NekoSnuffel3000
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I didnt read the second page btw, so i might missed something.
I am submissive, i know im young, i went to meetings when i was 19 irl, been chatting with like minded people since i was 16, altough.. they were often older as well, doh, 16 is pretty young X_x.
Neither have experience in real life with a D/s relation, just saying.. my opinion is from how i see it, i dont say it is that way in general.
Pretty typical for a guy who is a sub, to say they excist, but i think it is pretty rare, how many guys are there who actually want to please a woman, and i mean in non sexual ways most likely as well, since sex, and the kinks, usually should come afterwards.
The same question as someone on the first page, do dominant woman excist?
Usually in your daily life, people still expect certain standards to your gender, if your a girl, and you happen to cry, it is okay. If your a guy, and you cry, your a wuss, should grow stronger.. ofcourse, not everywhere, not with everyone, but if you would make a poll the whole world could vote on, you all know thats true, many people are afraid to open up, because not everyone is open minded, so you tempt to follow the general standards others state you should have.. so i dont blame submissive guys, to pretend their dominant, even if they would like it to be different. I more blame guys who pretend they are slaves or submissive.. while they in the end only want their own sexual pleasure.. which there are alot of.
I can say from my own view, i am submissive, i am a follower, and even though (i used to be very unsure) i try to stand strong in my shoes, if i got the chance i take the oppertunity of another having the upper hand, to like, guide me. This also shows to me im not someone for a vanilla life, but really D/s, because i automaticly fall in love if a woman guides me / takes the upper hand, if im the one who is taking that position, im tempt to get unsure.
I think you can more likely ask, when is someone really a submissive? How often it doesnt happen a sub speaks for him or herself, and is being told, he or she isnt a true submissive.
I personally think others cant say of another, a person isnt a real submissive, or that male submissives not, or barrely dont excist. Maybe with the example, of how to grow up, also plays a big role why people act the way they do, some submissives act like dominants, and the other way around, that doesnt means they are, it most likely means they have to find someone they feel the most comfortable with, to show to how they really want to be.
(apart from fakers, and all)
Honestly i dont like the name of this thread, i know of myself im submissive, even if i speak my mind, i am stubborn, and being told alot, that im not submissive.. so yea, there is such a thing.
(sorry .. for the long post, i was on a roll D=)
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