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RE: Very Sensuous Mistresses ? - 10/18/2009 5:54:09 PM

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geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze...................the puritans are proud

You walk into a room filled with women and tell another man that he won't get a woman without a lot of dollar's and then when we address what you have said, you call us puritans as an insult. Impressive. Your dominant ought to be very proud.

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RE: Very Sensuous Mistresses ? - 10/19/2009 3:33:47 AM

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I am not so presumptuous as to believe I could offer advice so please view what I am about to say as suggestion only. I think it admirable that you have the maturity to have taken the time to be specific in your thoughts of the traits characteristics and physical attributes you are desirous of and are being discerning in your search. What troubles me is your lashing out with the word puritans, defensiveness is never acceptable especially when prompted by frustration or anger.
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RE: Very Sensuous Mistresses ? - 10/19/2009 5:15:05 AM

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geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze...................the puritans are proud

You walk into a room filled with women and tell another man that he won't get a woman without a lot of dollar's and then when we address what you have said, you call us puritans as an insult. Impressive. Your dominant ought to be very proud.

His Domme doesn't care. She's a Pro Domme, not a lifestyle.

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RE: Very Sensuous Mistresses ? - 10/19/2009 6:25:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

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geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze...................the puritans are proud

You walk into a room filled with women and tell another man that he won't get a woman without a lot of dollar's and then when we address what you have said, you call us puritans as an insult. Impressive. Your dominant ought to be very proud.

His Domme doesn't care. She's a Pro Domme, not a lifestyle.

please explain how you all seem to know so much about me.........................i'm impressed

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RE: Very Sensuous Mistresses ? - 10/19/2009 12:34:11 PM

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I'm not saying that I know you at all. What I'm saying here is that if My boy came on this thread popping off that all it takes is $$$$$$$ to find or have a personal dynamic, I would not be happy with him. If the money factor is what your personal dynamic is based on, fine. Personally, I hold My relationships at a higher value than business transactions.

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RE: Very Sensuous Mistresses ? - 10/19/2009 5:19:13 PM

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Relationships with dynamics that fulfill us are priceless.

To the OP - follow the advice that talked about making yourself value-added. I have a great life, but having My boy to share it with, puts US over the Top! We compliment each other in so many ways, and a lot of that is because he is proactive in his service to Me. I don't make lists of rules and force him into performing them. He constantly looks for ways he can bring pleasure into My life. I'm happy and fulfilled, and as such, value and treasure the one who makes it so. I provide him with a safe environment to express his true self, and he blossoms more and more each day. We are both very blessed.

Personal internet sites, forums, real life local munches, BDSM clubs, BDSM classes and conferences.....unless you just want to pay for Professional services, you need to put yourself out there. I suggest lowering the bar to making friends, and anything else that happens will be a bonus.

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RE: Very Sensuous Mistresses ? - 10/19/2009 5:23:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: topleaseyou555

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

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ORIGINAL: topleaseyou555

geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze...................the puritans are proud

You walk into a room filled with women and tell another man that he won't get a woman without a lot of dollar's and then when we address what you have said, you call us puritans as an insult. Impressive. Your dominant ought to be very proud.

His Domme doesn't care. She's a Pro Domme, not a lifestyle.

please explain how you all seem to know so much about me.........................i'm impressed

Your profile states that you belong to SophiaLasair.

So I looked at her profile and she makes it crystal clear that she's through with lifestyle Domination and is only doing it for money.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: Very Sensuous Mistresses ? - 10/19/2009 6:39:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: topleaseyou555

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

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ORIGINAL: topleaseyou555

geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze...................the puritans are proud

You walk into a room filled with women and tell another man that he won't get a woman without a lot of dollar's and then when we address what you have said, you call us puritans as an insult. Impressive. Your dominant ought to be very proud.

His Domme doesn't care. She's a Pro Domme, not a lifestyle.

please explain how you all seem to know so much about me.........................i'm impressed

Your profile states that you belong to SophiaLasair.

So I looked at her profile and she makes it crystal clear that she's through with lifestyle Domination and is only doing it for money.

have never given her a penny

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RE: Very Sensuous Mistresses ? - 10/19/2009 6:45:46 PM

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You have a point, GM! But really, what will it take for these men to learn that in order to find a dominant, you have to be desirable to her? You have to make her WANT to spend time with you, be friends with her, treat her well, all that stuff. The finding someone who wants to have a little sissy pet seems easy-ish enough, in a large metropolitan area. I guess.

The problem is, is that they haven't got a clue how to treat *human beings* in general, so why even waste time wondering when they'll get a clue about attracting a woman?

At least this has been my experience.

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