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Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/5/2006 10:17:16 PM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		And the count down begins. Master will be moving home on the 13th. Master was moving home in Dec when he was shot in the throat by a kid with a pellet gun below the adams apple by the voice box. This happened 2 days before Christmas. The Doctors finally released him and said he was fit for the drive to NC. For months we've eagerly been awaiting this news. And now it's time. Granted Master will need further surgery, he still can't talk good. The pellet is still lodged in his throat. He's just eager to get home. And allow me to tend to him and continue his healing process.

Arrangements are being made around here in antisipation of Master's arrival with his little one. Having 2 older ones myself but minors, we're combining two families. Everyones about to under go some major changes in their lives. House being cleaned, rooms moved, etc....etc...etc... Hell we're tripping over each other here trying to get things done in time.. having fun at it.. and hard times at it. Arguements over things needing to be done... and getting them done. Plus trying to get everyday things taken care of well.... Dr appointments, school.. etc....

So I was thinking.... it would be interresting to see how others have delt with their final count downs as well. The antisipations... the worries over if things will be ready.... how others delt with if they have or are going to bring not just 2 people together into a household but familes. How everyone starts trying to grasp the changes that are about to transpire.

I have actually started getting sick with my eagerness. I'm jumping up and down making sure things are just right. Sitting back down only to jump back up and start all over, thinking it can be done a different way. Checking to make sure everythings perfect. Not just for Master, but for all that will be living here together now. Moving in together... as Master/sub to ourselves... is hard enough... but when you add the mix of families... THIS IS TORTURE!

So yeah, I'm interrested in how others dealt, or are dealing with type of situation. The anxiety of it all... the Final Count Down. No matter if it's Doms eagerly awaiting sub/slaves.. or the sub/slaves awaiting their Doms.

Thank you in advance.....

(If this is posted in wrong area, I'm sorry in advance, but I did go looking to see if there was a place to post this.)

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/5/2006 10:44:00 PM   
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(If this is posted in wrong area, I'm sorry in advance, but I did go looking to see if there was a place to post this.)


oh im very sorry to hear what happened, truesub. but it sounds like he has a very caring and attentive sub to go home to

I love anticipation. It makes me feel like a giddy little girl on christmas eve. I slip into OCD mode, and make sure every little detail is attended to. Best of luck to you both!

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/5/2006 10:46:48 PM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		I'm so happy your Master has been given the all clear to travel truesub4u.

Master and i didnt have to meld families, however I can appreciate just how much hard work is ahead of you!

I dealt with my anticipation by totally redecorating the house, I made roman blinds with canes as a feature on the front of them, sewed them all on by hand, about.....30 canes all up lol, i repainted the house, I cleaned out every cupboard and storage box I had, I was down on my hands and knees (god forbid) scrubbing the floors lol. I hardly had any sleep for the couple of days before he arrived, its a wonder I didnt collapse from exhaustion by the time he arrived...but anything to keep the mind and hands busy hey *grin*.

Well more on the melding part....I guess we did have to meld a bit for 11 months. After Master moved in, my 18 year old daughter lived with us for awhile...this was.............difficult. Although I must say, Master handled her teenage tantrums much better than I did, it ended up she would go to him if she had a problem as in her opinion He understood her better than i. (grumble)

Good luck truesub4u, i wish your entire new family much happiness!

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/5/2006 10:54:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		Best of luck to all of you, true! i bet you are excited, anxiety-ridden, happy, nervous.... i'm sorry to hear of the pellet gun incident though, what an ordeal!

i don't have a first-hand story of moving in, but wanted to wish you all the best in merging your families and your lives together :)

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/5/2006 11:02:56 PM   
truesub4u


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ORIGINAL: slavejali

I'm so happy your Master has been given the all clear to travel truesub4u.

Master and i didnt have to meld families, however I can appreciate just how much hard work is ahead of you!

