept, I would love to hear people's experiences in that area as well.
How the mind works in mysterious ways...
Thank you for reading this. :)
X

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RE: Dreams and Orgasms... - 10/12/2009 1:07:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VelvetAngelique

Now I ask, since most here have plenty of experience in the kinky-field, if this is a normal thing to experience?

Also, I've been wondering about how some claim to be able to verbally control an orgasm, whilst I am open to the concept, I would love to hear people's experiences in that area as well.


i have frequently experienced this in the past, however, it was only during the time when i was actively involved in tantric practices and exchanging energy often with my partner. i endured spontaneous orgasms while awake and during the dream time. there have been rare occasions since then when my dreams have elicited arousal, but nothing on the scale that i experienced before. i have noticed that intentional manipulation or participation in consciousness raising exercises makes me more susceptible to this. the orgasms typically manifested themselves physically and on an etheric level via chakras. sometimes one or the other but usually both.

as for cumming on command, that takes time and effort, but it can be done. i have found it far easier to accomplish when i have a deep connection with the individual, much like the one stated above. mere emotional attachment doesn't guarantee success for me. i simply have those i resonate with and feel in a manner that i will not with other persons. it doesn't matter if the individual is standing before me or at a distance. for me it is processed on that plane and my body responds in kind.

i've spent years doing this and i recognize those connections immediately. they are typically the ones i fear in some respect due to the magnetic pull, but work my hardest to cultivate. they are also my most challenging relationships and promote a deeper state of surrender too. out of all of the dominant men i have ever encountered, only one has impacted me this way. we are not Master and slave. which makes me wonder if my days of cumming on command are behind me.

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RE: Dreams and Orgasms... - 10/12/2009 1:18:29 PM   
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Now I ask, since most here have plenty of experience in the kinky-field, if this is a normal thing to experience?


this slave has had spontaneous orgasms...while not fantasizing or being engaged in anything sexual.  this slave has also had orgasms triggered by walking, riding in a car, an intense fantasy or His voice.
 
normal?  not in this slave's experience.

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RE: Dreams and Orgasms... - 10/12/2009 2:26:50 PM   
Missokyst


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LOL ok... please tell me this is not a concern! I would be getting to bed early, waking up mid sleep, and then hopefully wake up to a second mind blowing orgasm.
And yeah.. some people DO orgasm in their sleep. If males can do it there is not a reason on earth that females wouldn't be able to either. Personally speaking, it makes me wake up soft, squishy and in a good mood for hours.

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RE: Dreams and Orgasms... - 10/12/2009 2:29:11 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Well, for boys anyway, if we orgasm for over 4 hours we are sposed to jet in to see a chancre mechanic, to fix it, I am unaware of any such restriction placed on girls.

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RE: Dreams and Orgasms... - 10/12/2009 10:02:23 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: VelvetAngelique

Greetings everyone.
Lately I've been having these wild, erotic dreams where I literally wake up shaking in orgasms..I used to experience something similar when I was younger, but I have never actually given it much thought until now. These orgasmic dreams seems to have somehow intensified as I have grown older and usally revolve around the bizarrest of fantasies which are beyond my control.. :3
I asked a few of my friends out of curiousity (both males and females), if they have ever had similar experiences, but they all claimed that such things have never happened to them.. I suppose I should be happy to have such a creative mind, and whilst I admit that it feels just wonderful in the very moment, it is defiantly also a cause for awkwardness.. (Yep, it happened once when I was sleeping in a tent... and everyone noticed except for me of course..)

Now I ask, since most here have plenty of experience in the kinky-field, if this is a normal thing to experience?

Also, I've been wondering about how some claim to be able to verbally control an orgasm, whilst I am open to the concept, I would love to hear people's experiences in that area as well.
How the mind works in mysterious ways...
Thank you for reading this. :)
X


I'm thinking (selflessly of course...for purely scientific reasons), if you can get off this easily, we should (for the sake of science, of course) do a study on this.

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RE: Dreams and Orgasms... - 10/12/2009 10:10:01 PM   
DavanKael


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Status: offline 		Sure, I've had orgasms while sleeping...it's fantastic; I generally become conscious enough to notice what's happening but not conscious enough to be awake. 
As for the cumming on command aspect of your post, I've spoken with people about it and it's popped up on the boards a bit lately as a topic.  I'm interested in the phemenon as well but haven't experienced it personally. 
  Davan

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RE: Dreams and Orgasms... - 10/13/2009 9:56:56 AM   
whiteslavebitch


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Status: offline 		Yes, I have been known to have erotic dreams lead to orgasms while sleeping. I have heard of other females doing it as well, although it doesn't seem to be as prevalent as in males.

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RE: Dreams and Orgasms... - 10/13/2009 10:20:12 AM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		I have the dreams Myself, I just wake up BEFORE the orgasm.......DAMMIT

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RE: Dreams and Orgasms... - 10/13/2009 12:53:50 PM   
Muttling


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ORIGINAL: whiteslavebitch

Yes, I have been known to have erotic dreams lead to orgasms while sleeping. I have heard of other females doing it as well, although it doesn't seem to be as prevalent as in males.



Are you saying we're hornier than the ladies or just more immaginative in our dreams?

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RE: Dreams and Orgasms... - 10/13/2009 8:03:53 PM   
AnnaOfAramis


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Status: offline 		Oh I'm so jealous! My dreams are usually SO mundane:(

Master gets all the erotic dreams though- He doesn't orgasm in His sleep, He just takes me WHILE ASLEEP! (He's always at His most bossy while sleep-fucking, lol) He LOOKS awake, but He isn't. It's funny as hell. He says He could never be with a vanilla woman because He'd do that and she'd be like WTF??!

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RE: Dreams and Orgasms... - 10/15/2009 1:29:22 PM   
VelvetAngelique


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From: Merry London, UK. :)
Status: offline 		Wow... Now, that's hot. Sleep-fucking, awwww...! I must add that to my turn-on list...
He must really have quite some dreams going on there.

Thank you everyone for your contributions, it's really interesting reading everyone's experiences. <3



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RE: Dreams and Orgasms... - 10/15/2009 6:24:18 PM   
DesFIP


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I have orgasmed during sleep once in my life. Don't know what caused it, but would love to do it again

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