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Need Phone Play Suggestions - 10/18/2009 12:19:02 PM

Muttling

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I have a dear friend who I rarely get to see, much less play with. She is a fellow masochist and from time to time I take great pleasure in getting her to torment herself into orgasm.

The best trick I know is clothes pins on the nipples for a few minutes. Then off and rub, only to put them back own. The audible gasp is great.

She is very inexperienced and I am of limited experience at best.

What suggestions do you have for instructions on other ways for me to get a surprised gasp out of her tonight? Keeping in mind, she is a pain slut and enjoys the intensity. (She's not at all into humiliation.)

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RE: Need Phone Play Suggestions - 10/18/2009 1:11:22 PM

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What suggestions do you have for instructions on other ways for me to get a surprised gasp out of her tonight? Keeping in mind, she is a pain slut and enjoys the intensity. (She's not at all into humiliation.)

i'd modify the nipple torture and have her place the pins around the areola (4-5), one on each side of the nipple, and some along the fold of skin where the cleavage starts. since a pack of clothespins usually includes twenty if memory serves me correctly, have her apply the rest along her lips down to the perineum. finishing with one or two on her clit. then the fun begins. make her stand up and walk. after some time has passed have her snatch them off from the location you specify. she might thank you later.

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RE: Need Phone Play Suggestions - 10/18/2009 1:19:47 PM

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Count down to the sound of your voice as she masturbates. You keep a steady cadence, she doesn't have to. The cadence that works for me (and my boys) is about a second apart - Your mileage may vary. If she doesn't come on command 3, 2, 1, CUM! you get to start all over. (Mainly because you are such a kind sadist, and you are training her to come starting at three.)

You start at 100 the first time, and if she cums before zero, that's the starting point next time.... well the difference. If she cums at 40, her count was 60 total, so you start at 60 next time. You always emphasize that this is training for when you can meet.

You get more "breathy" and growly as you get closer to zero.

DAMN! it seems to be getting warm in here.

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RE: Need Phone Play Suggestions - 10/18/2009 1:35:48 PM

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I like both ideas and will put them to use.

Walking around uncomfortably is right up her alley (among other things) and so are clothes pins. Multiple O's are something we really haven't explored, but you set up a great approach to it. It doesn't end with the first orgasm.

Keep the ideas cumming.

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RE: Need Phone Play Suggestions - 10/18/2009 2:25:00 PM

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Walking around uncomfortably is right up her alley (among other things) and so are clothes pins.

walking around with 12 clothespins jetting from your crotch takes skill. upon standing all the sensation hits with one big whallop. each step is more painful than the next. it is at that moment you realize what a shitty idea doing this really was. of course you enjoy the torture because it truthfully wasn't your own.

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RE: Need Phone Play Suggestions - 10/18/2009 2:37:37 PM

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Clothespins work on clits as well.

Have her use a hairbrush and push the bristles into her skin, then brush her neck, her breasts, and her pussy.

Also, simply inserting something vaginally and anally, especially a vibrator.

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RE: Need Phone Play Suggestions - 10/18/2009 5:31:13 PM

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My sub and I lived two hours apart, which was the primary reason she is no longer with me. While she loved and cared for me, and I greatly for her, it simply was not in our cards to be together as much as we would like. She still calls me for telephone play, as her new local man will not play with her at all, and is as vanilla as they come.

My sub used to *LOVE* clothespins, although I had weakened the springs in about 30 of them. the weak spring-ed ones were much more tolerable for her, and it was a simple procedure to do so. She had 100 clothespins, and we did on a few occasions, use every single one of them.

I will confirm that a weakened clothespin on the clit, combined with a vibe on the clothespin, is an agonizing orgasm, since you're going to order her to snatch it off at the moment of orgasm. For my sub, a full strength clothespin would not allow her to reach orgasm when used in such a manner. But oh did she shout! The orgasms that followed usually were just the vibe, Only when it was felt she needed punishment would a clothespin go back on her clit after the clothespin-orgasm.

By far the best gasp I ever got out of my sub while on the phone was a paint-stir-stick, on freshly shaved labia. it is lightweight, wide, and makes a resounding SNAP when striking the flesh, and it is easy to avoid damage. I simply ordered her to go shave, and immediately after she finished, she was to call me back and we would continue. That first strike with the paint stick was not at all what she was expecting, i assure you. I asked her to slap her labia with the paint stick as hard as she was comfortable with, knowing that she would very likely overestimate her pain tolerance. Be ready to give aftercare as best you can over the phone afterward, she may need it.

Hope this helps!

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RE: Need Phone Play Suggestions - 10/19/2009 5:14:31 PM

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Thanks all for the suggestions. The clothes pins on the clit worked wonders, but she only had 4. I started on the nipples (making her think it was a repeat.) She was a bit surprised when I said to take them off, had her rub her nipples, and then put them a bit low on her clit.

I had her do a couple of lunges and then masterbate with them attached. As I mentioned before, she's a pain slut like me and it was a wonderfully intense orgasm to hear.

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