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rockspider -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/20/2009 7:41:54 AM)

That kind of aproach is actually interesting. Shows an IQ about 50. But i guess no sarcasme or ridicule really bites on that type. Block and delete.



littleone35 -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/20/2009 8:44:46 AM)

I would respond. I could not resist saying yeah alright i will let you keep your delusions. then buh bye and block him.

Matt's littleone



odysseyIndeed -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/20/2009 8:46:08 AM)

FR


"No .. I'm not .. but thank you for the giggle"



mnottertail -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/20/2009 8:47:24 AM)

response:

hello



hardbodysub -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/20/2009 9:39:55 AM)

I would probably write something like this:

I think you meant to write "You're" rather than "your", as "your" is a possessive form of the pronoun "you", used as an adjective as in "your stupidity". "You're" is a conjunction of "You are", and is properly used when writing something like "You're an asshole if you think I'm your slave just because you say so on the first message".



AnimusRex -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/20/2009 9:44:21 AM)

My suggestion for a reply:

"Thank You my beloved Master!
I am currently stuck in Nigeria, where my father, a high ranking government minister needs assistance in smuggling vast sums of money out of the country....."



lizi -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/20/2009 5:36:43 PM)

My first reaction was to write back "Why?" and see what his response was. HOWEVER, lets think this through a bit more...

You seem to be an attractive intelligent young guy with much to offer a potential Dom but what does it say about the potential Dom that he takes 'ownership' of you without even finding out if the qualities I mentioned were indeed true? What reasonable adult would claim to own someone that they hadn't even interacted with to find out that they were at the very least sane? What if you had an STD? He just claimed that. What if you were an axe murderer on the run looking for your next victim? I hope he'd be happy with that [:)]

These things are not true but Mr. Clueless Dom has no way of knowing that of course. Why would you want to even consider being with someone who has such low standards that he can't be bothered to find out anything about you? How will someone like this treat you? Will your limits even matter? He can't be bothered to find out anything about you now so perhaps later your needs/feelings/wants still won't matter.

As Rex pointed out you could be an African scammer and this Dom just claimed that as his own....yeah, the Dom is an idiot and completely off his rocker. What a prize. Please don't even consider his ahem 'offer' any more except to block him from any further attempts at contacting you. Look for someone with some standards who wants a quality sub and you'll have that measure of self worth knowing that he took the time to decide that you fit the bill for him.



windchymes -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/20/2009 5:55:29 PM)

I would type back, "I know you are but what am I?" and then dance away to "Tequila"



TimrehIX -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/20/2009 5:58:14 PM)

Just to clarify the “alright” in my head was said with a tone of dismissal. Kind of like saying “Whatever.”

As a rule I don’t reply to anyone who doesn’t use punctuation anyway, but he was hot, had many of my kinks on his profile, was close enough for the occasional weekend visit, was male, and expressed interest. Even if he didn’t have the perfect (or even good) opening line, it still isn’t a combination I encounter often, so I had to think about it.

There are a number of sarcastic remarks one could have made. Believe me I was not oblivious to the possibilities. I just won’t reply. If he sends another message I will either reply if it is better or block him if it is worse.



OsideGirl -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/20/2009 6:13:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TimrehIX

but he was hot, had many of my kinks on his profile,
So, dumb and arrogant are okay as long as he's hot?



lizi -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/20/2009 6:19:49 PM)

I understand what you're saying as to why it crossed your mind that he may have had possibilities. I just wanted to put it out there that my reaction on reading your posting was that you always impressed me here on the forums as having a good head on your shoulders and that you deserved more than the caveman approach. Plus I'd like to see you come back to post again - you have to admit that his approach while being rather novel doesn't speak volumes about his mental health.



AnimusRex -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/20/2009 6:27:15 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

So, dumb and arrogant are okay as long as he's hot?


In guy world, "hot" trumps all others- dumb, arrogant, syphilitic, or criminal.



ranja -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/21/2009 6:30:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AnimusRex

My suggestion for a reply:

"Thank You my beloved Master!
I am currently stuck in Nigeria, where my father, a high ranking government minister needs assistance in smuggling vast sums of money out of the country....."


hahahahaha thas jus brill... perfect start for a hillarious adventure



OsideGirl -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/21/2009 7:16:14 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AnimusRex


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

So, dumb and arrogant are okay as long as he's hot?


In guy world, "hot" trumps all others- dumb, arrogant, syphilitic, or criminal.
Master and his best friend joke about the "psycho to hot ratio". The hotter she is, the more psycho they're willing to put up with.



lovingpet -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/21/2009 7:21:47 AM)

I would be forwarding that gem to my partner and sitting back to watch the carnage.

lovingpet



Acer49 -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/21/2009 9:02:42 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: TimrehIX

So, I am on another site similar to this one, personals with a BDSM theme. And I get a message from a Dom “your my slave now” What does one say to that? My first impulse was to say “Alright.” But I doubt that would be the appropriate response. Also I doubt I should critique his spelling and punctuation. I could bark back a “YES SIR!” But I am not THAT submissive. (At least not right away) And if I immediately kick the submission level to 10 I worry I will be biting off more than I can handle.

His picture is nice but his profile is sparse. There is enough there where I am vaguely interested but not enough to really crave interaction. There aren’t any noticeable red flags. He is about 200 miles away but I live close enough to a major city where he could wind up here fairly often.

Any advice?



If I am understanding your post correctly,I am afraid if someone where to come up, out of the blue, and make such a statement my answer would be "only in your dreams" A dominant of quality would never make such a statement. I would not think that a submissive would simply comply just because someone made a statement.



TimrehIX -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/21/2009 5:05:57 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

So, dumb and arrogant are okay as long as he's hot?


Yep!

Actually, he is hot enough to forgive a poor first impression.

It’s all moot though because I think when I didn’t reply with an appropriately submissive answer he lost interest.



CalifChick -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/21/2009 5:10:12 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TimrehIX
Actually, he is hot enough to forgive a poor first impression.


You're going to hurt yourself jumping to all those conclusions.  You're making the assumption that those are his pictures, that he lives where he says he does, etc.

I'd ask where my slave's tribute was, personally.

Cali



hardbodysub -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/22/2009 10:34:48 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

I would type back, "I know you are but what am I?" and then dance away to "Tequila"


Heehee, I like that.



armand29 -> RE: What to say in reply... (10/25/2009 4:07:00 AM)

Not a smart move.. Just ignore :)



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