I dealt with my anticipation by totally redecorating the house, I made roman blinds with canes as a feature on the front of them, sewed them all on by hand, about.....30 canes all up lol, i repainted the house, I cleaned out every cupboard and storage box I had, I was down on my hands and knees (god forbid) scrubbing the floors lol. I hardly had any sleep for the couple of days before he arrived, its a wonder I didnt collapse from exhaustion by the time he arrived...but anything to keep the mind and hands busy hey *grin*.

Good luck truesub4u, i wish your entire new family much happiness!


If I clean any more... I'll be putting hospitals to shame. So i figure I'll just keep moving furniture about.. tossing thngs out the door.. bring more in... lol.

I have to go later this week and get a storage unit. All my holiday decorations need to be relocated to make room. I've bought new towels and etc... for bath... new bedding. I'm going crazy here. LOL

Thank you for some more ideas on keeping busy.. I need that more so .... before I go broke.. lmao


And foxglove... Owned.. thanks for the best wishes too. Grinzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

< Message edited by truesub4u -- 3/5/2006 11:04:49 PM >

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/5/2006 11:33:50 PM   
MistressOfGa


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Congratulations on your Masters return home. I cant imagine how excited you are. I get excited just knowing that pup is coming here for the weekend. I am thinking more seriously of moving to Savannah to be closer to him, and then our turn for anticipation will be upon us <s>
Have fun with all your cleaning lol you picked a good time, what with spring arriving.

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/5/2006 11:54:05 PM   
CERCKL


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Status: offline 		First I wish you the best in the upcoming situation as well as in the 'melding' of families...in ANY situation that is difficult. Your Master is very lucky. Second, I want to express my gratitude for your welcome to CM on another thread...I appreciate the welcome.
Best,
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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/6/2006 5:50:08 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		My dear truesub4u----W/we (yes its the little slashy thingy folks)--aren't there----yet---but I know how excited you are---our best wishes for you and Master, keep up your journal so we can all learn about it---did you mention that Master has been laid up for 4 months away from you?

A great story of courage and a submissive's tremendous strength--hugs

The boy and I look forward to meeting you and Master after you are settled.

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/6/2006 6:59:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well, let's see.....after 3 years and two trips overseas to meet him and his family, bought additional furniture so all parties coming would be comfortable, stocked up on men's toiletries, and food he would like, started the paperwork for immigration, planned the welcome party with all my friends.

But, when it was time to actually do it, he got cold feet, fucked somebody he just met and said he must not really love me if he did that.

I don't do online relationships anymore. I do truly wish all of you have better luck than I did. Just please hold on to a piece of your heart until "he" actually MAKES the move. Some men live a great online fantasy life, but they crap out when reality hits, no matter how enthusiastic they were online or on their own home turf. And believe me, we played by all the "caution" rules and waited three years. He was as sincere-sounding and as loving and wonderful as he could be when I was visiting there. He sent me love notes the night he did it.

Sorry to be a wet blanket, and I do wish all of you in online's the best of luck.

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/6/2006 7:09:39 AM   
shiava


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Status: offline 		Ah the countdown!!

Seems you are doing everything right, going nuts i am sure!!

i did most the same things you did, the one problem we dealt with was in His daughter accepting me, she was not a little one though.

Take some time while you wait to make something special for His little one. Something that will allow her to feel 'at home'. Make it something that takes a while and before you know it He will be there.

i wish you both all the luck and happiness in the world. Though my former Master and i are no longer together, i smile everytime i think of Him. For you, i hope for the forever thing!!

Enjoy, grow, and take good care of Him..

shi

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/6/2006 7:18:16 AM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		Windchymes.... thanks for the post. But Master isn't an on line relationship.
Only over the past 3 months he's been medically laid up and unable to come back home. He went back to home state to finish the move when this accident happened. Just this time home, it will be to live with.. not down the road. Yes he probably could of flown home earlier... but there's his son he's bringing, his truck, the rest of his belongings.

