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MissLaura1973 -> Bisexual Limits - for Males (10/19/2009 4:57:36 PM)
I know that the topics of forced-bi, etc. have long been discussed on these boards (probably over-discussed, to be honest), and this question is more about male bisexual interactions in general. I'm curious if, for those male submissive interested in bisexual experiences with other males, your interests are only in the "receiving" end of things (performing oral sex and being penetrated) - if so, how would you feel about being sucked off? Could you imagine penetrating another male submissive? Why or why not? Thanks!

Eivarden -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (10/19/2009 11:14:47 PM)
In all actuality, most "straight" guys try to say, if they were forced into one, they would rather be the one receiving a blow job, or doing another guy in the back. But then I stop and think, that would mean you would be the one who enjoys the act in the end. BUT then I look at places like CM, where commonly the sub gives the BJs and takes it from behind. I'm not attracted to males, so my answer to you isn't going to be what you're looking for, but if I was forced into an act with another male... I'd rather be the one giving the BJ or receiving from behind. But that's actually not because of the whole "Don't physically enjoy it" part, but because I'm just not an assertive/aggressive person, and being "the bitch" is the closest way I'm going to be comfortable with a situation like that. Throw in a woman, who likes the sight of bisexual/homosexual acts, and my hard limits start to fade away too. But for most gay/bi guys I know, it doesn't really matter if they are receiving/giving, as long as it's within their desirable role. (sub or dom)

gauguin -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (10/25/2009 6:09:45 AM)
As submissive I prefer to be passive in "forced" bi scenes. It gives all "kicks" of humiliation, being used and so on. I am male too, so I just simply don't mind if it is other male who sucks me off, especially when he is good at it. Unless he is repulsive! All you need is just close eyes and enjoy sensations :-) Giving anal to other male sub is but different story. I am not sexually attracted to males, so I have problems with getting aroused and then maintain erection during the act. However some "mind games" like "fuck him or he fucks you" or "returning the favor" and fucking sub who just did me, especially when he was rough or enjoyed humiliating me, helps there a lot!

LPslittleclip -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (10/25/2009 1:44:29 PM)
I'm a heterosexual male and not attracted to males myself. now my Mistress is very aroused by the idea of male on male oral and She would very muck enjoy seeing me do oral on another male. as i am Her collared slave it would bring me pleasure in Her pleasure of watching me, and does not that i am bi or homosexual. as far as limits i have few and forced male oral is not one of them.

iwearpanties -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (10/25/2009 10:09:49 PM)
ive wonder if this typemof question was ever going too be posted wish i hand more time too rpely

Lashra -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (10/26/2009 5:55:13 AM)
My sub and I have discussed this and he would be willing as long as he was the one being sucked off OR he was the one doing the fucking. He refuses to be in the "submissive" position with anyone other than myself, particularly a male as he doesn't view men as dominant over him. ~Lashra

malloves69 -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (10/26/2009 6:41:26 AM)
my mistress enjoys seeing 2 men together and we have done it 2 times [:)] it was fun and amazing thing to share with her as she played director [:)] would i do it again ? sure for her [:)] one man was white one man was black ..both had nice cocks [:)] the things us sub males have to do to keep our ladys happy [:)] i have no interest in men though without her there ..thought that was a limit of mine but she told me once the clothes hit the floor just to leave my inhibitions and have fun with it ..and wow yes it was [:)] good day mal

Wheldrake -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (10/26/2009 12:10:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissLaura1973 I'm curious if, for those male submissive interested in bisexual experiences with other males, your interests are only in the "receiving" end of things (performing oral sex and being penetrated) - if so, how would you feel about being sucked off? Could you imagine penetrating another male submissive? Why or why not? Mistress and I have sometimes discussed forced-bi fantasies, but always with me on the "receiving" end. I imagine I would feel quite awkward and self-conscious if she wanted to watch me being sucked off or penetrating another man, and I'm not sure I would be able to maintain an erection. Still, I'd step up to the plate and perform to the best of my ability, and at some level I'd be enjoying my own discomfort. It's funny how that works.

pyroaquatic -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (10/26/2009 12:50:00 PM)
Your quote on Anuracide makes me a sad boy indeed. On to the bisexuality. No problem, as long as the Domme is calling the shots. If not, forget it. although i do love a good blowjob on the giving and taking spectrum. [;)]

Ographer -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (1/31/2011 11:54:51 PM)
Mentally, it's similar to taking pain. If it turns my dominant partner on to take or give it with another man, and the fact that it's difficult for me contributes to turning her on, it's just like taking harsher pain for her amusement and conquest.

