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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:43:52 AM   
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porcelaine <------------- finallly someone who gets it....BRAVO


What I'm hearing from you now is that being rejected by morbidly obese women wounds your pride because such women are actually beneath you and they should have jumped at your generous offer. We've discussed anger, and wounded pride. Tell me what else you feel when morbidly obese women reject your advances.




*chuckling* I keep coming back from my chores to read your assessments! Thanks for a great laugh today Lucienne.

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:44:49 AM   
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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:44:51 AM   
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at least DARK is amusing.......careful Dark might get tagged as immature for having a sense of humor!! I will let you cry with jack  just go  up to oak mountain state park in Alabamastan jack lives there at the petting zoo


Ah... abandonment. Even your relationship with the animal is a fraud and now you feel so very very alone.

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:46:57 AM   
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Which proves a point... there is someone for everyone... enjoy your girl


what it proves is that you made a gross assumption in your response. just because i elected to reply without making snide remarks doesn't imply i agree with his methods.

porcelaine


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Animus is a Hunk Train - 10/17/2009 9:47:16 AM   
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*climbs on board the Rex-Animus-is-a-hunk train*

& it's attitude that does it more than looks . . . . . . 



amen.

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:48:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: blacklion

If You Are Over Weight How Do You Expect a Dom To Believe You Can Meet His Needs When You Neglect Your Own Health? If you are not willing to take pride in your own self how is any Dom to think you will take pride in serving him? Seems your Master would be Krispy Creame 

FROM the other side:
As an overweight Domme I can say I took time away from "the search" in order to release lbs and take a look into my process to see why it was occuring .
I felt that if I could not lead..control my health etc..and MASTER my own life HOW could I offer it to someone else?
I have released 100 lbs thus far and many dibilitating notions.

I have had 3 overweight sub males( over the years) and they met my needs quite fine..
The weight was an issue for their health and sometimes inpeded progress but we worked through it.
I never looked at the weight as a SIGN THEY COULD NOT MEET MY NEEDS.
MINDS FIRST
However I can see HOW someone such as yourself would
and
if I was for example..having a need for my sub to kayak..hike and travel with me..or
spend long hours in the garden or dancing...weight could be an issue.
If my beloved was in danger of heart attack..again an issue..


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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:48:15 AM   
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I've heard the one about how many angels can fit on the head of a pin, but how many whores can fit onto a hand is a new one on me.

/Sits back to enjoy the bonfire/



you gonna share that popcorn?


I might.  What would you offer me in return? 



a show? i mean...uhhh errr... company to enjoy the show?

edited to add .... you do notice i'm juggling cookies, yes?

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:49:49 AM   
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The competition to be an attention-whore 'round this place is pretty intense; nothing like a really good temper tantrum to drag eyes to one's posts . ... .. .

Tho', frankly, straight-up trolls are dull, there's so little substance to their attacks. It's ultimately just an attention-getting thing on the part of persons who so lack charm or interest that temper tantrums are their best attention-getting gambit . .. . .

*bad-Willow voice, again*

"Bored now . ... ."

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:51:04 AM   
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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:51:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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ORIGINAL: blacklion

porcelaine <------------- finallly someone who gets it....BRAVO


What I'm hearing from you now is that being rejected by morbidly obese women wounds your pride because such women are actually beneath you and they should have jumped at your generous offer. We've discussed anger, and wounded pride. Tell me what else you feel when morbidly obese women reject your advances.



I have this image in my mind of you, Lucienne, sitting in a large leather wing-back chair, pad of paper and pen at ready with  bl lying on a couch kicking his heels against the cushions and pouting "why doesn't she want meeeeee?"

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne
Ah... abandonment. Even your relationship with the animal is a fraud and now you feel so very very alone.


And so the plot thickens....pillow held tightly over his head so as to block out the sound of truth?


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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:51:55 AM   
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and so it begins.............typical trend everyone gang up on little ol me....why has this become personal rather than a simple discussion of someone not caring enough about themselves to want to be able to see their own toes?


Awwwww  I'm sure you should have your big boy panties on and are able to handle criticism. So....if you are an overweight dominant, how can you expect a submissive to serve your needs when you obviously neglected your own health?  How can you expect us to respect you when you don;'t have respect for your own weigh issues and health issues?





