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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:38:36 PM   
GoddessImaginos


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet


quote:

ORIGINAL: shirowantami

The entire summary of this place so far:

Me: I want to a bdsm too :(

collective: no u, do urself.



*slowly removes my snark hat in genuine heartfelt concern*

Seriously, darling, if you really want this you just need to hang in there, be patient, and learn as much as you can while you are waiting. In the meantime, go out and go to bdsm classes, munches, public dungeons, and whatever other flesh and blood venues you can. I know it can be a horribly long wait with a great deal of heartache. What you are doing here, however, is not helping one single thing. You can be welcomed here and grow to become a valued contributor if you choose to be. You can one day meet that person that will spark your fires and really make life what you always wanted to be. Please put the anger and bitterness aside and move forward in humility and determination. All my best.

lovingpet


*puts down the potato gun*
pet dear, can I have some of that wonderful kind patience with My cookie? Cuz I usually don't have any where infants like this are concerned, cuz they are such persistent legion..

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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:39:04 PM   
sunshinemiss


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fluffypet61

You're kidding, right??? Comparing us to OkCupid.com????
 
Collarme and Collarchat are NOT "dating" sites.
 
Go ahead and leave already.


Hi fluffy,
I am actucally on OkCupid.  I don't really see the goals at that much different really.  And there is an "alternative lifestyles" section.  However, I will say that generally speaking, I find the people on OKC forums to be rather young and impatient but every now and then there is an ace over there worth chatting up a bit.

But, yes, as with the other folks, I find the instant gratification whim to be rather unrealistic.  Life and anything worthwhile requires patience and work. 

Have you ever watched Friends?  Rachel and Ross get together, break up, get together, break up.  It's as if they wanted nothing if they couldn't have the "perfect" everything.  I tend to see that in younger people (heck I probably WAS the same way when I was younger).  It all comes out in time.  Not all of them of course.  and btw - What ever happened to Mad Rabbit?  That guy had some serious brains, mojo, and domliness in one so young.

To the OP: 
May you have what you want and want what you have.  If you are willing to look at your expectations, and perhaps let go of them and see what the universe might be willing to give you, work hard, find people who seem interesting and that you resonate with, you might just find a gift.  My bet is that this expectation mindset is something that you take with you elsewhere. 

And I don't think your profile is so bad.  I didn't click the link or do the control whatever thingy.  But what I saw wasn't so bad.

Good luck in your search,
sunshine

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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:39:13 PM   
CalifChick


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quote:

ORIGINAL: shirowantami

Oh I'm sorry. I didn't know where to find the "Im looking for kinky girls to meet up with and get INTO  the scene with" site. So I came here.



You're in San FranFuckingCisco.  Open your window and yell out.

Cali


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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:40:48 PM   
lovingpet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet


quote:

ORIGINAL: shirowantami

The entire summary of this place so far:

Me: I want to a bdsm too :(

collective: no u, do urself.



*slowly removes my snark hat in genuine heartfelt concern*

Seriously, darling, if you really want this you just need to hang in there, be patient, and learn as much as you can while you are waiting. In the meantime, go out and go to bdsm classes, munches, public dungeons, and whatever other flesh and blood venues you can. I know it can be a horribly long wait with a great deal of heartache. What you are doing here, however, is not helping one single thing. You can be welcomed here and grow to become a valued contributor if you choose to be. You can one day meet that person that will spark your fires and really make life what you always wanted to be. Please put the anger and bitterness aside and move forward in humility and determination. All my best.

lovingpet


*puts down the potato gun*
pet dear, can I have some of that wonderful kind patience with My cookie? Cuz I usually don't have any where infants like this are concerned, cuz they are such persistent legion..


It's the herbal formulation I just started. Just kiddin..... uh.... maybe......



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10 Fluffy pts.


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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:42:00 PM   
DavanKael


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet

My new posting style is rubbing off on you LP! LOL

lovingpet
who will now suck up to Davan to earn her cookies back....pwleeeeease???????



