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How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/19/2009 4:40:50 PM

mazotala

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Hi

The title is my question .

how can i be a 24/7 Slave for a mistress , full slave

for torture
foot worship
hous working
toilet slave
human toilet
trampling
bondage for a week or month or year
caging
raped
Very very very hard spanking and whiping
and ...

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/19/2009 5:29:05 PM

LadyPact

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I hate to burst your bubble here, but there aren't going to be too many Mistresses out there who are going to want a slave where she is making all of the effort (play) and not getting any of the benefits. What you're describing here isn't service. It's bottoming and it's not that hard to find. There isn't one thing here that says to Me that you are looking to add anything to make her life easier. It's more like a laundry list of things you want her to do to you. I regret to inform you, that just isn't that special.

If that is your concept of "slave" I highly suggest you work on it.

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/19/2009 6:08:25 PM

DarkSteven

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All Dommes are women. Women seem to be wired for relationships, not just play activities.

In addition to the service that LP mentioned above, also expect to eat out with her, go for walks, hold hands, and just enjoy life with her.

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/19/2009 6:38:29 PM

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OP, I hate to wreck your dream but, whoever She may be, being Her 24/7 slave is going to be all about what SHE wants. If it's all about what you want, it's not being a slave. It's called being a bottom, like LadyP says. And if you're planning on 24/7, don't expect it to be all kink and play. You might ~cough cough~ have to work in some relationship stuff in too.

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/19/2009 6:47:14 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

All Dommes are women. Women seem to be wired for relationships, not just play activities.

In addition to the service that LP mentioned above, also expect to eat out with her, go for walks, hold hands, and just enjoy life with her.

Sing to her, entertain her, massage her when she is sore, work for her, live for her, breathe for her....
cook, clean, show her that she is indeed on your mind at all times.

Obey, even if it something one does not enjoy doing.

Each one is uniquely different, as is every good little subbie.

I heard once that the lowly worm stance does not work well. Not only do you get picked on by the birds but you are passed up by those who have confidence (for they love to tear that down to get to the juicy quivering parts).

Everything I have said may or may not get through to you. As an unowned submissive male you are my competition.

It is still nice to help though.

Luck be with you.

*waves*

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/19/2009 7:42:09 PM

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Compliment what she does
Send her roses just because
If its violins she loves let them play
dedicate her favorite song
hold her closer all night long
love her today find one hundred ways.......

I love that song!

A Domme is still a lady. Do all the things you would do to win her if she were vanilla. And then do more.

P.S. - focusing on yourself and what you want has never won any woman's heart.

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/19/2009 8:46:02 PM

chiaThePet

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Rolex.

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/19/2009 10:36:36 PM

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I don't know Chia. A smaller car would be more useful than a rolex, if you're going to spend thousands. M

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/19/2009 10:55:50 PM

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Ah, Pyro, why can't you be a few years older ...

To the OP, he's right - be a well-rounded person first, a submissive/slave second.

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/19/2009 11:25:19 PM

Eivarden

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quote:

In addition to the service that LP mentioned above, also expect to eat out with her, go for walks, hold hands, and just enjoy life with her.

lol.
Who actually here thinks ANYONE, even the guys who send dumb requests, where they simply start asking about your kinks, actually thinks there will be absolutely no human interaction?

every thread, in some shape or form, you guys get more and more delusional in thinking these guys have no idea they are interacting with human beings.

if you don't like this "attitude" from me, I suggest you all stop giving the very same attitude to the people you direct these comments to.

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/20/2009 1:38:48 AM

CarrieO

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Eivarden

quote:

In addition to the service that LP mentioned above, also expect to eat out with her, go for walks, hold hands, and just enjoy life with her.

lol.
Who actually here thinks ANYONE, even the guys who send dumb requests, where they simply start asking about your kinks, actually thinks there will be absolutely no human interaction?

I don't think its human interaction that's the problem. I think it has more to do with a healthy dose of reality mixed in with their fantasies.

every thread, in some shape or form, you guys get more and more delusional in thinking these guys have no idea they are interacting with human beings.

Please take a moment to re-read the OP's question and then go take a look at his profile. There are many men who only want kink...live for kink...feel a "relationship" should revolve always around kink...especially their kink.

if you don't like this "attitude" from me, I suggest you all stop giving the very same attitude to the people you direct these comments to.

You are aware that the original words you quoted aren't from a domme, yes? You took DarkSteven's words out of context when you removed part of his full statement.

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
All Dommes are women. Women seem to be wired for relationships, not just play activities.

In addition to the service that LP mentioned above, also expect to eat out with her, go for walks, hold hands, and just enjoy life with her.

Makes sense to me.

OP,
According to your profile you reside in Germany. I'm not sure how easy it is for you to find a munch or to get out and meet people but that would be a good place to start. You should also be able to see, by the responses you recieved from women (and some very smart men...pyroaquatic and DarkSteven) thus far, that being a slave means more than kink and continual play time. I would suggest you pay attention to what has been posted here, get out in your local bdsm community and think about re-writing your profile if you want serious interest.

