howahkan
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Submissive male is seeking experienced Dominate, Dominatrix, Domina, Domme, Femdom, Female, Woman for BDSM, B&D, bondage & discipline, D&S, D/s dominance & submission, S&M, sadomasochism. If you are thinking “I think I would like to try this out” please move on to the next ad. Experienced Domme's Only Please.
Your race, creed, color, looks or religion are irrelevant.
YOU MUST BE: Healthy, successful, self-sufficient or self-employed, highly intelligent, non-political, fair-minded and a pervert with a sense of humor.
More importantly you must be able to grasp the following concept. Collars, chains, cages and locked doors are simply props. If you can use the power of your mind to see inside of my mind, this is what you will find. I am already enslaved by my own perversions. Because of this total control is possible.
I do not require but prefer you are: Between the age of 30 to 50 (must be 21 or older and younger than 65), tall, physically strong, full figured. Trim is good, overweight is good/preferred, but not obese.
Exceptions: Seduction, a pleasant disposition and a friendly, sociable personality goes a long way with me. Also being completely self-confident, sexually suggestive, intensely aggressive or assertive really works. If you can stand with pride, head up, shoulders back, breasts up, back straight and keep eye contact, you can probably talk me into anything.
The following enumerated subjects are NOT NEGOTIABLE. If you cannot do these things to me then DO NOT CONTACT ME.
- Collar Me: Committed, long-term relationship.
- Total Power Exchange: I seek a relationship in which I surrender all control to you for an indefinite duration, (preferably lifetime) and in which the relationship is defined by the fact that you are always dominant and I am always submissive. Absolutely No Switching.
- Safe Sane Consensual Non-Consent: A relationship in which I knowingly and voluntarily give up the ability to prevent you from doing whatever you want. As, for example, deliberately engaging in activities which I will be physically prevented from resisting and I do not have a safe word. I give consent in this way and give affirmative consent to engage in any activity you wish and I will not be able to stop the activity in the middle. It should be thought of as consenting to an activity in such a way that the consent may not be revoked by me for any reason.
- Drama Required. Any position, status, conditions or circumstances in which you are the aggressor and I am the victim. Any drama will do. Role play is an art that I have yet to master, however, playing the game is everything. The game is this, I say “No, no oh please no” and you take the scene all the way to the end. You following through is critically important and a deal breaker if you cannot.
- Aftercare: (Most Important To Me) A period of time after intense BDSM activity in which the dominant cares for the submissive. Some BDSM activities are physically challenging, psychologically intense, or both. After engaging in such activities, I will need a safe, loving psychological space to unwind and recover. Aftercare is the process of providing this safe loving space.
My Kinks. I have not done a lot of these things, however I am looking for someone who has no problem with doing all of them to me. It is important to note that I will do anything you desire. The following is simply a list of things I fantasize about in alphabetical order.
- boot worship
- breath control/erotic asphyxiation
- caning/rattan
- cat o’ nine tails
- catheterization/sounds
- cock and ball torture
- crop/riding crop
- dacryphilia/dacrylagnia: sexual arousal from seeing a submissive cry.
- device bondage: bondage involving highly specialized equipment, furniture, or devices
- electrical play: violet wands/tens unit
- enemas
- fisting
- forniphilia: live human furniture
- humiliation play: humiliation, shame, embarrassment, ridicule, mocking, laughter
- inflation: injecting saline solution into the scrotum to inflate the scrotal sac
- long term bondage: days? weeks? months?
- needle play
- predicament bondage: bondage that is painful, humiliating, sexually submissive, etc.
- prostate milking
- queening stool/smotherbox: a device allowing domme to receive oral sex or anilingus
- rimming/anilingus: anus licking or kissing.
- service: maid, sex slave, any kind of duties performed for a superior
- sissification/feminization
- spanking
- strap-in: dildo held in by a strap
- strap-on: dildo attached to straps worn around the waist so domme can rape submissive.
- suspension
- trampling: submissive lies prone and is stepped on or walked on by domme.
- wartenberg wheel
- water sports
- waxing: candles
Hard Limits:
NO AGE PLAY/NO CHILDREN, 21 years of age or older
NO Zoophilia/Bestiality, nothing non-human
NO Abandoned for long periods of boredom
NO Necrophilia/sex with the dead
NO Mutilation
NO Death scenes.
Information about me: Currently not working as a web designer. I am very good at it, but with the economy the way it is there is simply not enough work available. I am an excellent cook / half-ass chef. Mechanically inclined.
Good natured pleasant disposition accompanied by a sympathetic temperament, friendly, sociable, agreeable attitude. Highly intelligent, non-political, fair-minded and a pervert with a sense of humor.
I am obsessive compulsive. Without a dominate person to keep me in-line I will surely kill myself by over-indulging. I smoke to much, drink to much, eat to much and do not exercise. As a result I am one hundred and fifty pounds overweight, develop type 2 diabetes and in the process of developing emphysema. If I do not find a Domme soon I will surely die an early death.
I am a masochist. I often feel that I am incapable and undeserving of a relationship with a person and do everything I can to drive them away. I usually hold the person in particularly high esteem, and do not wish to harm them by creating or maintaining a connection with them. Most people do not understand this behavior so they stay as far away as possible.
Other attributes. I am fifty two years old, six feet two inches tall, light blue eyes, dark brown hair, wide shoulders, big hands, big feet, small six inch penis. Swedish Irish.
Domestic situation. Currently very unhappily married to a female submissive. When we got married she told me she would be my domme. I have to top from the bottom and in nine years of wasted time she has never been able to dominate me. I have given her ever chance to take position but she has failed to do so every time.
I want to live out the rest of my life as a submissive to an experienced Domme. If you know you are that Domme then contact me and we will work it out. Thank you Mistress for reading all of this...
< Message edited by howahkan -- 10/13/2009 8:34:13 AM >
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