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RE: Poll would be profthfered in a Dom male or female - 10/19/2009 3:07:03 PM

sweetsub1957

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ORIGINAL: xssve

I think he/she is asking what kind dom a sub would prefer.

Other than wealthy and hung.

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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

A breathing one?

Yes. Breathing would be nice. I can only speak for myself, but I'd want a Dom that has a firm hand and definite rules, yet He's loving and compassionate.....has good communication skills & lets me know what He wants and needs.....we have common vanilla interests as well as kink ones.....He should love animals because anyone who's mean to animals I will find very difficult to be around.....I would want a Dom Who wants the "whole package" just as I do, meaning love & romance as well as D/s & kink. Being wealthy and hung is not a necessity, but breathing is. lol. When Sir was alive, He was all that.

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RE: Poll would be profthfered in a Dom male or female - 10/19/2009 3:10:05 PM

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He's not wealthy but he is hung. Does that count?
Patience, kindness.
And one my dog accepts. I find the dog is a great judge of character.

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RE: Poll would be profthfered in a Dom male or female - 10/19/2009 4:42:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: Erdei

Please tell me what would be proffered so that I can see what is liked most that is all I want to know I know how I am and will stay that way

Submissives/slaves want a dom who knows what he wants... and knows how to get it.

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RE: Poll would be profthfered in a Dom male or female - 10/19/2009 8:06:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
And one my dog accepts. I find the dog is a great judge of character.

Me too! When my largish, pretty discriminating dogs huddled up around Master's legs, turned their faces up and bared their throats, i felt even better about him.

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RE: Poll would be profthfered in a Dom male or female - 10/19/2009 9:06:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: peppermint

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Edited: On reading OP's profile, it seems he's a D type. So it may be that he's asking subs what kind of Dom they want so he knows how to be a Dom.

Seems that the OP was a hit and run. Make a profile, ask a couple questions, then delete profile and disappear. Perhaps he was afraid his Mommy might find out he'd been to a naughty web site while she was making dinner.

Peppermint, dragonman is the op's new profile. Apparently I hit on something when I said he shouldn't use his real name on a kink site.

Well, damn. I hate being confuggled.

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RE: Poll would be profthfered in a Dom male or female - 10/19/2009 9:17:50 PM

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I'm a Navy wife...or was while the late hubby did his 20. I'm going to have you face some facts about women in your life.

You are in the Navy. FACT You will often be deployed which means your lady will often be alone. Not every lady can handle being away from her man. Sorry, it's a fact, plain and simple. So you have to choose carefully to find that lady who is strong enough to handle separations of 6 or more months. As I've explained to more than one young man, love does not conquer all. If she can't handle a month deployment she'll never handle 6 months. FACT You also want a submissive lady. Many submissive ladies thrive on being near their Dominant. The thought that their Dominant will be away for months at a time is not appealing. Many submissives, as well as vanilla ladies will not consider hooking up with a man who will be gone for considerable lengths of time.

This means that it may take you a long time to find that perfect lady who is submissive and strong enough to spend many months each year alone. Sorry to have to say it, but it's true. I'm not saying that the perfect submissive for you does not exit. What I'm saying is that you will most likely have to use more search options than many do. This might include the internet, munches, conventions and anywhere else kinky people gather.

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RE: Poll would be preferred in a Dom male or female - 10/19/2009 9:33:27 PM

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Honesty
Honor
Loyalty
Devotion
Attractive
Chemistry
Gainful employment
Similar interests
Etc.
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RE: Poll would be preferred in a Dom male or female - 10/19/2009 9:49:54 PM

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I would have expected to read... a dominant one? But then, I don't speak, or read "can't type or spell for shit"-ese> Nor am I subly, so... this was a no win thread for my time.

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RE: Poll would be profthfered in a Dom male or female - 10/20/2009 8:02:51 AM

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No I am not him he stole my information for his account that is what happened I don't like the fact that he did that for some odd reason and if you noticed I am better at communication. I use spell check and I know what I am talking about he was a hit and run odd but it happens sometimes. I don't know why but i think it was one of my roommates... Well that is my real name But I didn't make that account I found my roommate on my laptop and asked why he was posing as me and he said that he was to afraid that is why he stole my information on the profile. One of the other posts that he was using is from my main page so yes it was a fake this is the real me and will always be the real me changed the password on my laptop and he won't be on again at all thank you have a good day the one and only Thedragonman9326.

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RE: Poll would be profthfered in a Dom male or female - 10/20/2009 8:07:02 AM

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not all doms are gonna be like that.

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RE: Poll would be profthfered in a Dom male or female - 10/20/2009 8:07:17 AM

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I would be looking for a dominant that knows what he wants. Do you know what you want OP?

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RE: Poll would be profthfered in a Dom male or female - 10/20/2009 8:10:32 AM

Thedragonman9326

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ORIGINAL: peppermint

I'm a Navy wife...or was while the late hubby did his 20. I'm going to have you face some facts about women in your life.

You are in the Navy. FACT You will often be deployed which means your lady will often be alone. Not every lady can handle being away from her man. Sorry, it's a fact, plain and simple. So you have to choose carefully to find that lady who is strong enough to handle separations of 6 or more months. As I've explained to more than one young man, love does not conquer all. If she can't handle a month deployment she'll never handle 6 months. FACT You also want a submissive lady. Many submissive ladies thrive on being near their Dominant. The thought that their Dominant will be away for months at a time is not appealing. Many submissives, as well as vanilla ladies will not consider hooking up with a man who will be gone for considerable lengths of time.

This means that it may take you a long time to find that perfect lady who is submissive and strong enough to spend many months each year alone. Sorry to have to say it, but it's true. I'm not saying that the perfect submissive for you does not exit. What I'm saying is that you will most likely have to use more search options than many do. This might include the internet, munches, conventions and anywhere else kinky people gather.

That is a good point and as I have said in another post that he was my roommate I am mainly here to chat and talk now I know it will be hard and I am willing to wait for it to happen. Did you like the life you had when he was in the Navy and did he feel like he is a slave to the country like I do sometimes lol. But I like the life I have here in the Navy and will not give it up easily. I will like to hear more about your side of things if you don't mind thank you for the info and have a good day.

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