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sbslavex -> Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/15/2009 8:01:20 AM)
Greetings, I am looking for a college town/area where I can work for a local university/college, tutor statistics, take graduate level classes, and maybe teach. Ideally, I want to find a couple I can live with in submission to them. I can help with some rent, but I'll also perform maid service at the house to take care of my part (vacuuming, dusting, taking out the trash, dish washing, etc., and all with sexy feminine composure.) I would be available on demand to take care of my Master's/Mistress's sexual needs. Less ideally, I'll find a kink friendly home/apartment with roommates. Any suggestions on a good area to start looking in?

sirsholly -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/15/2009 8:03:23 AM)
my suggestion would be to focus on your job search then explore the BDSM community once you are established.

strangedesire -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/15/2009 8:13:25 AM)
Maybe the market is different for maths graduates than it was with my (former) major, but isn't getting into grad school hard enough without worrying if the university has an active kinky population?

sunshinemiss -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/15/2009 12:16:38 PM)
Welcome to CM. Try cities. Google can help you. good luck, sunshine

DesFIP -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/15/2009 8:29:44 PM)
I've heard it said there are several hundred schools in the greater Boston area.

sbslavex -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/25/2009 1:45:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: strangedesire Maybe the market is different for maths graduates than it was with my (former) major, but isn't getting into grad school hard enough without worrying if the university has an active kinky population? Yes, I suppose so, but I want to find a locale with many opportunities from which to base myself, as I want to be able to network with likeminded academics. I suppose mostly right now I just want to find friends I can talk to about their local academic scenes. What's the best way to make friends on collarme, without linking up with crazies or people of ill-repute? I want to make friends with people who may be open to having me join their household in the next 6 to 12 months, under the guise of graciously taking in a college boarder. Thanks! PS, finally got around to posting pics of myself... are they sufficient? Do I need more?

sbslavex -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/25/2009 8:52:18 PM)
PPS Do my pix reveal too much? Perhaps they do given my goal is mainly to make friends for the time being... But I want my future friends to also want my body too... Does that make sense?

sbslavex -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/25/2009 10:45:42 PM)
Well, I had my first chat with a dom master. It appears a live-in slave/maid would help out his wife. On the positive side, I would be required to dress en femme at all times (except work). However, he and she may have very little use for me in the sexual department, so I think that's a confirmation that I should leave my photos up. It will be some time before I can make even an exploratory trip, so we'll see what happens!

choccywoc -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/26/2009 3:37:05 AM)
[sm=welcomewave.gif] to CM.

sbslavex -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/26/2009 9:32:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss Welcome to CM. Try cities. Google can help you. good luck, sunshine I'm not sure what you mean by "try cities," unless you mean to search by city in the collarme search... But thank you for the encouragement! And thanks for the welcome wagon! Anyone care to comment on my pictures? Too much or not enough? Anything missing?

RUaPhdStudent -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/26/2009 9:36:13 AM)
We recommend the NY/NJ/CT area. NYC has plenty of fetish resources and communities, and there are hundreds of universities and colleges within commutable distance thereof.

howahkan -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/26/2009 9:41:53 AM)
Just ignore the ones who judge you without even knowing you. Always be truthful about what you want and always ask for exactly what you want. Life is a one lap race. When you get to the finish line be sure you have done everything you could to win...

sbslavex -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/28/2009 10:40:20 AM)
Did my request for advice get deleted from the Polyamorous section??

CarrieO -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/28/2009 10:56:06 AM)
It might have...from what I remember, it was more ad than an actual question pertaining to anything polyamorous, something better suited to your profile. Maybe you could find a way to word it more as a question and post it in General BDSM or Off Topic. Just a thought. Welcome and good luck with your search.

LanceHughes -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/31/2009 7:31:41 PM)
The bigger the city, the more colleges...... the bigger the city, the more BDSM activity. This was true in the days when gays started to be main-streamed some 20 years ago.... still true for gays AND bdsmer's now. And you wonder why gays love Dorothy's line when she steps in Munchkin land for the first time; "Toto, I don't think we're in Kansas anymore."

dcnovice -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/31/2009 7:50:32 PM)
Washington has a number of colleges and an active BDSM community.

impishlilhellcat -> RE: Looking for a (multi)college town with S&M community (10/31/2009 7:57:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sbslavex Greetings, I am looking for a college town/area where I can work for a local university/college, tutor statistics, take graduate level classes, and maybe teach. Ideally, I want to find a couple I can live with in submission to them. I can help with some rent, but I'll also perform maid service at the house to take care of my part (vacuuming, dusting, taking out the trash, dish washing, etc., and all with sexy feminine composure.) I would be available on demand to take care of my Master's/Mistress's sexual needs. Less ideally, I'll find a kink friendly home/apartment with roommates. Any suggestions on a good area to start looking in? Any big city is bound to have a college and a bdsm community.

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