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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/29/2009 10:05:56 AM

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Finally, once again in terms of biology, males have to ejaculate on the order of once every three days in order to maintain optimal fertility and prostate health, if they don't you get nocturnal emmisions, etc., i.e., the body does it anyway, whereas women, bearing the full costs of reproduction, appear to be able to sustain celibacy indefinitely, and biologically, most female mammals usually only get uncontrollably horny once a month, although they too receive health benefits from regular sexual activity.

The upshot of this, is that there are always more horny males walking around than there are receptive females: throw in masturbation taboos, sexual monopolization, and assymetrical expectations of chastity on the part of females (reproductive politics, with particulr respect to male paternity assurances), and it accounts for the popularity of prostitutes and prostitution, which, as it turns out, is a very sociable activity from a male standpoint.

From a psychological perspective, cuckolding couples are often uncommonly happy, while on the flip side, failure to maintain a sexual monopoly over a given female is probably one of the greatest sources of male misery.

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/29/2009 10:56:12 AM

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Much as I generally really like your posts, how about you stop speaking for "men" seeing as you aren't one and even if you were, you still wouldn't be "men".

Fucking AMEN to that! That's what I get for coming in late on a thread! Well said!

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/29/2009 11:54:44 AM

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Oh? Says who? One of the actual reasons I considered such a thing is to comfort a friend. Just because men of your acquaintance have limited abilities to care about those around them doesn't mean all do.

Much as I generally really like your posts, how about you stop speaking for "men" seeing as you aren't one and even if you were, you still wouldn't be "men".

Wow, sensitive much?

Let's look at this for what is, someone mentions having lost a soldier and an inability to cope properly. I'm sorry if you took this thread an my responses more seriously than I did. You can check your pants, I didn't cut anything off down there by making a joke, I swear.

boi

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/29/2009 12:12:09 PM

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Let's look at this for what is, someone mentions having lost a soldier and an inability to cope properly. I'm sorry if you took this thread an my responses more seriously than I did.

hmm, interesting, someone mentions that she lost someone, an armed service member it would seem, someone who would appear was serving his country and we didn't take the post seriously? I didn't really read through this thread because the question was not really geared toward men, but I would hope if someone comes out with a statement such as the one you quoted. We take a step back and give it the seriousness that it is due. Both Man as well as woman.

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/29/2009 12:28:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterAramis

hmm, interesting, someone mentions that she lost someone, an armed service member it would seem, someone who would appear was serving his country and we didn't take the post seriously? I didn't really read through this thread because the question was not really geared toward men, but I would hope if someone comes out with a statement such as the one you quoted. We take a step back and give it the seriousness that it is due. Both Man as well as woman.

Aramis

Having more than one family member current serving abroad, such a statement on a kink forum in relation to someone "ordering" someone else to have sex is offensive at worst and a joke at best. I decided to take it as a joke. Please don't go pushing me on the issue of servicemen and women.

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/29/2009 12:41:26 PM

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Having more than one family member current serving abroad, such a statement on a kink forum in relation to someone "ordering" someone else to have sex is offensive at worst and a joke at best. I decided to take it as a joke. Please don't go pushing me on the issue of servicemen and women.

What, you think you are the only person who has this? Has your son served in the Military? Do you know what it's like to wonder if he will even make it home? Do you ever lie awake at night wondering if your own flesh and blood will make it through the next day. Have you yourself served in the Military? Please don't get me started. I have, and my family has had three cousins serving in harms way, one still there now. No different than you or anybody else. You don't hold exclusivity there.

What she said was and I quote:

quote:

i lost my soldier to the war in april and i can not get over it. i do not see the light at the end of the tunnel.

You should have immediately snapped to and paid attention, especially if you have someone in the Armed Services. This has nothing to do with the soldier in question and he still deserves the respect whether on Kink Forum or not. This is obviously a woman who is in pain and you decide to take it as a joke?

Aramis

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/29/2009 1:41:14 PM

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....damn...

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/29/2009 1:42:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterAramis

What, you think you are the only person who has this? Has your son served in the Military? Do you know what it's like to wonder if he will even make it home? Do you ever lie awake at night wondering if your own flesh and blood will make it through the next day. Have you yourself served in the Military? Please don't get me started. I have, and my family has had three cousins serving in harms way, one still there now. No different than you or anybody else. You don't hold exclusivity there.

What she said was and I quote:

quote:

i lost my soldier to the war in april and i can not get over it. i do not see the light at the end of the tunnel.

You should have immediately snapped to and paid attention, especially if you have someone in the Armed Services. This has nothing to do with the soldier in question and he still deserves the respect whether on Kink Forum or not. This is obviously a woman who is in pain and you decide to take it as a joke?

Aramis

Selective quoting...let's use it:

quote:

i have master now to forget all my sorrow. i hope that he beats it out of me.