< Message edited by CarrieO -- 10/20/2009 1:42:22 AM >

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/20/2009 5:08:11 AM

firmlove

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mazotala

Hi

The title is my question .

how can i be a 24/7 Slave for a mistress , full slave

for torture
foot worship
hous working
toilet slave
human toilet
trampling
bondage for a week or month or year
caging
raped
Very very very hard spanking and whiping
and ...

I think you good sir, should stick to fapping to femdom porn

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/20/2009 12:36:29 PM

Acer49

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mazotala

Hi

The title is my question .

how can i be a 24/7 Slave for a mistress , full slave

for torture
foot worship
hous working
toilet slave
human toilet
trampling
bondage for a week or month or year
caging
raped
Very very very hard spanking and whiping
and ...

How much money do you have?
You want the Mistress to do all this for you and you are offering what???
Contrary to popular belief, Dominants are not here to be your play benefactor

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/20/2009 12:42:48 PM

mnottertail

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mazotala

Hi

The title is my question .

how can i be a 24/7 Slave for a mistress , full slave

for torture
foot worship
hous working
toilet slave
human toilet
trampling
bondage for a week or month or year
caging
raped
Very very very hard spanking and whiping
and ...

I see you are von Deutchland, so I will not give you too much hell.

house, whipping.

Look, so all that shit on the list can be done in about 15 minutes, so what you going to do the rest of the day? Can you paint the house, are you a mechanic, are you good at cleaning, what sort of jobs can you hold down, do you eat with your mouth closed, do you read, do you cook......

That may be great shit to you, but if that's it, once mr wiggly goes soft, you are going to be a boring motherfucker, see what I mean? Boring motherfuckers don't get the girls, verstehen Sie?

Ron

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/20/2009 1:08:06 PM

OttersSwim

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Wouldn't it just be easier for her to own a goldfish? Much less work...

quote:

ORIGINAL: mazotala

Hi

The title is my question .

how can i be a 24/7 Slave for a mistress , full slave

for torture
foot worship
hous working
toilet slave
human toilet
trampling
bondage for a week or month or year
caging
raped
Very very very hard spanking and whiping
and ...

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/20/2009 1:09:16 PM

mnottertail

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damn!!!!! way to cut right to the bone!!!!!!

Hey OP, can you feed goldfish?

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/20/2009 1:16:01 PM

Lockit

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Eivarden

quote:

In addition to the service that LP mentioned above, also expect to eat out with her, go for walks, hold hands, and just enjoy life with her.

lol.
Who actually here thinks ANYONE, even the guys who send dumb requests, where they simply start asking about your kinks, actually thinks there will be absolutely no human interaction?

every thread, in some shape or form, you guys get more and more delusional in thinking these guys have no idea they are interacting with human beings.

if you don't like this "attitude" from me, I suggest you all stop giving the very same attitude to the people you direct these comments to.

LOL... clearly Steven has seen some of the email we get and has talked to a number of us personally and knows some of the inside deal. Yes, in a way you are correct, but it's like this...

They expect as little output to get the most buck from the strapon. So if they have to act interested, communicate, go to dinner or a movie... all the while they are wondering how long it will take to get to that strapon. They typically on a site like this are not interested in who the woman is, just what she will do to them and how quickly they can make that happen. (No offense meant to the good submissive males out there... you are wonderful and rare and we do see you!)

So they do expect to have to pay a little attention to the dominant woman, but with a focus of how quickly they can get what they want and that isn't the same thing as having something to do with us as a person. We are always the dominatrix... some easy slutty person who is on a site like this because they are an easy slutty person who wants to jump right in after a little conversation and dinner. A porn like fantasy they have played out in their mind at least three times a day for many, many years.

It is not delusional to call something the way it is and respond as Steven has or does when you know that most think service is a sexual pleasure and a pay off and then treat us like mistress play toys that value things the same way they do... Not much has changed in how some men look at women. Whether they be dominant men or submissive men... women seemingly to many are simply a tool for the pleasure of men. Those that know the difference, who wish to know us, serve us or take part in our lives would never create a post such as the op's.

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/20/2009 1:35:23 PM

pyroaquatic

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I thought us submissives were supposed to be the playthings/toys Lockit?

lol....

very silly... very silly.

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As your desire is, so is your will.
As your will is, so is your deed.
As your deed is, so is your destiny.
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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/20/2009 5:22:49 PM

DarkSteven

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

Wouldn't it just be easier for her to own a goldfish? Much less work...

Otter, there are times, such as this, when you rise to brilliance.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: How can i be a 24/7 slave for a mistress ? - 10/20/2009 7:19:10 PM

RedMagic1

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Eivarden

quote:

In addition to the service that LP mentioned above, also expect to eat out with her, go for walks, hold hands, and just enjoy life with her.

lol.
Who actually here thinks ANYONE, even the guys who send dumb requests, where they simply start asking about your kinks, actually thinks there will be absolutely no human interaction?

Your ignorance is showing. There are quite a few men who actively seek "no human interaction," in the sense that (at least in their fantasy) they want no kindness or "vanilla attention" of any sort from the woman. Some men even pay good money for hot young women to ignore them. Google "financial slavery" and you'll find quite a few women offering this ignoring "service."

Beyond that, I've certainly been cyber-approached by women who just wanted to get their rocks off. Perhaps you think men would be above such behavior. Uh-huh.

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