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Women dating younger women - 10/20/2009 9:18:43 AM

sandra25

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Nowadays society gets more used to seeing women with younger men, how do you all see this with younger women?

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/20/2009 9:26:50 AM

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I couldn't imagine it not being pervasive.

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/20/2009 9:31:37 AM

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It works for me!

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/20/2009 9:32:12 AM

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That's just because you're a cougar.

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/20/2009 9:34:55 AM

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uh, no a Tigress (not your average felix domesticus). you know LT is panting at 25s tits.....

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/20/2009 9:39:08 AM

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oh lord...

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/20/2009 9:42:21 AM

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here I thought you was into girls as well, subtle, you don't gotta call me lord, you can just call me Ron, no sense trying to jack one in my chamber, don't ya see?

LOL......

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/20/2009 9:47:44 AM

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Well, do the cougars among you think that there is a relatively equal number of straight 'cougars' compared to bi or les cougars? Lol, who knows of one :)

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/20/2009 9:57:28 AM

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Seems to me as I search for lesbian female dommes, out on that front page, I get a passel of em, now, if you divide them into age groups, sorta by using your search in an age range (let's say 35 50 or whatever you prefer) how many pages you get? That's where you should be looking. And BTW, you will draw interest out here by posting your intelligent and wholesome self out here, as well.

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/20/2009 10:14:59 AM

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been there, done that. i prefer them younger.

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/20/2009 10:26:21 AM

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I personally tend to date ladies, within a 5 or so, year age gap of my own age. I am 40, about to be 41, dating someone who is 25 or so, would be less inviting to me, simply becouse we would tend to have less comman interests (not to mention I have a child who is 19, and he tends to look at 25 year olds whith glee in his eyes, I prefer not to be in the same dating pool as my child). Most people under 30, tend to enjoy the night life, while I basicly never go to bars. I occasionally go to BDSM events, but that is about the extent of my nightlife. The thought of going out to a club, dancing and drinking till the wee hours of the night, sounds about as fun as a disney cruise does to me.... I would rather poke my own eyes out with hot needles. Most people a great deal younger then myself, have very little or zero interest in someone who doesn't have a facebook account, and who's idea of a great evening involves being at home.

I remember years ago, I was in my early 30's dating (very briefly) a very attractive 21 year old redhead, wow I was in lust, unfortunatly sex was the only comman link we had. I remember taking her to a lovely high end french bistro, she asked for a hamburger, I knew we had no future at all.

My biggest problem with dating, is I am just too damn picky. I have a great deal of interests and hobbies, from hiking ( which requires a certian leval of physical fitness, that many do not have) to great wine, fine cigars, and food. If I go on a date and a woman orders a glass of house blush, when there is a extensive wine menu, I know we proably are not going to mesh. If she thinks fine food comes off a buffet, again we are not going to mesh.

It really just depends on what your seeking, I think beyound the age question comman interests and compatablity are the key things.

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/20/2009 10:37:47 AM

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If I had a female sub (And, that's the only acceptable possibility), I would wish her to be younger though not younger than, say, 25. Men are far more of a priorit for me, though, and I tend toward older than myself there. I connote age and power dynamics related to myself.
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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/20/2009 11:12:31 AM

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Using fast reply........

On my criteria page I believe I have the age range set at something like from 20 - 99, give or take a few years. I do not only consider younger than I at all. I am open to talking to any female of any age. The challenges begin to arise when relationship goals are discussed. What one another's expectations and interests are. Things of that nature.

I want someone that is eager and willing, anxious to explore. Someone that wants to serve me the way I WANT to be served. Not some preconceived idea of what it should be, based upon their previous experiences. That is where the problems usually arise. Most that have served before, have expectations of what it should be.

One thought that because she was taller than I, I should demand she always walk with knees bent so her head was never above mine.
Another thought that I should want to cane her daily because her previous mistress did and that is what "real" mistresses did.
Another thought I should expect her to sleep chained to a post in my basement every night.
Another said I was not a REAL mistress because I took into consideration my family plans before I made plans with her. I was serving my family and not being a real dominant. Her past mistress would have never done such a thing!

All were legitimate. Those were their expectations of a woman they could submit to and serve.

While I understand that all parties have needs that must be considered, I am not going to be a carbon copy of a past mistress that turned them on. I am not going to be me, their way. Unfortunately that is an issue more common in those that have served previously for an extended period of time.........aka not young.

Then there is the maternal facet of my personality that tends to work well with younger women also. Plus, it is pretty damned hot!

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/20/2009 11:42:24 AM

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yeah, LT-----I never understood that woman and fetishes with height thing, I am not a short guy, but I ain't lurch by a damn sight neither, and I think it would be kinda kinky to have a woman tower over me in high heels while I be all Masterful and whatnot......that is a hard road to hoe, getting that done though.......

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/20/2009 11:04:14 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sandra25

Nowadays society gets more used to seeing women with younger men, how do you all see this with younger women?

How do I see it?

Not nearly enough, where I'm concerned. While my preference is for PYTs (Pretty Young Things) of the feminine persuasion, none of them seem particularly interested in a woman of middle years who lives in the Bible Belt.

Alas and alack!

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/21/2009 3:53:29 AM

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As the Dominant female of the Dominant couple I have never had an issue with age of a female as a sub/slave,but as a very mature Domme it is very hard to find one who understands that age should not be a boundary.

When your over a certain age level most females thing your just "too old",hence the search is nigh on impossible once you get over 50 +

Many young females subs/slaves only want mature Doms or young Dommes and I dont fit into either category.

I always thought experience counted but sadly thats not the case..Well in My case it isnt.

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/21/2009 4:30:07 AM

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A very interesting note to add.........something I have found with most "young women", and I say that questioningly, that contact me online........have no real interest actual service. They simply want to try and manipulate the dominant woman into typing out kink. Of the what do you like to do, what will you do to me, variety. There is nothing wrong with that, in and of, itself. But when you have been explicitly clear that the kink is NOT your primary focus, you have explained what your primary focus is, that the kink are the lovely little sprinkles, that you are open to, and love doing, most anything BUT......list.....because it is easier to list the no's than the very long list of yes's.......and they still try to manipulate you into feeding their online wank thrills. Then disappear when you refuse to submit to their expectation.

Yes, I did a little experiment yesterday with the OP. And while I do enjoy younger women, I have no expectations of finding one from the net. The OP only reaffirmed that.

So sandra, if indeed you are the woman you say you are, and you do want a 24/7 TPE, I suggest you rein in your hormones and act like it.

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/21/2009 4:57:15 AM

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quote:

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sandra

Seems to me as I search for lesbian female dommes, out on that front page, I get a passel of em, now, if you divide them into age groups, sorta by using your search in an age range (let's say 35 50 or whatever you prefer) how many pages you get? That's where you should be looking. And BTW, you will draw interest out here by posting your intelligent and wholesome self out here, as well.

Q.E.D.

Happy hunting,

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That seems like an awful lot of work just to come up with a number that probably won't mean much in the real world. Not sure why the answer is so important to some people, but they keep posting the threads asking so it must be.

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/21/2009 5:15:13 AM

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Tiger gee making experiments on young unprepared woman is just mean.

Young women manipulate the dominant to be kinky n disappear if they don't get their fantasies fulfilled??
and me who gave in to a lousy sneaker print instead of a boot print n didn't leave da forums! hrmpf I is offended, such ungratefulness in this place.

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RE: Women dating younger women - 10/21/2009 6:38:19 AM

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Yes, terrible isn't it!?!

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