You were just demonstrating for the kid what a sammie is, right?    Come on over, lol!   
  Davan

_____________________________

May you live as long as you wish & love as long as you live
-Robert A Heinlein

It's about the person & the bond,not the bondage
-Me

Waiting is

170NZ (Aka:Sex God Du Jour) pts

Jesus,I've ALWAYS been a deviant
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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:42:39 PM   
GoddessImaginos


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet


quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet


quote:

ORIGINAL: shirowantami

The entire summary of this place so far:

Me: I want to a bdsm too :(

collective: no u, do urself.



*slowly removes my snark hat in genuine heartfelt concern*

Seriously, darling, if you really want this you just need to hang in there, be patient, and learn as much as you can while you are waiting. In the meantime, go out and go to bdsm classes, munches, public dungeons, and whatever other flesh and blood venues you can. I know it can be a horribly long wait with a great deal of heartache. What you are doing here, however, is not helping one single thing. You can be welcomed here and grow to become a valued contributor if you choose to be. You can one day meet that person that will spark your fires and really make life what you always wanted to be. Please put the anger and bitterness aside and move forward in humility and determination. All my best.

lovingpet


*puts down the potato gun*
pet dear, can I have some of that wonderful kind patience with My cookie? Cuz I usually don't have any where infants like this are concerned, cuz they are such persistent legion..


It's the herbal formulation I just started. Just kiddin..... uh.... maybe......




*WOOT*

_____________________________

Delicious and nutritious, does NOT taste like canoli.
~member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair-a's/Mouthy Wenches having been ModSpanked
~10 fluffy points
~RJD RIP xoxo

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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:43:12 PM   
angelikaJ


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quote:

ORIGINAL: shirowantami

I obviously know its not about getting your dick wet. I'm not saying I want a relationship that fits into a textbook dom and sub definition, either.


You mean you didn't get THE HANDBOOK?
No wonder you are having so much trouble...

Don't worry, we didn't either.

Your relationship will be your relationship.
There is no one twue way of being a dom or a sub and if it works for the two of you, that's all that matters.



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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:43:12 PM   
sirsholly


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quote:

There is no reason to serve other than the love to serve.
well there IS the compatibility factor....

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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:44:00 PM   
lovingpet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DavanKael

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet

My new posting style is rubbing off on you LP! LOL

lovingpet
who will now suck up to Davan to earn her cookies back....pwleeeeease???????



You were just demonstrating for the kid what a sammie is, right?    Come on over, lol!   
  Davan


I know nothin about no sammie's LOL But thanks for the cookies!

lovingpet

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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:45:06 PM   
DavanKael


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet


quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet


quote:

ORIGINAL: shirowantami

The entire summary of this place so far:

Me: I want to a bdsm too :(

collective: no u, do urself.



*slowly removes my snark hat in genuine heartfelt concern*

Seriously, darling, if you really want this you just need to hang in there, be patient, and learn as much as you can while you are waiting. In the meantime, go out and go to bdsm classes, munches, public dungeons, and whatever other flesh and blood venues you can. I know it can be a horribly long wait with a great deal of heartache. What you are doing here, however, is not helping one single thing. You can be welcomed here and grow to become a valued contributor if you choose to be. You can one day meet that person that will spark your fires and really make life what you always wanted to be. Please put the anger and bitterness aside and move forward in humility and determination. All my best.

lovingpet


*puts down the potato gun*
pet dear, can I have some of that wonderful kind patience with My cookie? Cuz I usually don't have any where infants like this are concerned, cuz they are such persistent legion..


It's the herbal formulation I just started. Just kiddin..... uh.... maybe......




*WOOT*


Thinks that would be a perfect adjunct to cookies!!! 
  Davan

_____________________________

May you live as long as you wish & love as long as you live
-Robert A Heinlein

It's about the person & the bond,not the bondage
-Me

Waiting is

170NZ (Aka:Sex God Du Jour) pts

Jesus,I've ALWAYS been a deviant
-Leadership527,Jeff

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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:46:25 PM   
lovingpet


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Joined: 6/19/2005
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DavanKael

quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet


quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet


quote:

ORIGINAL: shirowantami

The entire summary of this place so far:

Me: I want to a bdsm too :(

collective: no u, do urself.