Offensive at worst, joke at best.

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/29/2009 2:25:13 PM

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i have master now to forget all my sorrow. i hope that he beats it out of me.

Offensive at worst, joke at best.

No. It sounds more like survivor's guilt.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Survivor%27s_guilt

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/29/2009 2:29:40 PM

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i have master now to forget all my sorrow. i hope that he beats it out of me.

Offensive at worst, joke at best.

boi

Greetings boi,

I find it neither offensive nor humorous. If she lost someone only 6 months ago and is still grieving, she could well be so depressed that she is not watching out for herself and, I would agree with Holly, that she may not be stable enough to be placed in this position at this time.

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anna

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/29/2009 2:34:22 PM

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No. It sounds more like survivor's guilt.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Survivor%27s_guilt

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Survivor's guilt is one thing. Inappropriately using a soldier's death to justify unhealthy behavior and announcing that to the world is another.

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/29/2009 2:44:16 PM

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You might be right, boijen. On the other hand, another possible explanation is that dealing with all the pseudosubs has turned you into a rampaging biotch, and you could use a vacation.

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/29/2009 2:54:23 PM

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You might be right, boijen. On the other hand, another possible explanation is that dealing with all the pseudosubs has turned you into a rampaging biotch, and you could use a vacation.

I don't believe that's a mere implication.

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/29/2009 3:17:32 PM

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Holy smoke. I just realized what you meant. I'm not saying, "Take a vacation from here," for Pete's sake. I'm saying, "Do something with your time that doesn't put you in contact with people trying to get one over on you all day long." You seem predisposed to believe others are trying to manipulate. Most people aren't manipulative. The ones who want a no-strings BDSM session for free, however....

From here, it looks as though your view of humanity is jaundiced. I'm not trying to kick you out, as if I even could. Take my viewpoint for whatever you think it's worth.

Edited to add: Please consider showing this thread to Ms. Kitty. Maybe she can review some of her own frikkin mail while you volunteer in a children's cancer ward or something.

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/30/2009 4:50:10 AM

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Good morning!
Mmm Because since the dawn of time, men have had that fantasy? I know Daddy has one about having me with another girl and I have fantasies about being with men and women. However-and this is where it gets tricky-we are both so private and safe and picky that those fantasies will probably never happen. Way too much trouble to get started and loads of feelings afterwards to contemplate. Plus all the restrictions I personally would have on whoever was playing with us-so it's kinda not worth it. And more likely than not, reality would not measure up to fantasy-IMO. Blackmail, privacy, health issues-what a hassle!

Whatever comes up you have to be able to talk to your Master. otherwise-and I know I do cause it happened 2 weeks ago-we keep going round and round in our heads, second guessing, doubting, etc. Then it could all come out and ruin a wonderful night. And our Masters are left going, "What just happened??" So whether it is writing or leaving voice messages or talking in person, always communicate. Good luck!
Love,
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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/30/2009 5:04:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterAramis
hmm, interesting, someone mentions that she lost someone, an armed service member it would seem, someone who would appear was serving his country and we didn't take the post seriously?

Master Aramis, go read the OP's profile. I believe the OP is actually a guy pretending to be a woman, looking for wanking material. I believe he threw in a lie about "poor pity me, I am a widow" to get more sympathy and wanking material. Which pisses me off greatly, it's incredibly disrespectful of the real men and women who have served and died, and of their families.

And BoiJen, I'm generally a member of your fanclub, so are you OK? You've seemed a lot more cranky the last couple of days... is all well with YOU?

I've also been watching men who generally write intelligent replies get into an ePeen contest with a lesbian, which is so droll as to be indescribable. Can everyone put the Big Swinging Dicks, meat and manufactured, away now?

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/30/2009 6:50:48 AM

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I think there's something in the water

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/30/2009 9:28:50 AM

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Just wanted to add that some of us that lost spouses through other things like cancer, are very tired of being looked at as a potential liar because of people playing this for sympathy. It burns my butt. Especially when some people like Drifa and Holly go out of their way to try to help them see potential emotional problems from rushing grief. i'm unfortunately not that nice anymore.

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/30/2009 3:43:49 PM

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lacyshadows ,
having sex with a man choosen by your master might not be bad in a safe environment What worries me is this: in the same post you talk about been numb and trying to cope with a terrible lost.Do you beleive you would feel better ?? you must have to look inside yourself
you have to talk with your master it is really important you probably need professional help
beleive me that been numb in that case will do more harm than good on a long ride

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RE: why does my master want me to have sex with another... - 10/31/2009 1:34:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterAramis

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Let's look at this for what is, someone mentions having lost a soldier and an inability to cope properly. I'm sorry if you took this thread an my responses more seriously than I did.

. We take a step back and give it the seriousness that it is due. Both Man as well as woman.

Aramis

Yes, let us all... both man and Woman.

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