TotallyDude -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (2/1/2011 12:09:36 AM)
quote: I'm curious if, for those male submissive interested in bisexual experiences with other males, your interests are only in the "receiving" end of things (performing oral sex and being penetrated) - if so, how would you feel about being sucked off? Could you imagine penetrating another male submissive? Why or why not? I guess I've never really understood the stigma too many guys attach to bisexual attraction. I have a hard time understanding or relating to people who aren't at least a little bi. I mean if you're a dude who can't appreciate another dude's body, or even kiss another dude if you find him hot, then we're on totally different wave lengths. As far as bisexual scenes go I don't really draw a distinction between giving or taking it in the ass. I know one is supposed to be humiliating, but I have never found the concept humiliating on a visceral level. Cultural stigma, blah blah blah but at the end of the day who gives a fuck? I don't see any shame in enjoying either being on top or being on the receiving end and so I don't feel any shame in either role. I've never given a blowjob and I don't envy a dude who gets the first blowjob from me because it seems like an acquired skill and the first time is likely to be awkward and clumsy. Plus, real talk, I don't relish the thought of some dude's cum in my mouth. So I guess that's the part where I get uncomfortable. I always imagine that it tastes hot and sort of icky though I've heard in reality it isn't all that bad.

CherryNeko -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (2/1/2011 1:57:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Eivarden But then I stop and think, that would mean you would be the one who enjoys the act in the end. Supposedly -- I mean there's no way I'd know cause I'm a girl -- the receiver enjoys it more. I know. Incredible.

81song -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (2/1/2011 9:03:10 AM)
This is a hard limit for me, not an impossible but a hard limit. In another post I ask the women if they enjoyed watching two men. So from the looks of it there is a lot of Dommes that enjoy watching two men, it turns them on, cool. If I was with a Dome for a while I might be open to it, but it would depend on a lot of time with a Domme and a lot of talking. So I might be open to be sucked off and be on the receiving end, if I get to that point. And I do not know how I would feel until that happens. As to anal sex with a male, I do not think I could do it. I had a girlfriend who wanted me to try it once and maybe I just did not get the hang of it but did not like it at the time. For me to be perpetrated it has to be a Domme at this point. But as to the whole subject I come with some baggage. I have never put this out here before but here it goes. While I as in a monastery I was sexual abused. I was very naïve and it has only been maybe 5 years that I have searched out others that have been there too. So having a bisexual experience bring up a lot of things, maybe it would be good for healing but maybe not. That at this point I do not know

pyroaquatic -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (2/1/2011 5:06:58 PM)
FR- My pleasure is not derived by the act of giving or receiving but the pleasure given to my dominant in such a scenario. I don't really see myself as bi, straight, gay... or whatever.... sexual orientation that labels what you like. Honestly, I like what my dominant likes. Receiving fellatio is nice though. Can't argue against receiving blow jobs. I'd be a liar otherwise. But it is not about me me me.... and when pressed into a situation otherwise... well. It presses a button. Couple of buttons. few dials and toggle switches... :D

BalletBob -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (2/5/2011 4:53:11 PM)
I have done some things to PLEASE MADAM, with her husband. It wasn't any big deal, but nothing I would volunteer to do. I would rather give oral sex, than recieve it, and don't like giving or recieving Anal sex. I would rather have a Butt Plug there. It just doesn't do a thing for me, but it depends on how much the Mistress would want me to do, within my Hard Limits. And of course, a Rubber would have to be used, for anything. Not thrilled, sub BalletBob

porcelaine -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (2/6/2011 12:27:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Eivarden Throw in a woman, who likes the sight of bisexual/homosexual acts, and my hard limits start to fade away too. Greetings Eivarden, I'm curious if your willingness is attributed to her presence or is a matter of transference whereby you associate the act and all pleasure derived as something that stems from her rather than the male party involved? Or is possible that you're able to indulge at her behest because the negative associations that exist in your mind (if any) fall away with her encouragement? Namaste, ~porcelaine

stripmymanhood -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (2/12/2011 4:15:02 AM)
for me...i have been used anally...and enjoyed 69 with another man....but i'm not sure i could be the pitcher in the anal situation or if i'd really enjoy receiving oral outside of the 69 position...even with a woman, i don't much enjoy receiving oral, never have...had something happen to me in my younger days that kind of makes that something i tend to avoid...i don't know if it's just the hangup of getting hard for another male, or what...but not sure i'd be able to do it...i'd try...don't know if i'd succeed

Nanako -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (2/12/2011 7:47:28 AM)
I'm entirely bi and have no problem with guys at all. been on both sides with guys ^_^ I can serve as a sub to any guy. whether or not I find them attractive hardly matters, only whether they like me, for the session to be "successful" On the other hand, being top is much harder., I think. It takes a lot more work and there's psychological pressure to perform. I can only ever do it with people I find really attractive, which usually means slim/shaven/longhaired, qualities that are hard to find in most guys. This generally only applies to penetration though, I can let anyone suck my cock and not care, if they like. As to what I enjoy more, I'm generally leaning towards sub. Maybe I should have a switch profile.. I can sub to anyone, but only dom with certain people. So I find the path of least resistance most enjoyable I guess ^_^ With a dom/me, "forced" bi would never come into it. If my owner wanted me to serve guys as sub, I'd do it happily, though being asked to top someone I didn't find attractive would probably be a hard limit, more for being physiologically impossible, than disliked. Though maybe with ED drugs....

mwdsub4u -> RE: Bisexual Limits - for Males (2/18/2011 9:49:08 AM)
as a bi-male i seem to only like this kind of play when there is a Dominant Female giving the orders, as for what i am willing to do cocksucking, giving, anal, i prefer a strap-on, to a real cock. as for reciving, oral is ok and i do enjoygiving anal to a cross dresser or a sissy male

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