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Lockit -> RE: Opening a conversation with a Mistress... (10/17/2009 4:06:31 PM)
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I start rolling my eye's when I read... I love your profile! Almost all the troll's, scammer's and non reader's of my profile have said that! lol The one's that I take seriously make a comment about something I said in my journal or how they relate to what I say in my profile. I need more than... I like..love your profile or picture!
The emails that speak to me the most don't talk about kink or sex or this site... but instead, something I have said and how they relate to it, agree or disagree or question. They put me into it without sexual or mistressy bs and they put themselves into it by just talking and not presenting a six foot, two hundred pounder with blue eyes who loves to serve and be led by a dominant woman. I want to see who he is and with that discription, I see about a quarter of the male population. (statistics just an example and not real data! hehe)
If the man has interesting things to say about something, I like a long email. If he doesn't know what to say past a comment on something I have said that is okay as long as he speaks respectfully even in a challenge of what I have said.
I don't want a life story, fantasy, outside address, phone number, complaint, naked picture or bdsm picture like cbt. I do want to see something of the man and his ability to hold a conversation about things outside a hook up of some sort and a decent, dressed picture is a bonus. Anything you wouldn't want said to your mother or sister, don't say!
Lacking substance... I find a lack of interest.
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