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SthrnCom4t -> RE: What's in a name? (10/15/2009 9:19:07 PM)
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Often I call Otter by his given name. Occasionally by his fem name, although I'm really more into integration so I don't segregate. I often refer to him as My boy, or My gurl. I also call him Handsome, Beautiful, Love of My Life, or My lil spanky gurl!
The name isn't as important as the Intent. What your dynamic feels like, will likely drive your choices. Our dynamic is a wonderful mixture of him being my knight, my lover/partner, and my sweet gurl. Yes, he's mature, handsome, confident, witty and charming, but one of things that works the best is that I get to indulge my nurturing nature.
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