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facesitting licking/smother - 3/6/2006 1:24:58 AM

starskey

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why is it so many women are uncomfortable with facesitting forced licking?

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/6/2006 1:36:19 AM

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why is it so many women are uncomfortable with facesitting forced licking?

It's hard on the knees, you have to maintain your balance so you don't accidently suffocate someone and most men who like queening don't 'really' consider the licking 'forced' since they want to do it anyway so it doesn't appeal to the dominant side. A lot of work on the part of the woman for little benefit. However, that said, there are women who like it and there are queening chairs available.. so just keep looking until you find one who will feed your fetish then buy her a chair for her comfort.

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/6/2006 1:51:14 AM

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ok not necessarily licking forced sitting suffocaion this dom i was with use to ride my nose as hard as she could front and back

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/6/2006 6:20:18 AM

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why is it so many women are uncomfortable with facesitting forced licking?

What research have you done to confirm that "so many women" are uncomfortable with that sort of activity?

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/6/2006 9:44:16 AM

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let me answer that with a counterquestion

y are so many subs uncomfortable with first proving they r servil in a dommes life, but quick with *ordering* special treatments?

apart of that...like bitatruble said...its uncomfortable and i know there is many woman that dont like to bee licked for half an hr...

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/6/2006 12:45:07 PM

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I don't know what you consider many or so many or where you did your research. But I would venture a guess that the women you have discussed this with were adverse to the activity because they are women, whole and complete people and not simply a life support system for your fetish.

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/6/2006 7:40:42 PM

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I enjoy the act in question... but I am not interested in having a submissive for that sole purpose, nor am I interested in catering to his obsessions. you may find that the discomfort the Dominant Women you are discovering is with the vibes they are receiving from the submissive, and not from the thought of anything oral.

From the first e-mail, it is apparent which subs are here to get their fix... and which submissives are sincere. 7 posts, and all are about face sitting... hmmm....

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/6/2006 8:45:19 PM

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ive never really discussed it,its not my fetish one girl made it availble on her terms for a long period of time.not more not less.being dominated any way would be good.

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/6/2006 8:51:55 PM

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i didnt mean to send all those i just meant to send one im new here didnt know what i was doing.which is oviously starting show,thats the only thing i've ever expierienced i would love to go further just never been with a real dominate women.

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/6/2006 9:06:10 PM

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a life support system for your fetish

I like this term. It would make a great sig line. "I am not a life support system for your fetish" Nice.

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/6/2006 9:48:36 PM

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a life support system for your fetish

I like this term. It would make a great sig line. "I am not a life support system for your fetish" Nice.

Hehe. It makes me want to make my sigline the opposite. I rather like that idea on my end :)

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/9/2006 10:40:46 AM

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why is it so many women are uncomfortable with facesitting forced licking?

In my experience a woman need to know you, and to be comfortable with letting your teeth be in an area of such personal intimacy. Personally I'm not too fond of a (woman) stranger placing my privates between her teeth. As for forced licking, maybe she doesn't like to be licked. Maybe she has an STD. However if she gets to know you and like you she might change her mind.

My two favorite Pros will force me but I hafta be immobilized, in bondage, before they will. And face sitting will only be done on a bed, never the floor. Then they will sit on me, obverse , reverse, butt smoother, freshly showered, or hot and sweety. Finally now they'll take me on a bareback wild ride.

I think someone posted a suggestion about a smoother box. If you buy one, get one with additional insertible cussions. That way the mistress may make adjustments to control how much of her weight she will seat on your face. The sleek ones are a bit bony bottomed, the BBW's are self explainatory, Butt (pun intended) the medium build one are just right.

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/9/2006 5:52:03 PM

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why is it so many women are uncomfortable with facesitting forced licking?

I can't speak for anyone else. But from the looks of it you are just talking to the wrong women when it comes to this topic.

I have just started down this road. So far I like it.
This is not my main interest. But it is one of them. I have always liked my partners on the floor waiting to be use as a foot rest or chair. So this just goes along with it sometimes.

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/9/2006 6:27:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

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a life support system for your fetish

I like this term. It would make a great sig line. "I am not a life support system for your fetish" Nice.

May I quote You?

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/9/2006 8:21:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

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a life support system for your fetish

I like this term. It would make a great sig line. "I am not a life support system for your fetish" Nice.

Hehe. It makes me want to make my sigline the opposite. I rather like that idea on my end :)

Ha! lol I can see why this line would be attractive to a submissive <big grin>

May I quote You?

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Mistress V, I copied it from a post of yourMissTress. Not sure if she made it up or...but as far as I am concerned, it wont bother me in the least for someone to use it as a sig line, course for all I know, it could be someones sig line already lol

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/9/2006 9:00:16 PM

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...because they are women, whole and complete people and not simply a life support system for your fetish.

I like that.

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/9/2006 10:12:09 PM

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I do think there are a number of women who are somewhat self-conscious about the whole anal- oral thing. Many people think of that part of their body as "dirty," or "unclean," and not in any way sexual. Thus, even though it may have strong domination/ submission associations, some people simply don't enjoy it.

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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/10/2006 7:38:26 PM

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I have no problems with oral sex, in fact I especially love receiving when done correctly. However it is difficult for me when on top because I'm concentrating on balancing and making sure the person beneath me can somewhat breath. Also my knees tend to lock up quite quickly in this position, or I end up with a charlie horse in my leg which is rather painful.
So I prefer being on my back, or sitting up with them on their knees on the floor has worked well too.
The anal thing, it's just not my thing. I do know esp. in males it's quite enjoyable because of the prostate gland however it's still EXIT ONLY. (If I weren't so scared of needles I'd get that on my ass in big red letters)
Each person has their own things, and not everyone likes everything. Just have to go with the flow.
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RE: facesitting licking/smother - 3/10/2006 8:09:42 PM

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I like this term. It would make a great sig line. "I am not a life support system for your fetish" Nice.

i wonder if this is covered by my Medicare/Medicaid...LOL

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Adaptations to facesitting licking/smother - 3/21/2006 10:14:30 PM

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I have noticed previous posts within this thread suggesting that facesitting is caustic to some womens' knees. Save for the instances of bad knees with limited cartilidge and/or ligament issues (which could cause discomfort when bending the knees at such such a tight angle during facesitting), the material on which the knees rest upon may be of consequence!

My girlfriend loves being entertained through facesitting in various positions, and I absolutely love providing her with the entertainment!

Our sexual relationship would not be as zesty if it weren't for her "taking her seat" early within each sexual instance. However, we use only the bed when it's time for her to grace my senses...The bed's cushioning prevents her knee joints from becoming compromised, especially while she actively moves around my face to increase her pleasure! The comfort of the bed's cushioning increases the facesitting activity's longevity, which then is more determined by the point at which I am able to wear out my girlfriend!