*slowly removes my snark hat in genuine heartfelt concern*

Seriously, darling, if you really want this you just need to hang in there, be patient, and learn as much as you can while you are waiting. In the meantime, go out and go to bdsm classes, munches, public dungeons, and whatever other flesh and blood venues you can. I know it can be a horribly long wait with a great deal of heartache. What you are doing here, however, is not helping one single thing. You can be welcomed here and grow to become a valued contributor if you choose to be. You can one day meet that person that will spark your fires and really make life what you always wanted to be. Please put the anger and bitterness aside and move forward in humility and determination. All my best.

lovingpet


*puts down the potato gun*
pet dear, can I have some of that wonderful kind patience with My cookie? Cuz I usually don't have any where infants like this are concerned, cuz they are such persistent legion..


It's the herbal formulation I just started. Just kiddin..... uh.... maybe......




*WOOT*


Thinks that would be a perfect adjunct to cookies!!! 
  Davan


Well that's what the Good Girl, Bad Girl thread is for. Come on over!



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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:46:53 PM   
DavanKael


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet


quote:

ORIGINAL: DavanKael

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet

My new posting style is rubbing off on you LP! LOL

lovingpet
who will now suck up to Davan to earn her cookies back....pwleeeeease???????



You were just demonstrating for the kid what a sammie is, right?    Come on over, lol!   
Davan


I know nothin about no sammie's LOL But thanks for the cookies!

lovingpet


Nah, nothin at all, lol!  You're welcome, don't forget that herbal formula!
  Davan

_____________________________

May you live as long as you wish & love as long as you live
-Robert A Heinlein

It's about the person & the bond,not the bondage
-Me

Waiting is

170NZ (Aka:Sex God Du Jour) pts

Jesus,I've ALWAYS been a deviant
-Leadership527,Jeff

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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:47:20 PM   
shirowantami


Posts: 47
Joined: 10/20/2009
Status: offline 		angelikaJ is a nice lady.

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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:47:52 PM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: shirowantami

I've been online sites for like 4 years and no one has ever sent me a message showing interesnt in meeting me.

Bawwwww.

hmm...'magine that....


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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:48:19 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		There are lots of nice people here OP.



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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:48:48 PM   
DavanKael


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Status: offline 		Look at the traffic is kid's thread is pulling.  If only he were to take the suggestions given him and make those positive changes so many of us have suggested. < nudging the kid then going to look for sledge hammer >
  Davan

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May you live as long as you wish & love as long as you live
-Robert A Heinlein

It's about the person & the bond,not the bondage
-Me

Waiting is

170NZ (Aka:Sex God Du Jour) pts

Jesus,I've ALWAYS been a deviant
-Leadership527,Jeff

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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:49:10 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: shirowantami

angelikaJ is a nice lady.


There are a fairly large number of good people on these forums (I am not one of them mind you) if you take the time to look, communicate without whining, and get to know them.


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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:50:28 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: shirowantami

I obviously know its not about getting your dick wet. I'm not saying I want a relationship that fits into a textbook dom and sub definition, either.


Let Me start over.

My name is Lady Pact.  While I do very much appreciate all of the comedy that you have brought to the boards today, I must say that I don't suffer fools well.

Had I thought you had even bothered to read a book where BDSM is the subject, I may be inclined to think you know what you are talking about.  This thread and the others show the contrary.  It's very obvious that you don't have a clue.

Have you asked yourself the question that I asked you?  If this is your normal behavior, why would anyone want to be in a relationship with you?  Much less a kinky relationship where people have to put their trust and faith in you?  Would you put yourself in the hands of someone acting like a spoiled child?  Would you want to be involved with someone who can't listen to what people are telling them?