Our relationships started on line as friends only over a year ago. Neither of us believed in actual on line relationships. His for his reasons, mine for about the same reason you stated but not quite that extreme. So when we took notice to a relationship brewing past friends, we took it off line to really see if this was actually happening.

But yes, I still do see where you are going with this post and understand. I think sometimes that why my nerves are even more in an uproar.... the waiting.. the wondering... even perhaps some doubts.. till he walks through that damn door... LOL But I also know that's to be expected in the countdown as well.

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/6/2006 7:29:44 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		BTW, get some rest! The greatest thing Master needs right now is you--it won't help Him if He comes through the door, hollers Hi honey, I'm home and you are a crashed mass in the corner!

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/6/2006 7:38:51 AM   
truesub4u


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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

BTW, get some rest! The greatest thing Master needs right now is you--it won't help Him if He comes through the door, hollers Hi honey, I'm home and you are a crashed mass in the corner!


Yes Ma'am... I do try to sleep between things... He leaves Houston Monday for the drive here. Sense bringing the little one, it won't be a straight through drive.. so I plan on getting plenty of sleep Monday night.... to welcome him Tuesday..... big grinzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/6/2006 7:44:46 AM   
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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/6/2006 11:29:16 AM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		Thank you IronBear..... that means alot to me coming from you.



I'm still wondering how others delt with this anxiety... from both sides of the coin.

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/6/2006 11:46:46 AM   
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I'm very happy for you and your Master. This is a new step in the relationship and beinga bit nervous is to be expected.

When I moved to TN to live with Tim, it was quite an upheaval for me for more than the obvious reasons. I didn't have to worry about cleaning and rearranging, I was packing and moving. But I was a little nervous. My aprehension was centered around my unmentionable and Tim adjusting to each other.

Everything turned out just fine. In fact, better than fine.

Just relax, breathe, and remember why you fell in love with this man in the first place.

P.S. Tell him practice will begin the weekend following his move.

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/6/2006 11:52:37 AM   
truesub4u


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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

truesub,

P.S. Tell him practice will begin the weekend following his move.


He still crosses his legs when I mention your name to him.

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/6/2006 1:28:30 PM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Thank you IronBear..... that means alot to me coming from you.



I'm still wondering how others delt with this anxiety... from both sides of the coin.



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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/6/2006 2:35:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		My only suggestion is to relax and enjoy yourself. I hope it all goes well for you truesub.

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RE: Eagerly Awaiting 7 Days - 3/6/2006 2:51:44 PM   
Rayne58


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Status: offline 		I moved from New Zealand to Australia in January 2004. Between the time I came back from visiting Him until the flight back to Australia the time frame was six weeks. I had a lot of packing up to do, arrangements to make, plus Christmas and New Year in the middle of it all.

I still don't know how I got everything done on time I went through my wardrobe and got rid of heaps of things. I contacted insurance companies, international movers, businesses I dealt with advising them of my upcoming move. I sold or gave to my children things I could not take with me. In all that time I was online every night with Master on Yahoo, sometimes until 1am. We would count each day passed as one day closer to us being together in our home.

The last two days - my ex husband came and got the things for the kids, a friend came and took the refrigerator, the movers picked up the boxes and my computer. I was left with a single bed which a friend was taking the next day and that was it! That last night alone was spent with a book and a burger from the local shop. The next day my friend came and we loaded up the bed, took the keys back to the landlord and I spent that last night of waiting at her house (we had to leave early in the morning for me to catch the plane). Not a lot of sleep that night! Then a three hour drive to the airport, a three hour flight and I was finally back where I belonged

We have been apart a couple of times since (my father was seriously ill and I went back to see him, and he died a couple of months after that so I went back for his funeral). Two weeks seems the longest time when you are apart from the one you love (Master is unable to travel for health reasons). Luckily I had computer access so we were able to keep in contact every day. We still counted down the days!

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