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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:52:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: porcelaine

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Which proves a point... there is someone for everyone... enjoy your girl


what it proves is that you made a gross assumption in your response. just because i elected to reply without making snide remarks doesn't imply i agree with his methods.

porcelaine



sorry porcelaine.  i have seen your posts often enough to know you would not be the one for him.  i have a quirky sense of humor.

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:52:58 AM   
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Why did I post this one ...simple...To provoke a discussion and low and behold it did just that. It really does not mater what I post at this point. The regulars will look upon my posts in a negitive light. I applaud you little one ( matt) for being bold enough to step up and share your view...I know it was not easy..however  the differene bentween the scaed and the brave is the brave do it anyway. I do not personally have issues with the 65% of the population who are over weight...in fact the company of hard bodies I find to be more superficial...yet on the flip side there isa point when I see a 400 plus pounder at walmart zippingabout on a slob sled..that is unacceptable to me...then back to the thin mint side of things  shapely women use their ASSets  such at a strip club or hooters.....I would not pay to have some c breasted  self proclaiemd hotty try to milk me like a sow for the business. Now.....my question was on the up and up......the shotat me at the end of your post was in poor taste as I did not single out anyone it was a over all inquiry. you are pitchin g people im winding up my bat let it fly :)


And my answer to you blacklion was also on the up and up. I am sorry but this is an attitud all to many of us meet. We are beeing judged sinply on our size nothing more. My size isent a part of what makes me a good submissive. Ok, maybe im not swining from the chandaleres when i fuck my master but that beeing said, its not something that he has ever asked of me.

Just cuz somone is overweight dosent deminish her as a submissive. nore does it deminish the one she serves. A Dominant man who has a fat submissive is just as much dom as the next dom who happens to have a thin sumbissive.

Making sweeping generalisations is a dangerus thing you know. Eaven at my heaviest i went to the gym, i went swiming, i went to aerobic class, i worked in a gym (still do).  And i actualy didnt hate my body. i didnt feel i had to be ashamed of it or that my Master was less of a man for whanting me.

and no, my last coment wasnt in poor taste. It was an observation. What you say (or anyone else for that matter) speeks volumes about them and there belives. And by having such an opinion you will unfortunatly miss out on fantastic people who might have served you well.

I got upset by your post since this is something i often hear. Im fat so i shuld realy jump in bed with anyone that will have me, i have nothing more than a midnight fuck to offer. Men who get rejected by me get insulted that i dare reject them.. i meen, who do i think i am?

Ask yourself why you wuld think my coment was in pore taste, might it be that it is true?

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:53:25 AM   
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Have a pole, little girl.  


pondering the possibilities of what is meant by "pole"

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:55:03 AM   
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Shhhh OsideGirl you are giving away all my secrets...I have been so enjoying the lets guess his issues game!!


When did you first realize that people you find unattractive still get to enjoy sex? How did this realization make you feel?

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:56:13 AM   
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Have a pole, little girl.  


pondering the possibilities of what is meant by "pole"


You were probably right the first time....

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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:58:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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Shhhh OsideGirl you are giving away all my secrets...I have been so enjoying the lets guess his issues game!!


When did you first realize that people you find unattractive still get to enjoy sex? How did this realization make you feel?

and how did it make you feel when the afore mentioned unattractive people shot you down?


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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 9:59:43 AM   
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Not all overweight people are overweight because they over eat.
Not all overweight people are submissive. There are quite a few overweight doms as well.
Not all overweight people have pride problems, some are perfectly happy the way they are.

Now that said, how do you expect a submissive to respect someone who makes generalizations about people when he clearly does not have all the facts? How could she respect him, when in addition to being narrow minded, he can't find the spacebar on his keyboard and rants on the forums? All that anger, I think you need some sugar in your diet.


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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 10:01:06 AM   
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people are built all different ways, have different tastes, for different reasons. if we were all built the exact same how dreadfully boring would that be? there would be no more ogling in the restaurant, bar, shopping mall, etc. for what would be the point? there would be no need to nudge Sir and direct Sir's attention to the hawt ass or the massive bewbage on the chick that just walked in front of me anymore and that would just be sad.

being submissive hasn't a thing to do with size

to quote one of my best friends....fat chicks need love too!



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RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCan... - 10/17/2009 10:03:25 AM   
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