It's very rare for Me to write a post on this site and tell someone STFU.  In your case, however, I think that's exactly what you need to do.  There's an old adage that says you can't speak and listen at the same time.  Only one of those allows you to learn anything, and it sure isn't when you're speaking.

One of the most frequently asked question on this site is how to get a submissive woman.  There's only one answer to it, even though it gets said in various forms.  BE THE KIND OF DOMINANT MAN A SUBMISSIVE WOMAN WANTS.  Period.  Quick clue.  The whining, immature, attention whore stuff probably isn't it.


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RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:51:37 PM   
DavanKael


Posts: 3072
Joined: 10/6/2007
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quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet


quote:

ORIGINAL: DavanKael

quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet


quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet


quote:

ORIGINAL: shirowantami

The entire summary of this place so far:

Me: I want to a bdsm too :(

collective: no u, do urself.



*slowly removes my snark hat in genuine heartfelt concern*

Seriously, darling, if you really want this you just need to hang in there, be patient, and learn as much as you can while you are waiting. In the meantime, go out and go to bdsm classes, munches, public dungeons, and whatever other flesh and blood venues you can. I know it can be a horribly long wait with a great deal of heartache. What you are doing here, however, is not helping one single thing. You can be welcomed here and grow to become a valued contributor if you choose to be. You can one day meet that person that will spark your fires and really make life what you always wanted to be. Please put the anger and bitterness aside and move forward in humility and determination. All my best.

lovingpet


*puts down the potato gun*
pet dear, can I have some of that wonderful kind patience with My cookie? Cuz I usually don't have any where infants like this are concerned, cuz they are such persistent legion..


It's the herbal formulation I just started. Just kiddin..... uh.... maybe......




*WOOT*


Thinks that would be a perfect adjunct to cookies!!! 
Davan


Well that's what the Good Girl, Bad Girl thread is for. Come on over!


 

Ooh, greater venues for my pre-returning-to-work surliness?! 
  Davan

_____________________________

May you live as long as you wish & love as long as you live
-Robert A Heinlein

It's about the person & the bond,not the bondage
-Me

Waiting is

170NZ (Aka:Sex God Du Jour) pts

Jesus,I've ALWAYS been a deviant
-Leadership527,Jeff

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Profile   Post #: 119
RE: Just joined this site and am leaving - 10/20/2009 2:53:01 PM   
GoddessImaginos


Posts: 1493
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From: A small blue planet near Alpha Centauri
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: shirowantami

I obviously know its not about getting your dick wet. I'm not saying I want a relationship that fits into a textbook dom and sub definition, either.


Let Me start over.

My name is Lady Pact.  While I do very much appreciate all of the comedy that you have brought to the boards today, I must say that I don't suffer fools well.

Had I thought you had even bothered to read a book where BDSM is the subject, I may be inclined to think you know what you are talking about.  This thread and the others show the contrary.  It's very obvious that you don't have a clue.

Have you asked yourself the question that I asked you?  If this is your normal behavior, why would anyone want to be in a relationship with you?  Much less a kinky relationship where people have to put their trust and faith in you?  Would you put yourself in the hands of someone acting like a spoiled child?  Would you want to be involved with someone who can't listen to what people are telling them?

It's very rare for Me to write a post on this site and tell someone STFU.  In your case, however, I think that's exactly what you need to do.  There's an old adage that says you can't speak and listen at the same time.  Only one of those allows you to learn anything, and it sure isn't when you're speaking.

One of the most frequently asked question on this site is how to get a submissive woman.  There's only one answer to it, even though it gets said in various forms.  BE THE KIND OF DOMINANT MAN A SUBMISSIVE WOMAN WANTS.  Period.  Quick clue.  The whining, immature, attention whore stuff probably isn't it.



*THANK YOU and AMEN*

_____________________________

Delicious and nutritious, does NOT taste like canoli.
~member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair-a's/Mouthy Wenches having been ModSpanked
~10 fluffy points
~RJD RIP xoxo

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